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16/f

This is a fairly ridiculous question, but it`s legitimate so please bare with me. I want a boyfriend. The whole idea of enjoying someone`s company and being close gives me butterflies.

I try so hard to be everything a guy would want. I dress attractively everyday, I always wear make-up and do my hair. I'm confident and flirt accordingly. I get straight A`s - I don`t want to be all looks. I try to be friends with guys and nice to their friends. I have everything other girls do - and more! Why isn`t this happening for me?

I'm 5'8 and between 115-120 lbs, I exercise a lot and love competitive sports. I looove going to hockey/football games and really getting into it and talking to guys. At amusement parks, I`m always the first one onto the most daring and adventurous rides. Every chance I get, I go to dances and parties. Aren`t those good places to meet a guy?

This all sounds like ridiculous bragging, but I`m trying to prove (to you and myself) that I have what it takes to be liked by guys. I love laughing and making people laugh, also. I want someone to have fun with, to spoil and to care for. Sometimes this 'want' for a boyfriend gets so uncontrollable that it takes over my emotions. Sometimes I think maybe I`m just not deserving of a decent (or any) boyfriend.

I must be missing something - what could it be? It`s been three years since I`ve last had a boyfriend.. everytime a guy and I get close, there`s always some excuse and fades away. I`m young, I don`t want to miss out on all of that pointless (yet cute) `puppy love`.

welll. First you have to find a guy youre interested in, and try to get with him. You can't just go around looking for a random boyfriend, so dont stress.. it'll happen. If you're as attractive & as smart as you say, I'm shure you'll find a great guy soon enough..you just need to find the right one =] There's nothing wrong with you, so have fun while you can and dont let guys ruin your fun. Goodluck! =]

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is it bad to be tall im a girl and im 14 and im 5ft10 is it ad to be tall tell me the truth??

no, honestly, most girls WANT to be tall.
Ever notice that all models are tall & skinny?
That's because that's what agents are looking
for. Tall & skinny girls. You're pretty lucky :]

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kay well my new years revolution this year was to learn how to do a slit by the end of the year.
Im pretty flexible but i cat manage to do a split.
are there are easier ways to do a split or to let you thighs MORE flexible without hurting becasue im pretty scared of my legs sticking in one place lol.
anything will help thanks :D

my friend told me the one time if you like stretch a little bit.. and then the next day try to go farther..and keep doing that, that eventually you'll be able to do a split perfect. I've never tried it, but she claims she has, soo try it out, && goodluck x3jessikah

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ok im 14/f and im in end of 8th grade..well the big problem is i met this 6th grader in the middle of school year and im not gonna lie his totally hot! The thing is uh is it ok to go out with a younger guy? Cause I think he likes me back because well today one of my good friends who never met this boy was walking with me..so the guy passed by and said hi and what not and after he leftshes like ooooooooooooooh he likes you..i dont know why she would think that but i like it. Why do you think she said that? Was is because of his reactions or his expressision.I really hope this is true. Sorry its long but please help..
TL4PL

yes. its wrong. youll go to hell for it.
Haha? no. It's fine to go with a younger
guy, just like it's fine for a guy to go
with a younger girl. Age is rediculous.
Havee fun with it :]

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i got a job bagging groceries at a big supermarket a few weeks ago. i still get soooo nervous everytime i have to work, like im scared im doing it wrong, or not fast enough. i dread going and it like ruins my week knowing i have to work. how can i not feel nervous, and not dread it so much? pleaseeee help me

try not to stress over it.. maybey you get stressed cuz you feel youll get yelled at if you mess up? if that's the case, just remember that as long as your trying your best theyre not about to yell at ya. And if it keeps bothering you.. maybey you should look for a less stressful job.

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ok. so theres this boy.. i somewhat like him and im pretty sure he used to like me.. but now he barley talks to me.. how do i get him to "chase me".. like get him interested and show him that he's the one who wants me..

hopefully that makes sense

seriously, the best way to make this happen,
is by acting like YOU dont care. Guys hate
it,just like girls do. If you act like you
dont care about him, he'll be trying to get
your attention..guaranteed :] good luck

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i live in tampa and i was wondering what is the supply list for 9th grade. i will be taking spanish 1, english 1 honors, algebra 2, and i forgot which science class. people that have been in the 9th grade can you please tell me the real things we need. not just the basic paper pencils binders stuff. thank you in advance!!!

i don't know the answer to this..
but i dooo know that durring school
suppy sales walmart always has papers
posted up of school supplies for
certain grades. that's how i figure
mine out =]

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I'm totally clueless on what Hair Straightener to buy. My hair is wavy and it's in between thick and thin hair. My hair is healthy. I want a hair straightener that is at a good price too. My mother probably wouldnt buy me one if it was too expensive. Between $20-$40 is good. Please help me find a good hair straightener that isnt so expensive for my hair type. I dont plan on using it EVERY SINGLE DAY but more than once a week.
Thanks.

my hairs real thick, and i just use one at walmart. They work great and theyre like 20 bucks

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Is it normal for discharge to come out pinkish before your period? I've never experienced this until now, and I was supposed to get it today, but I didn't get it yet. Last time I had sex was like 3 days after my period last month, and he didn't ejaculate in me.
So I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant; and I haven't had any symptoms of pregnancy.

I've had almost all my usual symptoms of my period, breaking out, bloated, eating more. The only one I didn't get is a headache.

So yeah, is it normal?

