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friend= IN TROUBLE. :l
mmmmmmmmmkay, so there's this girl at my school, she's 12, I kinda talk to her sometimes but not very often... her and her boyfriend had sex the other night and I really want to tell her that shes WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY to young and making a VERY bad choice... I just dont know HOW to tell her. HELP
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As sad as the way young girls are behaving, it's just not likely that she will listen to you, but theres definitely no harm in pulling her aside and saying that as her friend you advise her to slow down.
Just try not to expect her to just say,"Oh ok, I won't" and then not do it anymore. But,if you ever get to know her mom, that's who I'd go to. I mean 12? Sheesh she could end up pregnant in a year.
-TheTeenGirl
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just tell her exactly that, dont pressure her, and dont act like her mother, i would just say something like, you know i bet sex is great, i want it myself(if you dont make her sound like the bad person or all alone in sexual desire she'll be more comftorable) but it is really dangerous and im concerned you'll get hurt maybe give her some statistics about std's or something, or pregnancy(but not to many you just need to give her a few dont overwhelm her or she'll feel like your preaching at her.
hope i helped :)
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Straight up, go up to her face and tell her that she's wrong. Because if you don't tell her, then probably nobody else will. (If they don't know about it). This could lead to pregnancy or some horrible STD. Better yet, tell an adult.
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Just tell her that you wouldn't start so early. Don't make it about her, make it about you. Explain that you don't think it's all that "cool" to have sex so early.
And if that doesn't go well, just tell her that you don't support her in having sex so early.
Hope this helped!
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