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i'm looking for a driver to take me places because both my parents work and i can't drive yet. i've searched all over google for housekeepers and drivers in my area, but all the housekeepers only clean and stuff.. i need help!! :[ how can i find a driver?? thats not like a limo or taxi driver..
Have any aunts or uncles or relatives that can cart you around for a day?
Or friends who can drive?
Try some of those people.
ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true?
No I'm pretty sure not.
Some girls wear tampons at age 9 and they are definitly not ready for sex.
Yes .. they could have kids, but they arent finished growing yet.
& no one is ready for it, until their body and mind are ready, most likely your ready for sex when you know you can support having a baby.
I have a question why is it tht no girls ever look at me like everytime i look at them they never look back alot of girls say im cute and wen i get close to them i kiss them and they kiss me back but when i ask them out they tell me no what is my problem?
Please help I Rate High
~Alex~
Maybe they just like you as friends,
& they kiss you because, I dont nkow, they want to kiss you, but have no feelings for you?
What are some good songs for just hanging out with some freinds on a summer night at a bonfire?
Jack Johnson Songs.. his whole cd of "In between dreams" is amazing.
The Fray songs .
Aslyn songs
Or a good radio station that you all like!
Ok, so on new years eve me and my then friend got really drunk and my mom didn't find out until about a month ago. Well she has to go away for the 4th of july weekend and she's like you better work that weekend (what she means is you better not hang out with your friends while i'm gone!) I already said it was a stupid mistake that will never happen again! I need her trust back...and i know this sounds like i don't care or whatever but i still want to party. I mean i'm in high school i want to have the expiriance (sp?)Ok i need her trust back!
Well being in highschool doesnt mean you go to partys and get drunk, I dont even know how old you are.
There are a lot of oppertunitys in highschool to do drugs, smoke, get drunk, but its not the highschool expierience its what people look back when they are older and think, those are highschool mistakes!
Trust takes time, you need to prove to your mom that she can trust you. You cant ask to do stuff to prove it, since she said dont party with your friends, dont do it. Because if you do thats just breaking her trust again, and when you lost her trust, its even harder each time to gain it back.
ok i plan to do the special k plan thing
1.Does it work?
2.exactaly how do you do it?
3.will i really lose 6 puunds if i do it right?
and if i do 50 crunches in the morning and at night everyday when will i see results?
The special K diet, should work, but it depends on what kind of person you are. Not personality no no, but I mean what your body already looks like. Usually when you lose atleast 6 pounds you dont notice it too quickly, and when you do crunches, it doesnt matter how many you do, its how slowly and concentrated you do them, and that is when you will see results.
How do you get a picture as a caption for myspace? I went to tinypic, uploaded one, made it as my caption, and when the picture showed up and it said Post Caption, it just went back to the tinypic site.
Can someone help me step by step?
Thanks so much!
put the tiny pic url in there..
and paste that into the caption!
Hey, I`m the girl who asked the question about the guy who was weird when he called me. Ok so he called me this whole week and things got a lot less akward. Then all of the sudden yesterday i don`t get a call. And I havent gotten one today either. I don`t know what to think, and I`m REALLY hurt.
Well I mean you cant expect him to call you everyday, and you shouldnt be waiting for him to call you. Unless he said he'd call you, but then again boys forget. alot. So if he forgot its most likely innocent, but if he keeps doing that, tell him how you feel!
okay i have to burn a cd for tomrw nights graduation and i need some good songs for it. any suggestions?
and any good songs i could put on a cd for my ex boyfriend that im still totally crazy about. like kinda i want you back, you know you miss me blah blah sorta things? kthanks
For graduation;
Graduation - Vitamin C
Build me Up butter cup- Tommy James (idk why i put that one, but its a happy upbeat song!
