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Q: you know..i've always wondered this, and i'm gonna ask this and see if anybody knows.
when someones birthday is November 29th
well you know sometimes there's no '29' in months, like the last day could be the 28th.
how does someone have a birthday? or do they just don't celebrate it?
has this ever happened to anyone? or am i just crazy? haha!
thanks.
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do you mean in February?
November has 30 days...
February has 29 or 28...it alters every 4 years, I think?
My friend's birthday is February 29th
and she gets to celebrate it genuinely every 4 years...she just celebrates it after the 28th and before the 2nd of March :]
but I'm not so sure about November...maybe you mixed the months up lol
:]
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Q:
i love old bands like.
the beach boys.
savage garden.
& the monkees.
can you name some other good bands and/or songs? :] thanks.
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The Beatles, Queen, Led Zeppelin, Journey, Elton John, Fleetwood Mac, Billy Joel.
Good luck :)
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Q: im 13 and ive given about 5 handjobs,all to the same person,do u think im a slut. i gave my first handjob when i was about 7 and my most recent when i was 12. the guy wasnt my BF but he was my best friend and still is. ive always loved him but hes never felt the same way do u think he was useing me?
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You're not a slut if you "do" it to one person, so no.
Yes, I think he was using you for his own sick pleasures.
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Q: I currently have a rather large camera, this one to be precise -
http://www.target.com/dp/B000NOEDGK/qid=1193199689/ref=br_1_3/602-0154949-2815048?ie=UTF8&node=160174011&frombrowse=1&index=target&field-browse=160174011&rank=pmrank&rh=&page=1
So yeah I really enjoy photagraphy and I want a nice camera, i am very happy with mine, but I am moving to south america for 1 year next year. So basically I want something smaller but still good quality and cheap because flashy things get stolen easily in some places in south america. I just want like a regular digital camera. have any suggestions??
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Sony Cybershot. They have different megapixel types of cameras and they come in really small sizes and different colors :)
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Q: hi. i am 13, and i know this kid. hes lives in the next town, but him and his friends are really good friends with the boys in my group of friends. anyways, hes been telling me he wants to do stuff with me. i thought originally he ment like making out and stuff, but he recently told me he wants a handy. do you think i am too young? i need answers faast because we are hanging out tonight and i think it might happen. also, how do you give a handy?
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In my opinion I really do think you're much too young. Don't let anyone ever make you do what you aren't comfortable with..Or if you aren't ready.
Being your age, if I was you, I wouldn't.
I'm pretty sure giving a "handy" is giving a handjob. Look it up on google.
- xxxRadioGagaxxx
15/f.
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Q: hi, i know this might be a little too much information but i AM pretty nervous for some strange reason. First off i NEVER had sex in my life, i have done other things but sex isn't one of them. anyway. i am really nervous because my period the past 3 months has either been on the 7th or 8th day of the month but its now the 10th and i still haven't got it is that normal for a 15 year old girl?
please help asap. thank you =]
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Don't worry about it. Periods don't always come on the same days. They could be even more irregular for some people. It's perfectly normal if your period arrival date is like 3-5 days off. Gooood luck =]
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Q: Well hi, hope you are fine and...well my problem is: I have a friend that I really like...and he is so nice with me and all...but now that I am living in Usa and he is in Mexico I dont know if I must continue with my lige and stop having a crush on him or keep trying meking him my BF...please I wait your advice? OH! and how can you know if a guy likes you?
Atte: Lidia Caddison, 15 years
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Hey, I appreciate you asking :) As far as I'm concerned, you should move on with your life. Unless he's willing to move to the United States, liking someone in another country won't do you good. It'll hurt your feelings too much. And you wouldn't ever get to know anything about who the person sees and what the person does. If you two are still friends, which you probably are, then good :D Keep that friendship up. Maybe, one day...when things go bad for you or him, you two might work a relationship out :) You can still like him, nobody's stopping you from doing that. But don't become obsessed: It WILL ruin you. Like people might say: Meet new people.
Also...how can you know if a guy likes you?
Eye contact is important. If he looks at you, and maybe even smiles for no reason : There you have it. He definitely has some feelings for you.
