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Guys and politeness
15/f
Guys always flirt with and tease my friends.
It's the very rare one that does so with me. Instead, most are polite to me. Ex: if a guy accidentally bumps against me (softly), they apologize: "Sorry".
They make fun of my friends but do stuff like open my doors.
Why don't they flirt with me and instead act so polite?
Thanks.
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Hey!
WEll maybe they dont see you the same way as they see your friends. Maybe they like your friends or in reverse like you. Guys are weird. They act differently around different girls. Also, maybe they know your friends better than they know you and feel more comfortable with them than you.
If you are just friends with the guy and you dont want anything more, then just leave it at this, sure they treat you differently, but you have a different and unique relationship with them. That can be a good thing.
However if you want something more, get out there and start flirting. Once they notice that you are different they might stop being so poliet. And if they dont then a) nothings changed for them and they like you the same as they did before you started or b) theyre just poliet guys. Which might be a nice thing
Without knowing the guys I cant tell you why they do that. but next time they do it, try and make a joke, see if that helps them to be a little different. If nothing happens then find some new guys to focus your attention on, and know that they think of you a certain way and always will.
I couldnt answer your question and it sucks, but if you wanna be a little mroe specfic let me know, I might be ablke to help alittle more :). Hope I helpped alittle though. Love ya lots,
Angie91
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Maybe the way you act around guys is different? Are you shy? Are you introverted? Are you polite yourself? Remember, guys like girls that are easy to "get to". And they LOVE the girls that allow guys to "tease" them. The ones that giggle at every one of their actions and act like they love it. Do you act like that? Maybe they think higher of you...Or even respect you. Perhaps they like you! :D If you want them to flirt with you, try to be more outgoing. :)
Good luck =)
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