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My boyfriend has been private schooled all of his life but now this year 4 HS his parents have decided 2 let him go 2 a public school. I am in a public school and I know the temptations that public school has. Well, my boyfriend's going 2 a different HS than me and I'm just worried about him. He's going 2 a school known 4 gangs and stuff, and first off, I don't want him getting involved in anything stupid... and then I'm also concerned about him meeting other girls and then losing interest in me. Wut can I say 2 him, or wut can I do so I stop worrying about all of this?
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Just take your mind off it all. If he loves you, and if hes true, then he wont do anything of the sort. Just say he didnt go to public school, he could have met a girl anywhere else and proven just as low. Stop worrying, and if you think hes the type to get into trouble or find another girl, break up with him now hes not even worth your time. I know how it feels hun, i would feel the same way, but you have to take it easy and everything will be fine. Good luck babe!xoxo
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Learn to trust him or your relationship will have zero hope.
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Don't worry...its totally normal to feel this way. All girls get kinda jealous when their boyfriend is going to be around other girls when you aren't there. You just need to trust him. If he tells you things like he really likes you a lot or even loves you. Or tells you his feelings for you are very strong just believe him. He wouldn't do anything to jeprodize your relationship if he really cared for you. I feel the same way sometimes! Hope I helped!
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Talk to him about it. Tell him you'Re conceRned, and you don't want him doing anything stupid. Have him pRomise to be faithful. I know it's just a pRomise and a pRomise is just woRd nowadays, and people can easily bReak theiR pRomises, but hopefully a pRomise mean something to him! Best wishes! Hope I helped!!
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talk to him about that. tell him you dont want him to get involved with that stuff. thats what i would do.
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You've just gotta trust him. if your afraid he'll get into a gang, talk to him about it & see what he says. Hope I helped some =]
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give the boy a break. if its ment to be, he wouldn't be looking at other girls. trust him before you make all sorts or assumtions.
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Well a couple years back i went through a situation where my boifriend was goin to go to another highschool then me! If you and your boifriend have been together for a long time I think you should trust his character on who he makes friends with. Just because the highschool hes goin to is known for its gangs doesnt mean that EVERY person at the school is in a gang... so hopefully your boifriend will make a GOOD choice in friends. On the part of him leaving you for another girl... i cant promise you he wouldnt... but understand that he will make friends that happen to be girls... and if he really likes you then he wont leave you for neother girl but you HAVE to trust him. If you suspect that somethings goin on with another girl ask him about it nicely dont acuse him. Also dont suspect that everygirl that he hangs out with wants somethin to do with him cause if not he might get irritated that you dont trust him and leave you for that reason. But what you should talk to him about now is what his feelings are for you and if he would ever cheat on you or if he would tell you honestly what him and his friends that happen to be girls are doing! Well Good Luck and you know what if you think you've got yourself a winner ... think of that when ur suspecting something....Hope everything works out for the BEST
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