If a guy strikes up a conversation for no reason, he's interested in what you have to say. If he flirts, plays, pokes or giggles in your presence, he definitely likes you as well. Just little things, you know? Not always physical. If he moves his seat next to yours... ;]
Good luck, dear :)
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Q: First off, I'm 17/M and she is 16/F
ok, well a few months ago, i met this girl on xbox live (internet games if you didnt kno and i didn't anticipate meeting girls) and i started talking to her and we really started to like each other. well the thing is, she had a boyfriend irl at the time that didnt really treat her how she deserves and she says that i cheer her up alot. well, soon after that, she gave me her number and we started to text alot and talk on the phone and whatnot while they were still together. well when we went on vacation (not with each other but at the same time) her boyfriend broke up with her and a week later she said she was over him. we talk everyday for at least a few hours if not more and she lives in connecticut but i live in virginia. well anyway a week after her boyfriend broke up with her, she said she was over him and that she would never go back out with him. well a few weeks after school started her ex says that he still has feelings for her and that he doesn't have those feelings for his current girlfriend. well she then tells me she also has feelings for her ex still so i dont really know what to do. Im 17/M and she's almost 16/F and i was trying to figure out a way i could meet her and we could be together. She's says that she doesn't know what she is gonna do yet but she says that if i lived in connecticut that we would have been together for a couple months now and that she wouldn't have feelings for her ex. Please help me out and give me suggestions on what i should do, and what are the best possible options for us to meet.
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Hey, well..I appreciate you asking me. Virginia and Conneticut aren't the farthest apart, you must know. The situation would've been tougher had you lived in Florida and she lived in Conneticut. So this isn't bad. Don't stress too much over the distance thing. I wanna know though. Do you guys communicate in ways other than the telephone? Such as MSN, AIM, etc? If so, this could broaden your chances. How? Well, you could become more acquainted with each other. I don't know too many details and I won't ask too many either, but from what I can tell...you probably haven't told your parents or anything. If you have, then they should at least acknowledge the fact that you're fond of someone who lives in another state. Do you know anyone else that lives in Conneticut? Maybe someone that lives closer to her? If you do, then have them meet up with her (although, this isn't the BEST thing to do)
I must suggest THIS though: Don't be too clingy with her. Don't kill yourself and think that this is BOUND to happen and that she's definitely yours. She's not. You have to face the fact. Can there be a relationship established? Yes. If you guys do something about it. You both must play your parts. Remember...there is never just ONE person. There's always more than one. And whoever, you or her ex, acts first....then she will obviously go for that person. If her parents don't know and you go over there to visit her and whatnot, I'm sure that wouldn't be a very pleasant situation for the either of you. So, let your parents know that you're 100 % serious about this, if you are..
Now, I'm sorry if I rambled..But here are MY suggestions:
1. Meet in a place closest to the both of you. You know what I mean? As in...another state. Don't meet her at her place...and don't let her travel to your place.
2. Waiting for a vacation is one of the best things to do. My boyfriend and I did just that. We met on winter vacation in another state. Beg your parents to take you to another state for vacation. A state that she can go to as well.
3. Another option is pretty drastic. But it could work. : Sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel. Ask them to arrange a place and time to meet with her. Let her know to do the same. Let your parents talk to her parents :)
You must know one important thing though...when you turn 18, since she's younger than you, you could get in trouble with the law. Because she would be considered a minor. So it's best to try and meet as soon as possible.
While you can't keep her away from her ex..try getting closer to her instead. Just by talking and communicating more. I'm not trying to flatter you or anything..but usually, from the people I've met with and talked to, exes rarely get back together. But I wouldn't know her situation.
I hope all turns out well...And that I at least helped somehow. Good luck :)
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Q: Alright, I swore to myself I would never let this repeat itself but it has, and now I got a problem.
Well I was just browsing through chats one night, being silly with my friends, and I met this guy and started to talk to him. Well now I REALLY like him. And he's said before he really likes me as well, and my friend confronted him the other day because he mentioned on his page to some girl he was talking to that he fancied her. And he told my friend that he loves me, but would we ever meet? [ Cause I live in America, he lives in Scotland ].
And I just feel like yeah, I would LOVE to meet him, but he doesnt' seem to wanna take the chance and try and meet me or anything. And I just hate having to sit here and watch him mention other girls while I don't like anybody else [ I don't know I'm the kind of girl who only likes one person at a time ]. I try all the time to drop signs and hints that I want him to visit, that I like him and everything, and I KNOW he's picking up on them; he must be blind if he isn't.
I just don't understand.
I guess I'm just looking for others tips, advice, point of view?
Anything, basically.
I just feel lost.
