They had been having sex for weeks. Turns out he was having sex with her before he was having sex with me! :-( I dumped him and I dumped her as my friend. This has kind of screwed up my life and I have some trust issues now, but if you hadn't encouraged me to do the right thing I might have forgiven him and stayed in that relationship! That probably would've killed me by now. Thank you!

Thank you so much! I was considering the env2. =) I heard a lot of good things about it.

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Thanks. that really helped

Yes...I know when I write I do everything well its scary I just shorten it up here 4 ppl...internet talk helps so I know when 2 write well w/ good grammar and punctuation so thanks and I'll do that...:D

thank you :)

The thing is, have you ever seen Clerks? There's that moment where he realizes that the girl he's having problems with is actually a lot better for him than he thought, and lost her because he didn't realize it sooner. I don't want to end up pulling that because I quit early.

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thank you i was starting to get worried..ha ha

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Thanks! And yes, i am a girl. =]

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thats really helpfull. im gunna do that. maybe when they break up he'll come back to me! thankks alott<3

Thank you for the really detailed answer. You helped me a lot! Keep up the good work.

Thank you SO much. I knew whenever I wrote this I'd probably be getting some sarcasm and negative things from people, so it's nice to hear things from someone whose in the same boat. :] And believe me, I totally made sure he's not a pedophile, haha! We both got cams, so I've seen him on that and stuff so we're both real teenagers haha. And yeah, I know how they get annoyed which is why I'm not sure exactly what to do. Well it's not total for sure proof and of course I got it from the relationship ruiner for people - I saw it on comments on his page and everything of him telling girls they're hot and a bunch of stuff like that. Yeah I'm so skeptic about this. Like I'm pretty positive we'll never meet, but I still wanna give it a shot and at least say I tried. It's pretty much all on him now wether he really wants to meet me [ he's out of school and 18 whereas i'm still in school and 16 so he's more able to come over here then I would be to over there ] so hopefully he'll want to or something. Yeah I just gotta figure out how to tell him these things. I keep dropping little hints and he'll sometimes say cute things back so I have the feeling he truly does like me, it's just the whole distance thing that's setting him off. I just hate confronting guys about things, haha. :S It always makes me nervous. But anyways, thank you SOSOSOSO much! <3

omgahd. *our situation sucks. we should talk on aim sometime! *GirlUnlabeled

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I'm Annie and I'm 16. I know a lot about being stressed and anxious and all those things teens go through. I also know a great deal about relationships. I just went through a breakup and I know what guys can be capable of doing. I'd love to help. ;]

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