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I'm going to another state for a few weeks...to see my cousins. What could I do so I don't miss my boyfriend too much? I fear I may miss him too much to the point where I'd want to stop completely to cease any sad feelings. And since I got hurt in past relationships-- I'm not trying to get too attached just in case he decides to break up with me when I'm away. Besides that, what could we do so nothing wrong happens? We figure some instant messaging and a few calls... but I don't know if that'll help that much at all.
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Have him write you a note before you leave, and read it whenever you miss him.
Bring pictures of him.
Talk on the phone whenever you can, but not too much, because too much of one person causes tension.
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I think you will be alright, it's only a few weeks, right?? You could send him some letters and call him like once a week or maybe a little more, but I don't think it would be a good idea to keep thinking about him breaking up with you, because if you stress about it so much, you could end up bringing it upon yourself, and that's not something you want! I can understand how you could be scared if you were hurt previously, but dwelling on it can make it worse, so just try to have fun with your cousins and I think you and your boyfriend will do just fine!
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It sounds like you need your boyfriend a little too much, since you say you might miss him too much. Thats not exactly healthy.
Okay but anyways, just enjoy your time with your cousins, you shouldnt have to worry about him breaking up with you, or how things are going ot be when you get back.
If this guy is good and he cares about you, he'll deal with the fact that your going on a vacation, and that he wont be able to see you during that time.
Meaningful relationships arent supposed to mean that you "try not to get too attached" I mean, you grow on a person, thats what they call love. If you guys are in a good relationship, dont worry about breaking up. I think the only reason he'd break up with you now is not because your going away for a few weeks, but becuase your trying to "not get too attached" its a smart Idea not to get to clingy to a guy, as to the point of needing him everywhere, all the time. But you learn as you get older, to be close to someone, and learning that your feelings get hurt, but they dont stay hurt.
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