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Yep. I'm totally in the same situation...It's a small world, haha. It sucks, doesn't it? I'm not even gonna tell you to meet new people or anything. Because that's probably what everyone else might say. I'll say something from a different point of view, instead of scolding you. My advice is: Just confront him and yell at him or something. Tell him that you like him, you want him to visit, and if he has any feelings or respect for you, that he shouldn't really mention those girls in front of you. BUT - don't be too picky about the whole 'girls' part. Guys tend to get annoyed when you're trash talking their many "girls"...(do you have proof that they're real and he's not lying?)- He will think you're jealous, and that just might ruin your friendship. Now, I must advise the #1 important thing - Make 100 percent SURE that he's not some 67 year old pedophile who lives in a box or something. If you got past that - good. Try communicating with him in other ways. Voice talking on MSN or something...webcam. Get closer to him. Ask him what he really thinks of you. Act cute, send pictures and ask for pictures back :) (nothing bad, of course) and no matter what...whenever he mentions his girlfriends or whatever, act NICE. =] Even if you don't mean it. Also, make sure to repeat that "Oh..I'm going to Europe this summer" or something..."Wanna visit me? or should i visit you?" You sound like a pretty knowledgeable person....You question whether you'll meet or not. Well, don't get too upset about that part. Most, if not, some.. relationships like this do eventually work out :) I hope all is for the best...and honestly....if you have ANY questions or anything, ask me. I know about these things and it interests me...=]]]]
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Q: i accidentally threw out my photobooth.. and ive tried many ways to get it back, is there anyway i can get it back..
HELP IS APPECIATED
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With your mac, you should've received the software/operating systems and tools CD-Rom for Mac. It comes with all computers, including mine. When something went wrong and I couldn't start some of my programs, I just re-installed the software. However, if this doesn't work, technical support is always helpful. www.mac.com
Another thing you can do, is make another user account and make it the administrator. That way, you will have a clean mac account with all the features and softwares including your photobooth.
Also, if you're going to reinstall your software or the entire operating system, you might want to recover your files.
I hope everything turns out well..
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Q: I have photobooth on my MacBook, but it seems like the photobooth image appears darker then I normally look. Is there anyway I can change the settings so it would appear brighter and not as dark.
Thank You
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I have the same problem with mine...What you could try doing is placing your thumb on the camera (yes, directly on it) and I find that it makes your pictures lighter. Or, you could use your imac in more lighter sorroundings. But the first option helps me more. Unfortunately, though...there isn't a setting that makes your pictures lighter. So far, it depends on your sorroundings. Good luck :]
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Q: okay well how do you let a guy kno you dont want to go out with himm if he likes you a lot and you dont like him at all?!
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you could
1. say that you have a boyfriend
2. show him that you don't like him in any way possible
3. tell him that it wouldn't work out
4. tell him you're a lesbian
5. say that your parents don't allow you to go out with guys
6. say it straight in his face without being rude
something along the lines of "I'm sorry...but i don't like you in that way. we can just be friends though :)"
and finally, what I did..was flirt with other guys and show that you like them more than him.
=] best of luck to you.
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Q: I need a song about you changing,
like instead of your friends and you growing apart and stuff,
more like you changing over the years.
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Changes - David Bowie.
..I thought I'd give it a shot. lol
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Q: 15/f
Guys always flirt with and tease my friends.
It's the very rare one that does so with me. Instead, most are polite to me. Ex: if a guy accidentally bumps against me (softly), they apologize: "Sorry".
They make fun of my friends but do stuff like open my doors.
Why don't they flirt with me and instead act so polite?
Thanks.
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Maybe the way you act around guys is different? Are you shy? Are you introverted? Are you polite yourself? Remember, guys like girls that are easy to "get to". And they LOVE the girls that allow guys to "tease" them. The ones that giggle at every one of their actions and act like they love it. Do you act like that? Maybe they think higher of you...Or even respect you. Perhaps they like you! :D If you want them to flirt with you, try to be more outgoing. :)
Good luck =)
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Q: k so i just went to american eagle and got this cute marroon overshirt with a kinda hood. and for the first day i wanna wear that with a white lacy undershirt and jeans with white flip flops. do you think this would be ok?
and i live in florida and its been really hot latley, so do you think anyone will wear jeans or should i wear shorts? i really dont like wearing shorts because i dont like my legs and you cant go wrong with jeans =D
what are you wearing and what do you think about me?
thanks!
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heyy..I, too, live in Florida. Where I live, EVERYONE wears jeans, whether its to school or to the supermarket...and on the first day of school (this monday), lots of people wore jeans. Including me. I wore jeans and a tea shirt lol.. As for your outfit, it sounds really cute and I think you should go for it :D Remember..if you don't feel comfortable in shorts, then you aren't implored to wear them lol. Good luck! =)
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Q: a guy left this on my myspace. what is it supposed to be?
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(O)
thanks!
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Q: i cum too easily
and sometimes i wake up and cum just
come right out.klike nothign wihtout me getting horney.idont knwow hats wrong with me!
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It could be "nocturnal emissions" orrrr 'wet dreams' lol Nothing's wrong with you. It's perfectly normal and happens to everyone. I'm assuming you're a guy. So yeah, it's normal and there's no need to be alarmed. :]
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Q: I've always laughed at people who had "online relationships" or any significant interaction with the opposite sex. My sister had a 2 year relationship with a guy she met online, and they HAVE met in person a few times. My point is that I was totally against it and I kinda feel bad 'cause i ended liking someone i haven't even met.
