Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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14 about to be 15/F (Grade 9)
Okay, so i'm going out with one of my ex's, and I don't know if it was just a spur of the moment type of thing, but I hung out with him Friday night, it's now Sunday morning. And I don't really have the same feelings for him.
Now my other ex, the one that i'm compleatly in love with, we never stopped loving eachother.
I really want to be with him, and I know he wants to be with me.
But my BF now, before we started going out, said that I better not dump him 4 another guy.
Anyways, I have kind of a bad rep right now at school.
People think i'm a hoe just because i've been out with a lot of guys, BUT I'VE NEVER DONE ANYTHING except making out.
I just want to break up with my bf now,and get my ex back.
HOW DO I DO IT????
Please hurry .
And thanks in advance =) (link)
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I would just be honest with your boyfriend and let him know you don't have the same feelings as you once did before. It's different now, and you're sorry, but you can't date him anymore. And then just awhile before you go for your ex, so it'll give your boyfriend and everything time to cool down and not think you're instantly jumping over from one guy to the next.
And then just talk to your ex and let him know you still really like him alot, and if he'd want to take another chance with him and date you.
And who cares what other people think? As long as you're happy, that's what matters. Half of them are probably just jealous cause you're getting all the guys and they all like you and not them. And just explain to them,"I didn't have the same feelings I once did. Would you date somebody you didn't have strong feelings for? No." And then just explain to them a week or so after you and him broke up, you began talking to your ex again, and things just sort of clicked between the two of you, and you guys decided to get back together.
I hope I helped.
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there is a boy his name is sam and i like him how do i tell him that i like him without acually talkin to him (link)
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Well, if you don't want to tell him face to face, then just do it the next best way - write him a note or email him or IM him. And just let him know that you've been liking him for awhile now, but if he doesn't feel the same way, it's alright, and you hope the two of you can just remain good friends. Better friends then nothing, right?
But if you mean like without talking to him, like..PERIOD including emails and everything, then just start flirting with him a little more every day and make it slightly obvious you're digging him. Just send compliments his way and just sit close to him and everything. But don't be discouraged if he doesn't get you're flirting with him and everything, guys can't pick up on hints sometimes. But hopefully one of his friends'll point it out to him, or hopefully he notices himself lol. I hope I helped.
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14/f
Guys suck. Lets start with that.
Now, you mustt just explain this to me, what happened here. For the past month, this boy, has been like tottaly inlove with me. He would give me the biggest smiles, walk right past me & all that good stuff. I like him too. Then, at this dance he didn't dance with anyone.. or hardly even talking to any girls.. except for somegirl that was dressed like a grape? hahaha. (it was a halloween dance, by the way.) Anyways, my brother invited him to our big Halloween Party. (we invite like 100 kids? yess. its huge & amazing) Anyways, he goes, "Thanks, yeah I'm always so busy with my girlfriends. Does your sister have a boyfriend? Or does she talk to alot of boys? I saw her hugging a bunch the other night." I was hugging other guys, because either A. they were my friends.. or B. because i was trying to make him jealous, HE WAS WEARING SOME CHICKS TIARA okkk.
So, why did he say that?
On some of the stuff that I told you, like how he smiles at me & walks by me and stuff like that.. (you know what I mean, its all that stuff) Didn't you think he likes me?!
So, why did he say that girlfriends thing.?
Please HELP!!! (link)
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It definetely sounds like this guy likes you ALOT.
He probably just said that to your brother because you know, guy to guy, they all have to have all the woman and whatnot, so he was probably just trying to sound "manly" or whatever around your brother, haha. And he probably also figured, it's your brother, so he might mention to YOU that he was hanging with alot of girls and therefore make you jealous. And he also just was wondering if you were single, cause he might've figured one of those guy friends were a boyfriend or something.
You should just hang out with him sometime or walk up to him in school and be like,"Hey! You were at our halloween party, right? Dressed up as ______? Haha, that was a great costume. You looked really good." And just smile at him and get some conversation going. :)
I hope I helped.
