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Question Posted Saturday October 14 2006, 4:02 pm

I saw an ex of mine (lets call her girl F) in town today, she was actually quite shocked at how i had change.
On MSN, later that day, she asked me if we wanted to get back together...i asked my mate what he think's and he says she's shallow and is after me because i seem 'fit' to her. I do not know how tell tell her that i don't want to get back together. Any ideas on how i should?


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MelLeDisko answered Saturday October 14 2006, 7:55 pm:
Your friends right ; it sounds to me like she's just getting back together with you because you look different and everything.

I would just be like,"I'm sorry, but I'm not really interested with getting together with anybody right now", or "I'm sorry, I just don't feel the same way". And just ask her if she'd like to be friends.

I hope I helped.

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LadyJade answered Saturday October 14 2006, 7:28 pm:
Hon. the truth is if she only likes you now for the way you 'look', chances are she IS shallow and is not worth your time.

Just tell her you do not think getting back together is a good idea and that you're sorry but you think it's best this way.

It'll save you both alot of time-time that you could put into a more meaningful relationship.

Just keepin'it real.

I'm always here,
Lady Jade

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