Time of your life- Greenday
In this diary - The Ataris
I'll be seeing you - Billie Holiday
I will remember you - Sarah Mclachan
Hanging by a moment - Lifehouse
Goodbye to you - Michelle branch
The Freshman - The Verve Pipe
I go back - Kenny Chesney
The Graduation Song - Dave Matthew's Band
100 years - five for fighting
I hope you dance - Lee ann womack
Summer Loving - Grease
ok well me and my ex just broke up
and my mom said i kinda chased him away because.
he said the relationship was getting too serious
and he said he wants a relationship
where you see then every 3-4 days
and call every 2-3 days or something
and yea we talked everyday on the phone
and saw eachother everyday
but it just wasnt my falut
and he told his friends that hes not going to go abck out with me right now that he will probably go out with me when i get in highschool
hes going to be freshman ill be a 8th grader
and like should i just get over him
and if hes the same person and highschool
ill probably like him again and if im the same person he will probably like me
but i know if he does ever like me again
ill give in easly to liking him...
and my mom said let the guys miss you
and chase you...
is that true they will want you more if so?
like not play hard to get.. but like.......
i dont know...
sorry so LLONNNGGG
Well things change A LOT when your in highschool, and since next year you wont see each other a lot, since two different schools, you'll get over him most likely, and I'm pretty sure he'll definitly get over you.
Well currently if your in seventh and now going into 8th, what does it matter if you have a boyfriend, I think its a far too young age to be in a relationship, you have a lot of time ahead of you, and you'll probably find someone new. :)
I'm going off to camp soon and i'm worried. I went to camp last year and I had a lot of friends. Since all of my friends still live near eachother i'm afraid that I lost all of my friends!
My main point is what could make me more popular? I'm pretty (I think), I wear hollister, abercrombie, and american eagle, and I have friends here? So what would make me more popular and have more friends?
thanks
If your friends are really your friends, they wont care how long your gone & they will welcome you back, and things should be good.
But, popularity doesnt mean squat in the real world, nor does the brand of clothing you wear. Hollister & Abercrombie are just names, of overpriced clothing.
To get friends, you need to listen, care, and talk, have common interests, being nice, having fun together.. etc.
Its social skills and the way you treat others.
The golden rule.
Oh my gosh!! I can't get over my female bestfriend!!!! She is like freaking GORGEOUS!!! She's this really cute asian girl with a really cute booty...ok.. kinda creapy now... so i'm just gonna end it there.... by the way KAYLA!!!! I love you!!!!!
Kallan
I LOVE YOU TOO
yay your cottage cheese house nxt week should be fun!!
Alright my nail lady wants me to highlight her hair which is okay i have no problem doin it but she asked me to feel her hair && i`ve never felt an asian persons hair before it feels like its like fried && dried out so i was just wondering if this will like make her hair fall out or anything..&& is there anything i should do for it before dying it you think;;
♥
Alright, me being asian, I would have to find this racist. Atleast to me it is.
Becauase just because she is "asian" doesnt mean EVERY asian person's hair will be like that. And her hair is no different than anyone elses. Um seriously, just tell her to use some over night conditioner to put moisture back into her hair.
If you arent a professional hair person, maybe I suggest you tell her to go to someone who can do it professionally. They make it look a lot better, and they could help with her hair being dried.
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oh its okay!!
hah i'm sorry i ansswered the questioned kind of um not the nicests iwas took it the wrongway
I'm 13 & I've been going out with a guy from my grad since May 3rd. We get along great & we were really good friends before we started dating, but now, I'm starting to notice that he seems like much more of a friend to me than a boyfriend & I don't really love him like I thought I did, but I still want to go out with him just becuase there is still some feelings left. It's summer & we haven't had a lot of time to hang out so that might be part of it, but still. When his last girlfriend broke up with him, he was crushed & didn't talk much at school & he wasn't anything like his normal self. I felt so bad for him, & I just can't do that to him like she did. I'm so confused.
Okay dont keep dating him, if you really dont like him like that. And can I please add that your thirteen, and its not healthy to be in an intense relationship at this age, so just becareful. If you dont like him dont lead him on, maybe he feels the same way you do, that your just friends. But then again its always a plus to feel like your best friends with a guy when your dating him. Its comfortable. And maybe it is since you havent seen him that much since its summer, so .. what do you do? call him to hang out, or to go do something, seroiusly :)!
