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Does anybody know how i could remember my homework??? Because i always forget and i think i lost my agenda. And they wont give us new ones ??? Any advice would be great ( i rate high)

Take some notebook paper and staple it together.

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I would like to correct my red nose, I had a plastic surgury done and after that I got a lot vains all over my nose and it is always red. I have to put make up all the time to hide my red nose. Please tell who should I go to and how much more or less it would cost me to correct this problem that makes me so sensitive

go back to the place you got the surgery done. they can't just leave it like that after they were supposed to fix it. go back to them and see if they can fix it for a low cost.

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Well im going to this party and i havent ever made out with anyone and like i want to i want to do things like that and how do i without getting scared u kno i dun think i kno how wut if i make out like badly and like its not with a bf just like everyone its a krazy party n all and wut if a guy wants to finger me and id let him but isent that werid

im bri n im 14

you would let a guy u haven't even met finger you? that's not too smart. i don't mean to sound cruel, but, you can get so many diseases from that and making out with a guy you don't have feelings for is slutty. That's just my point of view, I don't mean to be harsh.

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Heyy. Well when I was 10 I guess you could have called what I had a boyfriend, but ever since I came to middle school no one has liked me. Ive liked alot of guys but they never seem to like me back, except at the beggining of 6th grade. Supposedly, after I liked this guy he liked me back, but he asked me out through his friend (a girl) and I kind of realized that if I told her I still liked him that she would tell everyone. Because she's like that. So I told her I didnt, and I found out this year from my other friend that she over-heard them talking and that he was asking me out! Now I feel kind of left out, because at my school, if you've gone out with one person, or if someone likes you and everyone knows about it, your kind of in the relationship phonebook-ish thing.. without the phone number part lol. And now after all of the guys ive liked I really dont think i have a chance with anyone! One of the guys ive liked ive barely even said a word to and its amazingly weird around him now. The other one im kinda friends with but others i dunno.. its just really difficult. All of my friends are hooking up and everything and i havent even had a real relationship. Can you please give me advice!! Any kind of advice would really really help.

thanks!

ps. im 12/f

i understand what you're going through. It's just that, when you get into middle school everyone starts to become really insecure and the guys are just nervous.Don't rush. Fait will find you.

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their is this guy i have liekd for a really long time. hes alsome. the other day i ended up going to his house an we ended up making out and it got around to everybody at school an he didnt dis agree with it. then liek a week later he called me and was liek do you want to come over an help me with my project and when i got their he wgoes im not in them odd to do this. so when ended up making out. an he goes i tohught you didnt like me. and i was liek i dont know mabey i do. then i was liek i tohught you didnt liek me either. and he goes i take wut i can get? and i was liek what does that mean an then in a really cute voice he goes .. baby ur so blonde. wut does i take what i can get mean?

sry..but he's just using you. he seems like such a man whore so just forget about him. i'm sure you can do a lot better.

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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not?

now is the time when she needs to know someone cares. obviously, something is bothering her..that's why she is harming herself. just be patient with her, so she will be comfortable telling you what's wrong because if you don't help things could get a whole lot worse.

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I love my bf sooo much, but I have a big problem. My mum hates him and she used to argue with him big time but now she argues with him. I talked to her, now shes trying to be nice, for my sake but I can still she's annoyed and angry. But i really apreciate it
Anyway, I always got upset when he wouldn't come to my house. I always had to be at his house and it always took a lot out of me because that meant I wasn't home much, especially when we have been together for over a yr.
Now I think Im having problems with his family. They have always sed little things here and there which have made me feel unwelcome but I have never taken it to heart. But then a few days ago I think something just clicked inside me. I changed my hair style and they were like yea it looks 'different' and then they started to talk in another language and I understood what they were saying because my dad comes from that country. They weren't saying the nicest of things. They think I dont understand. Then I was playing with his sisters kid and she started criticising me to my bf in front of me about how I was playing with her. I wasnt even doing anything wrong. I was just drawing with her. My bf stuck up for me. Im not the loudest of ppl and they are quite loud. I just felt soo upset and so uncomfortable. I pretended I didnt hear but I felt myself go red.
Do you think I should talk to my bf about it? Now i feel how he feels when he comes to my house. He hates coming to my house. Now I feel the exact same way in his house.

definetly say something. you shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable. i think what his family is doing is wrong in so many ways and disrespectful. talk to your mom and try to get her to treat him better. still, i think you should confront him.

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i have problems with the way im feeling.. like it sounds weird but i never know how to feel.. like i dont know who i am or what i want or what i like.. im always thinking of what other people like.. i try not to but im always just thinking so much.. please help

i know how you feel..like you are influenced by people around you...write poetry that comes from your heart and some stories too..its a great way for self discovery. poetry expresses your true feelings so try that and let me know how it goes..

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i am going to an interview because i want to become an actress but i am scared because i dont no who is going to be there and i am frightend that i will throw up or do something humiliating. does any one have experience or advice so i can calm down?

i went to interviews but the thing is most of them just want money...be sweet and natural and not loud and obnoxious show you have personality by wearing an outfit that looks different from other people's.