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Last night I had a horrible dream. In my dream, my boyfriend left me for my best friend. We got into a little argument, he broke up with me and started dating her. I was heartbroken. I couldn't sleep after I woke up. It is really bothering me. I like this guy so much and I don't want him leaving me for someone else especially my best friend. What could this dream mean if it means anything? (link)
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That's probably exactly what your dream means - you're worried about your boyfriend leaving you for someone else, or just losing him in general because you like him so much. Even if this were to come true ( which I hope not! ) I doubt your best friend would go after him, I mean she's your best friend! She'd never do that to you. And your boyfriend likes YOU, not her. So there's nothing to worry about! I hope I helped.
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I saw an ex of mine (lets call her girl F) in town today, she was actually quite shocked at how i had change.
On MSN, later that day, she asked me if we wanted to get back together...i asked my mate what he think's and he says she's shallow and is after me because i seem 'fit' to her. I do not know how tell tell her that i don't want to get back together. Any ideas on how i should? (link)
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Your friends right ; it sounds to me like she's just getting back together with you because you look different and everything.
I would just be like,"I'm sorry, but I'm not really interested with getting together with anybody right now", or "I'm sorry, I just don't feel the same way". And just ask her if she'd like to be friends.
I hope I helped.
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There is a Taking back Sunday song that i wanna know what it is...
Here are some of the lyrics...
the truth is that you could slit my throat and with my last gasping breath id apologize for bleeding on your shirt (link)
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"You're So Summer". :)
Here's the site for the lyrics:
http://www.sing365.com/music/Lyric.nsf/You're-So-Last-Summer-lyrics-Taking-Back-Sunday/7D92792EDF76F5C148256C1B00091069
I hope I helped!
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ok so this year me and my ex have 2 classes together and whenever im around him all my old feelings for him come back. We broke up a long time ago, and we remind friends but he to told me that all of the old feelings are coming back. we joke around and hang out and we get along great....but im not sure ifwe should get back together. We roke up because I moved away...but then i moved back and we said that we should be friends but now we both want more. Should I get back together with him or no? Any help would be amazing. (link)
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Well you two didn't break up for any bad reasons like alot of fighting or anything negative between the two of you, so why not? :) If you two get along great and are sharing laughs and everything, sounds like a good relationship would come off from the two of you, and you could have a great time! I hope I helped.
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Well I like a few guys. I`ll tell you about them.
Cameron - Hes sweet & cute but he likes alot of people. My best friend once dated him & still loves him. He will flirt with me & then flirt with somone else next period, its kinda painful.
Jesse - Hes a real sweet kid. & we dated once before. He was a amazing boyfriend but i broke up with him over somthing stupid. & now i like him again. He just got out of a realationship with one of my friends.
Kyle - Well he has never had a girlfriend before & i dont think he is boyfriend material but hes fun to be around.
* all the names were changed.
I dont know what to do. (link)
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Cameron - Well, if your best friend still loves him, I wouldn't try and pursuit anything with him. Chicks before dicks, I always say. And even if you were to get together with him, he's probably one of those boys who just continually flirts with people and might not even realize ( they mostly realize it though ), so you'd always have to watch out to see what's going on behind your back.
Jesse - I would talk to your friend about it first and see if she's alright with you dating him again. ( but you DID date him before her, so it shouldn't be that big of a deal ), but I would then just hang out with him more if you don't already do, and just flirt and just pull him over privately and explain to him that you're sorry over what happened before, and you don't even know why you broke up with him, really. It was a stupid reason, but you like him and you just wanted to tell him, otherwise you'd never say it. And if he wants to date, great! If he doesn't, then at least remain friends. Better friends, then nothing at all, right?
Kyle - Well, if he's just fun to be around, then remain being friends. If he's not boyfriend material, that obviously shows how far the relationship is going to go - nowhere ; which is basically like being friends anyway.
So mainly, if you were to go for any of these guys, in my opinion, I would go for Jesse. He seems like the best type of boyfriend ( you even said so yourself he's an amazing boyfriend ), and it seems like there'd be less drama caused ( hopefully none! ) compared to each girl.
