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My BF and my EX.
14 about to be 15/F (Grade 9)
Okay, so i'm going out with one of my ex's, and I don't know if it was just a spur of the moment type of thing, but I hung out with him Friday night, it's now Sunday morning. And I don't really have the same feelings for him.
Now my other ex, the one that i'm compleatly in love with, we never stopped loving eachother.
I really want to be with him, and I know he wants to be with me.
But my BF now, before we started going out, said that I better not dump him 4 another guy.
Anyways, I have kind of a bad rep right now at school.
People think i'm a hoe just because i've been out with a lot of guys, BUT I'VE NEVER DONE ANYTHING except making out.
I just want to break up with my bf now,and get my ex back.
HOW DO I DO IT????
Please hurry .
And thanks in advance =)
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That just doesnt't make sense! Tell me why you'd wanna go back to you ex? I mean seriously the two of you obviously broke up for a reason and those reasons will just come back if the two of you go back out.
It kinda sounds like you just need to be single and get your morals straightened out. You dont sound like you're really all that sure of what you want in a guy or anything like that.
My suggestion: Break up with your current boyfriend and just give yourself some time. Time to think about wheather or not you do want a boyfriend. Also to figure out what you want in a boyfriend if you do decide you want one. Make a list of the qualities you want in a guy. Not just appearence but personality traits also. That way you'll know more of what you want in a boyfriend.
Good Luck.
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Thats like tottaly gay. Hes like telling you what to do. Just dump him & go out with the guy you really wanna be with... just make sure, he truly does like you. Like did he say it to you? Hmmm. Just tell the guy, you wanna break up with be like.."Look, your cool & all, but..I really like this other guy better..sorry, I hope we can still be friends."
Who cares, about what the people in school think. If they wanna talk, let them its making you famous. (: haha, old qoute. But, people talk about me alott too, but because they think I'm mean, & can do whatever I want because I'm like pretty & richh. So, I think that basically just proves.. people are retarded.
I hope everything works out, kbye(:
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I would just be honest with your boyfriend and let him know you don't have the same feelings as you once did before. It's different now, and you're sorry, but you can't date him anymore. And then just awhile before you go for your ex, so it'll give your boyfriend and everything time to cool down and not think you're instantly jumping over from one guy to the next.
And then just talk to your ex and let him know you still really like him alot, and if he'd want to take another chance with him and date you.
And who cares what other people think? As long as you're happy, that's what matters. Half of them are probably just jealous cause you're getting all the guys and they all like you and not them. And just explain to them,"I didn't have the same feelings I once did. Would you date somebody you didn't have strong feelings for? No." And then just explain to them a week or so after you and him broke up, you began talking to your ex again, and things just sort of clicked between the two of you, and you guys decided to get back together.
I hope I helped.
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Break up with your ex. I mean, come on, you dont want to be with him. tell him that. im sure that you wouldnt want to be with him if you didnt have feelings for anyone else. so dont tell him about you being in love with some one else. just say that there is a reason you guys broke up a while a go, and you think you made the right decision back then. Wait for everything to cool down a bit before running to your other ex. best of luck xxxx
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