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okay here's my story, about four months ago i meet this boy named ryan at night with my three best girlfriends, they dared me to go up and start flirting with him because they thought he was like the hottest thing ever (i didnt AT THE TIME lol) anyways so i went up to him and i had a REALLY LONg and sweet convo with him.. we ended up trading sn's and phone numbers and we still end up talking until now... and i dont want to sound stupid or anything but i REALLY liek him and i want to know if he'll like me back but i have a HUGE problem. im NOT allowed to date until im fifteen and im 13 now and turning 14 in AUG. and he;s 15 and turning 16 in july...and one more thing, PLEASe everybody PLEASE dont think im like racist or anything when is ayt his but im not allowed to date\marry anyone who sint jewish.. and Ryan is catholic!!! please help..first of all i wanna know if i should disobey my mom bcuz i REALLy like Ryan and it hink he lieks me back and also is there anyone else out there with the whole mom\dating situation!!?!?!?1 lol PLEASEEEEEE HELP!!
-CONFUSED ONE =)

im jewish too so i think i will be able to help and racist has to do with skin color silly! lol i dont think it makes jews look good if we are intolerant to other religions you have your own beliefs but its like judging someone if you don't go out with someone because of their beliefs. if you like him go for it because we are all people regardless of our race, beliefs...etc...

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what are some really good stores to find name brand things that arent to expensive??

aeropostale is my favorite store!!! i always go to the sale sections and you can get hoodies and shirts for about 10 dollars. Pacsun is also a good store but a little more expenisive. It depends if you find a good deal.Do you like limited too? they had j-lo pants for 7 dollars and i used my report card and got those jeans for 2 dollars! u can ask me any questions like these my mom is like a discount expert!

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OK. I'm allergic to fake earings and it really sucks. I can't get those earings with fake silver that only cost a dollar anymore. Is there any way I can were fake earrings(not clip-ons) with getting a rash on my ear?

thanx

i don't think so...i have senstive ears too but sometimes i wear fakes. There's nothing you can do about that so just stick to real ones so you don't get an infection.

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Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!

posters!!!! put random materials on the wall to add texture just make it so everywhere you go there is something interesting to look at, but make the room show her personality. Draw some pictures with deep meanings so when people walk into her room they can get an idea of her personality. Use bright colors that are cheery and make everyone happy.

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I want to start going tanning at this major tanning salon near my house. Im having a problem with the lotions tho. The tanning salon has tons of lotions but theyr all expencive. They reccomend California Tan lotions but does anyone recomend others or like California Tan the best.

thanks.

tanning could burn your insides if it's done too often and it's not healthy at all. also, using those lotions clogs your pores....why do you want to change you skin color...i'm really white and it doesn't bother me...you don't need to be tan to be beautiful

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14/F. Next time my dad goes to the movie store I get to pick a few movies. I prefer scary movies rated pg-13 or R. Movies I like were Saw and the Ring. I personally thought the Grudge was stupid. Any ideas? (I will take suggestions other then scary movies if they are good)

Did you ever see "8 crazy nights" its a hilarious movie!!! and shark tale too is a really good choice

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I am a preschool teacher at a church. The church supplies us with a yearly budget for craft supplies and snacks. My assistant is in charge of getting snacks for the students. She charges these at a grocery store on the church's account. When I checked the receipts I saw that she had charged two inexpensive personal items for herself and the chruch paid for it. She is my friend or atleast I thought she was. The church never asks for the itemized receipts only the total amount. Should I report her?
Thank you

i think you should talk to her and convince her to admit what she did wrong so it doesn't seem like you are doing something behind her back.If that doesn't work, then yes, let the church know because God doesn't like stealing and what she is doing is almost like stealing.

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I`ve had a problem with confidence. I always let what people say, get to my head. Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence?

sometimes that would happen to me because when someone asks me something it's hard to say no. As long as you got a few true friends you are going to be just fine. Just think postively and the day will turn out better.If you go to school knowing your day is going to be great it will be. Try not to let negative things get in the way.

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My friends trying to quit smoking, he asked me for adviced and I told him to use those patch thingys. But is there any other ways to quit smoking? If you smoked, and now you dont..how'd you stop? Thanks and I'll rate everyone!

i never smoked nor do i want to experience it but go online and print out scary facts on what could happen if you don't quit...tell him things lyk there are 2,000 chemicals in a ciggarette and that includes rat poisin...(thats true)

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Hi!
Okay, I have babysat before many times but it is always for the same people and i want to start getting more people to know about me...
I dont live in a little town where everyone knows everyone, i live in a big city and i dont even really know my neighbors...so i can i get it out there that i am an exprienced babysitter and i am 16 and i have a car so i dont need rides...
If anyone can help in any way, please let me know!
Thanks!

post a sign in a public area (that's how i got into babysitting)

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Does anyone know if I can I have more than one Iguana in my house?

~Nokomis~

sure it's your house i'm sure if you put them together they will not get lonely, but don't get a boy and a girl or they will make a lot of little iguanas

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