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Hi my name is April =) Im 15. I dont really know what else to say about myself right now. *lol* I have an account on kiwibox.com, its Silent_Dawn if you want to look me up =)

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or ... the pink and gray vans

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or this??

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I like the pink and gray vans the best =)

okay so there is this boy that ive liked for a long time... but yea c hes a mayjor playa and everytime i hook up wit him or w/e he always plays me over but his charm is sooo good and cute that i fall for him no matter wut! how can i just forget about him! and erase him from my life cuz i knoe that the next time i talk to him hes gonna b all flirty and touchy feely to me and then i'll fall for him all over again. please help me get over him.

Every time you start to fall for him, tell yourself how badly he treats you. Remember theres somebody better out there for you!

whats a good style of sneakers or brand or specific sneaker that i can wear to go back to school that not everyone will have but still come off as really cute.

im a girl.. if you didnt realize by now. Haha.. thanks for the help

Well I have some white & blue phat farms, they are really cute. *lol* I havent seen very many people with them. also maybe converse & etnies, or vans.

ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!!

Maybe you can put some sort of mouth stuff on it. Like orajel or something, to make the pain go away. I dont know really cuz Ive never had braces.

okay so my bff she tells me soo many stories about her makingout with soo many guys and how she almost had sex and stuff and i don't knoe wut to tell her cuz she thinks of me as a goodie goodie and im really not i just don't go and make out with every guy i meet. wut shall i say to her the next time she talks about all these guys? also it makes me feel like i am a goodie tushu. so idk idk idk idk!! help me asap! please

I have a friend sort of like that. Whenever she tells me stuff like that I sometimes tune her out or just say hmm or yeah. She could be lying about it too.

ok.. i am overweight and i eat like.. unhealthy foods.. well.. i want to eat salads when i am in school.. but i mean.. since im overweight people might make fun of me for eating a salad.. or anything healthy.. so i just dont eat.. i want to eat something healthy.. but i dont want people to laugh and dont say.. 0h.. just be happy with urself.. bla bla bla.. only if u know what to do.. write back.. ill rate you go0d

>>oVeRwEiGhT

Just dont listen to them. If they make fun of you for trying to eat healthier foods, then forget about them. Dont care what other people think of you.

Okay me and me sis have started a band yet we dont own any instrument or know how to play. But i can feel it in my soul that im am destined to be great.i need to work up 170 dollars by next month or my guitar that is the cheapest one i could find will be sold. any suggestions to make money. i will try to rate you .
stay away from oommpa loompas!

ask your parents if you can do some chores around the house for money, or maybe mown the lawn for money, maybe have a garage sale, or baby sit for some kids around your neighborhood. I hope I helped =)

my friend is so annyong and i dont know how to get ride of her and she is allways comin up to me and bossin my around and she has such a nasty mind and i have no idear wher she gets it from but she blamin a lot o nasty stuff on me like i went on a nasty website wat the hell is the matter with her mind i cant get rid of her because she is allway like commin up to my door and askin my mom where i am an d just lets her in and then she like she the fuckin boss tellin me what to do like its her fuckin house and i am fuckin fed up wit her shit n if i say i dont want to be her friend she will just keep comen back i did not say anny think or what i said dose not matter i mean how the fuck can i get ridd of her or stop her from bossin e around and or stop her from from blamin these nasty things on me plz help PS I ONLY RATE FIRST 9

That really sucks. I think you should just tell your friend how you feel and that you hate it whenever she bosses you around and blames stuff on you.

My boyfriend has been private schooled all of his life but now this year 4 HS his parents have decided 2 let him go 2 a public school. I am in a public school and I know the temptations that public school has. Well, my boyfriend's going 2 a different HS than me and I'm just worried about him. He's going 2 a school known 4 gangs and stuff, and first off, I don't want him getting involved in anything stupid... and then I'm also concerned about him meeting other girls and then losing interest in me. Wut can I say 2 him, or wut can I do so I stop worrying about all of this?

You've just gotta trust him. if your afraid he'll get into a gang, talk to him about it & see what he says. Hope I helped some =]

i really love my hair being long but i sort of wanna cut it up to my shoulders so it looks thicker and just i think it'd look cute! but im scared that i'll hate it. should i play it safe and keep my hair long? my hair takes forever to grow.

Well, you'll never know if you like it unless you try it. Maybe you should cut like 2 or 3 inches off and see if you like that before cutting it to your shoulder. [ this depends how long your hair is, if its to your waist, then 2 or 3 inches wont really help you see if you like it or not ] Hope I helped some...

OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me!

if hes forcing you to have sex, then thats rape. If you keep saying no and he wont listen, he's not respecting you. I think you should try and talk to him before you break up with him. Maybe you should ask him why he thinks he needs to have sex all the time. And if he still continues to want to have sex & not listening to you, then you guys should probably break up.

ok my best friends boyfriend was supposed to call her today and they were supposed to hang out nd' he hasnt even call yet nd' shes like all crushed n crying n everything...i cant stand seeing her like this...what can i say to her to help her feel better(theyve been together over a year)help me quik!! plz if ne1 can

ill even rate you 5'z

Maybe she should try calling him. Maybe he had a good reason for not calling her? Maybe you guys should hang out and like do something to get him off her mind or something. Hope I helped some.

Well I have this really birth mark/mole on my at the top of my left arm, but none of my friends know about. I always cover it up with a bangage or something that sort but the only reason I do is because people used at school used to stare at it and make fun of me about it. So my question is should I keep hiding it or should I just let it be and not care about it?

People can be really mean sometimes. I think you should just not care about it. Cuz your going to have it all your life. [ unless you get it removed?? ]

whats a good way to get sleepy?

I usually either be active in the day time, like run or go swimming, watch TV, listen to music or read a book. Reading a book usually helps me get sleepy fast. *lol*

i rele didnt no what to call this
last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?

There's really nothing you can do, just ignore them.

hey im skinny...but like my thighs and stomach and upper arms are flabby!! i wanna get fit and tonned for skool which starts sept 8th...lately ive been jumping on my trampoline ALOT!! will that help?? where will it make me fit..will it help my stomach and stuff..just a big trampoline..

Go to this website, it gives you a list of exercises you can do and it shows you how to do it =]
: http://toneteen.com/pages/fitness.htm :

my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch!

In my room, I have white walls too. So I covered them with posters of stuff I like. Maybe you could do that. And maybe get some new bedding and curtains.

i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her?

if your afraid to ask her outloud, maybe you can ask her by writing her a note. Or if your at the grocery store, be like " can I get some of those? " and point at some. *lol*

how can i get the guts up to ask my mom for tampons?

Maybe you should write her a note asking her. If Im too embarrassed to say something outloud to my mom, then I write it down and ask her. *lol* I thought my mom would say no whenever I asked her if I could get tampons, but she didnt.

Ok. I used to eat like all the time and always have cravings for food. I'm 5'1 and i weigh 120-130. now...lately ive been etaing like a bird and sometimes when i look at food i realize the calories and how much fat it is and i wont eat, and sometimes i even skip meals, it gets worse and worse every week and i dont know what happeneing...am i anorexic? or are these signs of becming anorexic later in life?

You could become anorexic later in life, you need to start eating again. Eat some healthy foods, like fruits. You might just be afraid of gaining weight. I am too sometimes, but not eating is really bad.

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