I hope I helped!
I hope I helped.
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what is the crazy and funny prank i can do with my cousin?
can u please list at least 3 thanks =)
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Here are some sites I found:
http://www.pranksite.com/
^You can click the top categories for more pranks.
http://fly2dasky.wordpress.com/2006/03/29/101-fun-things-to-do-at-wal-mart/
http://www.zug.com/pranks.html
http://www.commonplacebook.com/jokes/pranks/fun_things_to_d_3.shtm
I hope I helped!
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well there's this guy in my social group so we're always hanging out, ive liked him for about 3 months. and in the past month he's kissed me 3 times and recently i talked to him and asked him where we stand coz i dont wanna be friends with benefits. he said that he really likes me but the timing is wrong and that by winter he'll be ok and that if im still up for it he'll ask me out. im sick of waiting and im not sure if he's just using me. i want him to ask me out soon before he changes his mind or something. is he just using me? and how to get him to ask me out sooner? (link)
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I don't think he's really using you, I mean, you guys have only kissed you three times. If he was using you, he'd be wanting to make out with you all the time and wanting to do more than makeout. I really think now's just not the good time for him to be having a girlfriend.
Something maybe going on with him that's just, making it not a good time like I said, or if he's involved with some type of sport they may be in the final games of the season and he probably wouldn't have any time to spend with you during all those final games and everything.
There really is no way to get him to ask you out SOONER, but just continue hanging out with him more and everything the way you guys have been doing to show him you're still very interested in him, and maybe even ask him why isn't not a good time for him, to just get it out of the way. I know you're sick of waiting, but if he's a great guy, it'll be worth the wait, trust me. And plus, he's already practically your boyfriend cause you guys both like eachother and kiss and everything. It's just not COMPLETELY offical.
I hope I helped.
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hey does anyone know what that song by evanessence call me when your sober means? (link)
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That means the guy is always drunk dialing her ( which means is always calling her whenever he's drunk ) and she's just done with all that crap and him never being there for her. And she's just telling him to call her when he's sober for once.
I hope I helped.
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ok well my best friend called me yesterday and he's a guy and my dad was home and he picked up and asked me who he was and i told him he's one of my friends but im not allowed to talk to guys but my dad let me anyways! so what should i do? cuz i don't want to get in trouble! (link)
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Well it sounds to me like your dad's alright with you talking to guys. If he hasn't talked to about it yet by now, then I'm sure everything's fine. :) I hope I helped.
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Should i stay with my kids dad even though I am unhappy? My kids would be crushed if I left him and I just want them to be happy too. Its been 12 years that we are together. Female, 32 (link)
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Whenever my parents got divorced, I was sad I'll admit and everything cause I didn't want my father to leave either, but I didn't want them to be unhappy, so if you're unhappy, leave. Just calmly explain to your kids that the enivroment you guys were living is was unhealthy and unhappy, and you don't want to do this to them, but it's just not working out between you and their father.
Also, another reason why I wasn't as upset is because I still see my father once or twice a week and then every other weekend, so it's not like I don't get to talk to him and visit him and hang out with him and everything.
Your children will be upset at first, but just be there for them, comfort them, answer any questions they have or anything they want to talk about, and just give them time to adjust to the new enviroment without their father always being around, and soon over time, they'll accept it.
I hope I helped.
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What could be your race if the last name Batista? (link)
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It could be Italian, Cuban, also, my grandmother's last name is Batista and she's czechoslovakian ( I probably spelled that wrong ), so that could be another place where the last name could be from.
I hope I helped.
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ok i just got my friend gorunded because she came over and we uploaded pictures onto my computer from her camera and i guess i accadently deleted important pictures and now her mom grounded her and she called me crying and it made me cry and i feel SOOOO bad too!! also i just got over something happing sort of like this with another friend but what can i do to help my friend? (link)
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I suggest calling up her mother and explaining to her what happened. Just let her know you're extremely sorry, but it wasn't _____'s fault, it was yours. I know it might be difficult to do, but if you really want to help your friend, take the fault for your actions.
