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my fault


Question Posted Friday October 13 2006, 1:04 pm

ok i just got my friend gorunded because she came over and we uploaded pictures onto my computer from her camera and i guess i accadently deleted important pictures and now her mom grounded her and she called me crying and it made me cry and i feel SOOOO bad too!! also i just got over something happing sort of like this with another friend but what can i do to help my friend?

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MelLeDisko answered Friday October 13 2006, 4:51 pm:
I suggest calling up her mother and explaining to her what happened. Just let her know you're extremely sorry, but it wasn't _____'s fault, it was yours. I know it might be difficult to do, but if you really want to help your friend, take the fault for your actions.

Even if it doesn't help ( some mothers are difficult like that and can come up with 9024930 questions to prove you wrong somehow ), I'm sure your friend'll at least be happy that you tried to help her out and take the blame and get her ungrounded.

I hope I helped.

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XkittyOkatX answered Friday October 13 2006, 4:37 pm:
this might be kinda hard, and it definately sounds easier said than done, but tell her mom that it was you. Explain that it was a complete accident, and if needed, tell her your friend wasnt' in the room at the moment or something, because hse might try to say 'well ******* should have known better and watched'. That way it wont really change. If you're too nervous to do this to her mom's face, a letter is a great idea, too.

Good luck, and your friend should be able to forgive you and all, especially if you at least TRY to talk to her mom. =)

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DiNOxTHUNDER answered Friday October 13 2006, 4:18 pm:
ok.i know this will take alot of guts,but call up her mom.explain to her that it was your fault and that it was an accident.take the blaim for it.it will really help your friend.something like this happened to me before and i called her mom and apologized.even tho her mom may b angry at first,if you explain that it was an accident and that you would never do it on purpose,eventually she will forgive you.good luck. and feel free to IM me anytime.dinoxthunderx =].

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