And dont look at what happened when he broke up with his last girlfriend, you are not her, and he is not the same as he was then. He may be perfectly fine with breaking up this time.
You need to be fair to him though.
I'm going to another state for a few weeks...to see my cousins. What could I do so I don't miss my boyfriend too much? I fear I may miss him too much to the point where I'd want to stop completely to cease any sad feelings. And since I got hurt in past relationships-- I'm not trying to get too attached just in case he decides to break up with me when I'm away. Besides that, what could we do so nothing wrong happens? We figure some instant messaging and a few calls... but I don't know if that'll help that much at all.
It sounds like you need your boyfriend a little too much, since you say you might miss him too much. Thats not exactly healthy.
Okay but anyways, just enjoy your time with your cousins, you shouldnt have to worry about him breaking up with you, or how things are going ot be when you get back.
If this guy is good and he cares about you, he'll deal with the fact that your going on a vacation, and that he wont be able to see you during that time.
Meaningful relationships arent supposed to mean that you "try not to get too attached" I mean, you grow on a person, thats what they call love. If you guys are in a good relationship, dont worry about breaking up. I think the only reason he'd break up with you now is not because your going away for a few weeks, but becuase your trying to "not get too attached" its a smart Idea not to get to clingy to a guy, as to the point of needing him everywhere, all the time. But you learn as you get older, to be close to someone, and learning that your feelings get hurt, but they dont stay hurt.
I really need help. My bf doesnt trust me and its really hard. Im dealing with it but i want to know what to do to help him trust. Im not really a person who asks for help but i could do with some advice. He has good reasons not to trust, really serious reasons and stuff, but i want to help him. I love him so much but hes always accusing me of cheating, sleeping with people, etc. I think hes getting better but i dont know what else to do to help. Please help, tell me what i can do.
thanks
Well part of being in a relationship is trust. You have to learn to trust each other. So does your boyfriend not trust you, because you did something? Or is it personal, like he's been lied to and cheated on before many times? Because if thats the case, you had nothing to do with the other people that have cheated on him or have hurt him. He needs to realize that not all people have bad intentions, and he'll never know if he doesnt learn to trust. If he loves you and cares for you he will make more effort to trust you.
Sorry if this is the wronge category.
Okay, my boyfriend of over a year is turning 21 soon. Problem is, I have no idea what to get him. He is really into the punk/goth stuff. Any ideas?
Well ..maybe cd's he likes?
ahah or alcohol :) since he'll be able to drink.
Haha haha just a suggestion.
But what about buy tickets to a concert of band he likes?
I havent had my period for 4-5 months!But im not pregnant why is this?PLEASE HELP!!!
Well if your young your period wont be regular for quite a while, but if your worried about it, see a doctor!
hi i was wondering... i have windows movie maker and i wanted to upload a video on there to youtube and i dont know how. i know you are supossed to save as movie file but i dont know to what like email or web and all that stuff. thanks for your time xoxo
If you make a movie on windows movie maker when you save it, do save project, save to the computer, and when theres a drop down box, pick the one that says "high quality" and it will ave it, so you can upload it on youtube or photobucket, or tinypic.
www.tinypic.com
www.photobucket.com
www.youtube.com
You have to make accounts on youtube & photobucket though.
this seemed like the best column to me, sry if it's not in the right place.
i have serious trouble sleeping. for example, right now it's midnight and i am dead tired. so far i've layed down to go to sleep about 4 or 5 times. every time i do, within 15 to 30 minutes i start to feel very restless. i toss and turn, i try different positions, i sit up and lay back down, and various other things. what should i do? should i go so far as to see a doctor?
~anonamousadviceseeker
OH my I've had that too!
Its like my legs and body cant stay still and I just need to move, but I'm so tired!
The best thing I've found is watch a little tv, or read a book, or exercise, to get rid of the twitch. If that doesnt help, you shoudl see a doctor about sleep problems.