Even if it doesn't help ( some mothers are difficult like that and can come up with 9024930 questions to prove you wrong somehow ), I'm sure your friend'll at least be happy that you tried to help her out and take the blame and get her ungrounded.
I hope I helped.
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15/f
okay well there's this guy that likes me and he's going to ask me out i know it because he's already tried but i have no intrest in him but he's just not my type.
he's also in some classes for the slower pple and i don't know him too well so i don't know what to say in rejecting him.
whoa that sounds harsh please help! (link)
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Just in a nice tone be like,"I'm sorry, but I really don't know you that well. Do you think we could just be friends?"
I hope I helped.
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Okay, so at one point, there was this guy that I was involved with for awhile, and he blocked me on line, and when he blocked me, I made another screen name he didn't know in case he blocked the ones he did...recently I had the idea to start talking to him on that sn to like, attract him in a way, get him to want the character behind that sn, and then once I know he likes (her), I'd suggest we meet, and it would be me he meets up with.
I know it's a lot of lying (sort of), and a lot of deceit, but I almost want to do it. Like, start fresh, in a way.
What do you guys think?
Btw we're in college...^^ (link)
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Ha, believe me, I had a friend do the same exact thing and it in no way worked in her favor. Not only did he feel hurt and betrayed by the fact she'd be lying to him all this time and he told her things he wouldn't tell some people and he really had feelings for her, but he wound up not talking to her anymore, and now nothing's going on. I would just IM him on that screename as yourself, talk to him about what happened and why did he block you, and then just get him to like you; by being yourself. And apologize for whatever happened, and just ask him if you two can start fresh. You shouldn't have to play some other type of character just to get a guy. If he doesn't like YOU for YOU, it's his loss.
I hope I helped.
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13/f
k well i'm going to a halloween party and this is what i'm wearing : http://partycity.com/cgi-bin/parties/costumes.cgi?parties=Halloween&productstype=Teen-Female&products=96378&&zoom=1
what shoes should i wear with it? heels are not an option. they annot me and ill feel too trashy lol.
thankks (link)
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Haha that's a really cute costume first of all, ha.
Anyways, since the type of shoes that normally go with those are wooden shoes, maybe try and find some of those flip flops that are made of straw:
http://img.timeinc.net/instyle/images/2006/products/June2/051906_gapbody_01b.jpg
Those, but in either black or blue so they go along with the costume.
I hope I helped.
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Hi.
My sister told one of her friends about me, well he sent me a myspace message and I have no idea what to say back! I wanna do something cute and/or funny.
This is what he said;
Hey *MY NAME* whats up *SISTERS NAME* told me about ya and thought we could be friends if thats ok!
Whats should I say back thats funny? (link)
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Just jokingly message him back and just be like,"Haha, did she really make me sound that amazing? Lol, I'm just kidding. But sure, I'd love to be your friend! Whats up?
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Right, I am not going to give their names for obvious reasons :)
so let's Call Them A B C D E
A is the girl i love, she doesn't want a relationship though i think she's likes me.
B is the girl who is one of my best mates, who really really loves me.
C is a girl who i liked, but then eventually got over, and it turn out now she likes me.
D is first proper girlfriend, who liked me but is now checking someone else, howver, she still says she's in love.
E is a girl I met when out, she likes me, but i don't feel anything for her.
What should I do, because this is messed up ?
Help! (link)
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Well seeing as you don't have feelings for any of the other girls except for A, I say just explain to them all you want to be friends and nothing more, and you're sorry. Don't just choose one and date her because you want to be in a relationship with someone, or don't just sit there because that'll be just be leading her on to getting false hopes and thinking she has a chance.
I would just continue to be friends with all of them like I said, and just try and find another girl that you might be interested, or just wait until A thinks she's ready for a relationship. So just hang around, show A how great of a person you are and everything, and just make her laugh and show her what she's missing.
I hope I helped.
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