I guess i can say it's different cause i didn't search for him online or anything. He liked my friend (they met online). I was always the middle-man (woman?) always three-waying them on the phone and letting them talk and have them hang up whenever. She'd even tell me to go online and talk to him for her if she had no access to the computer. This went on for a like, a month.
Well I've always known my friend had a fake side, actually, she was starting not to be my friend at that time but i still dealt with her, even when not many people liked her either. But then I knew something wasn't right. so I decided to IM the guy she liked (Jake) and asked him a few questions. I asked "so what does Kiara tell you about herself?" and all that. And what he said shocked me. The way she portrayed herself was a whole different person.
Time went on, and he stopped liking her 'cause he hated liars; "constant" liars. so we just started to talk as friends and from then, we just kept talking. Usually; with the guys here where I live; i get tired of them too easily and they get annoying really fast. So one night when Jake was talking; he managed to hurt my feelings, and bring my mood back up in the time span of 10 seconds. No guy has done that before. He can get really annoying but for some reason, I still liked talking to him.
So time went on and we talked regularly on the phone, and AIM and all that. But I get too paranoid 'cause he HAS liked other girls he's met online and he still talks to them. I don't think it's right to get jealous since he IS single. But i guess its just natural girl instincts to do so. So he's in California visiting whoever (I happen to live in California) and he's gonna be visiting North Carolina where a girl he used to like online lives.
SHOULD I BE JEALOUS? SHOULD I MOVE ON? I decided at one point to avoid talking to him completely but that failed. I get so jealous thinking he's on the phone with somebody else. He even admitted that there was a girl Vanessa he used to like A LOT he almost thought it was love. I AUTOMATICALLY HATE HER. I don't think this is healthy for me to mope over some guy I met online. Rereading what I typed, i sound like some sick over emotional girl. Should i just try and get over him? Since there is no point in chasing something that'll never happen.
I doubt anyone would read this whole thing and answer, but that's okay. Typing it all out for a few someones to see really helped. Thanks in advance?
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Hi. I'm sort of in a similar situation as you are. The guy I talk to online has got me wrapped around his finger. He can change my moods in SECONDS and he too has lots of girlfriends online that he constantly talks to and communicates with. It drives me nuts too. Any girl he talks about makes me automatically hate her. Even if I don't know her. I, too, am confused about it. You're probably asking yourself right now "what is wrong with me? Why am I so upset over a guy I met online? Why does he [sometimes] control the way I feel?" I can't really think of an answer for you about this. It's hard not to talk to him. Trust me, I've tried it. The only thing there is to do...is to imagine him, as some worthless guy you met online, who can be 90 years old, for all you know...providing false information and probably masturbating to pictures of girls he meets online. That makes *ME* feel somewhat better about the situation I'm in. I don't know if this has anything to do with you though....are you physically attracted to him? do you think it's romance? or is this guy just so nice to you that he gives you a lot of attention? If it is that, try to think of him as a pedophile. And limit your time chatting with him. Try to see what kind of person he is...because he WONT stop talking to so many girls...and he won't stop messing with your feelings - YOU have to do something about it. You either can
a. Delete him from your mind, address book, and contact list
or b. Limit your time talking to him.
There are, of course, other possible choices.
Why are you "tormenting" yourself over him so much? For all anybody knows, you could be the LAST thing on his mind. And wasting all your thoughts on him for no reason.
I really hope I helped and my advice was higher than a 1 rating..I wish you the best. And I want it to work out for you, since I'm in a similar situation..=] If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to e-mail me.
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Q: mmmmmmmmmkay, so there's this girl at my school, she's 12, I kinda talk to her sometimes but not very often... her and her boyfriend had sex the other night and I really want to tell her that shes WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY to young and making a VERY bad choice... I just dont know HOW to tell her. HELP
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Straight up, go up to her face and tell her that she's wrong. Because if you don't tell her, then probably nobody else will. (If they don't know about it). This could lead to pregnancy or some horrible STD. Better yet, tell an adult.
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Q: if you go to planned parent hood for an abortion. will they let you do it with out letting your parents know ? and how much does it cost ?
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I don't know much about this. But I think you must be 21 years or older to make the decision to do this by yourself. If you're less than that, you have to have your parents agree with you. And I guess the cost varies ...depending on the age of the...you know.. =(
Good luck...and sorry I couldn't provide much info.
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I'm Annie and I'm 16. I know a lot about being stressed and anxious and all those things teens go through. I also know a great deal about relationships. I just went through a breakup and I know what guys can be capable of doing. I'd love to help. ;]
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E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 16 Member Since: July 18, 2007 Answers: 67 Last Update: June 23, 2008 Visitors: 5056
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