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do u think im a slut
im 13 and ive given about 5 handjobs,all to the same person,do u think im a slut. i gave my first handjob when i was about 7 and my most recent when i was 12. the guy wasnt my BF but he was my best friend and still is. ive always loved him but hes never felt the same way do u think he was useing me?
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Sweetheart you arent a slut.
What you are, is being used. And you are allowing it to happen, I would imagine, because you are afraid someone might not like you if you dont.
Read the following. Memorize it. Someday it will hit home.
There are people in this world who will set conditions on them "liking you". They will do the least they can possibly get away with for you to be happy as long as you give them what they want. With guys, often this means that they will want sex to like you, and will ignore you if you dont get it.
These people are not worth being friends with. No matter how popular, who likes them, etc. If someone wants you to do things for them in order for you to like them, they are not good people.
Whoever this guy is, may not be actively "being your friend to get handjobs". What he is, is just selfish. He is willing to let you do these things becuase you care about him and hope that by making him happy he might love you back.
Its not going to happen.
Do not let yourself fall into the pit of "trading sex for people to like you"
Its a terrible way to live and you will attract the worst people. The kind of people who will see that you want friendship and will take every sexual favor they can get to give you the friendship you desire.
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7 =O WOW !
No your not because you didn't do it to 5 different guys and i think he is especially that your only 13 and he let you do it at 7.
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WHEN YOU WERE ABOUT 7?!
Exactly how horny were you at 7?
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You're not a slut if you "do" it to one person, so no.
Yes, I think he was using you for his own sick pleasures.
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