Thank you.

well yeah its normal. a lotta times your discharge will come out different colors because when its in there its white, but its mixing around with all your other bodily fluids. Thats why sometimes it'll come out a sorda brownish color too. Dont worry about it :]

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Can wearing deodorant really give you cancer? I just found out about this.

..well its just common sense.
I mean, if deoderant can cause breast
cancer.. why even breathe. Mine as well
not eat either.. that might cause a
heart attack.

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hey im a guy, 13. If you go onto this website theres a pic of me. Tell me if you like what i look like... www.advicepic1.piczo.com

ah,yeah,youre a cutie. I actually just signed up for that a couple hours ago, and I have no idea how to make friends lol, so you should add me! :]

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Hey advice givers. I'm in need of a little bit 'a help. I'm so confused about this whole dating concept, and I'm only 13/f. If a guy asks you out, as in, "Will you go out with me?" does that mean you're boyfriend and girlfriend? And is being girlfriend and boyfriend the same as dating? I'd just like to know because I'd be very embarassed to tell someone I was dating a guy, that I wasn't really dating. And is going on ONE date with a guy, officially dating? Or is it girlfriend and boyfriend automatically? Like going skating, or dinner, or going to the movies or something. If you were like going on a date on night with a guy, then a different guy the next, does that still make you single? Or is that kinda cheating... ? I'm very confused, sorry if this doesn't make very much sense. I really need an answer please, I don't know where else to ask! My friends don't know (most likely), and right now my mom isn't available. I can't ask my dad - we just don't talk about dating the same way. Please help!

Much Love,
Lauren

this has me confused too lol. Uhm, I think the best way to find out is ask the guy.. It all depends, when he asked you out did yous go out on a date.. or did he just say "will you go out with me?" cuz if he just did that then you're probably girlfriend and boyfriend. But if he asked you out as in on a date, then no, i dont think you'd be considered to be. But like I said, the best thing would be to ask him! goodluck :]

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i have 2 days left of school. and i need to tell this person, that i miss are friendship. we were on some bad terms, because of me. i feel weird going up to them and saying, hey i miss talking to you. what can i do? i need help. badly.

writing a note is ALWAYS easy. That way you don't have to worry about stuttering or them rejecting you to your face. I always write people notes when we're arguing.. it also helps because you can say exactly how you feel, and erase stuff and all that junk. Hope it works out :]

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my sister just told me that my other sister was bisexual and my sister and i are really close or at least i thought we were and iam just in so much shock right now and i don't know how to handle it it's just that we've always told each other every thing.

ah, i know how this is.. considering my sister's bi. I can understand how you're a bit shocked because you expect her to tell you everything, but Im shure she's probably scared.. to the point where she couldn't even tell you. It's strange when you figure out your bi.. so just try to get her to admit to it, and if she dont bring it up and talk to her about it. Hope everything works out :]

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Ok, so I've searched everywhere
and i can't remember the quote I saw
from One Tree Hill, one episode
I know the episode was in season 3 and
called Over the Hills and Far Away
It was the episode when Peyton
went to visit Jake. The quote went
something like "Songs come to an end,
but that doesn't stop you from listening
to them" Can someone please find
me the actual quote, thanks

just go into google, and search that party of the quote u typed and put after it "from One Tree Hill"

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I wasn't sure which category to put this in so..Ok..Anyways. My friend (a girl) has a boyfriend and I'm single (I'm a guy). So one day we were talking on yahoo and she said she was gonna call me again (We had talked on the phone the past four days in a row.) And before she left she said "Haha, I talk to you more than I talk to my boyfriend." and I wasn't sure on how to respond to that..I don't know if that's a bad thing...Or a good thing..PLEASE HELP!! Thanks in advance.

In all honestly, she
probably meant that exactly
how it was stated..
She talks to you more than
her boyfriend.
Trying to say her boyfriends
an ass maybey or something
and doesn't talk to her that
much.
Just let it go, and see what
happens. If she likes you,
you'll be sure to know.
Goodluck!

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i started my period yesterday
and i wore a pad
but i wasnt happy with that
since a few of my underwears are totally stained
so i got a tampon
and i slept in it
and 1st thing this morning i took it out
and got a pad
and then about 2:30 ish
i got a tampon and put it in
and its sooo much more comfortable than that other tampon [the one im wearing now is a sports one]
and i was wondering what do i do when i have to pee
do i take it out
or pee while im wearing it !?!?!

you take it out goof, ahah.
And then you just put in another one.
:] Hope I helpeed!

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ok i REALLY want to be a vegitarian but i don't think i can give up meat completely. it's really hard. what are some ways to mabey help me give it up? and what foods can you eat when you're vegitarian besides veggies and fruits??


thx soo much!

watch all the videos on peta2.com and the way they treat animals.. that will make you give it up completely. I'm a vegetarian, and those movies are what made me become one, hope i helped and good luck!!

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Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?

-Confused.

well im 16, & i like a 21 yr old..
Soo I know how that is.
No, it's not too old.
There's no such thing as too old
in a relationship,
well that's my opinion.
But who cares what you mom or
friends say, if it's what makes
you happy..go for it :] good luck!

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I cant stand my friend, but sometimes I still like her. How do I ignore her without letting her know that I'm purposely ignoring her? Or how can I tell her that I dont want to talk to her really without actually telling her ?

Okay, well I don't think anyone on here should be telling you how to ditch a 'friend' that's just mean.. If you honestly can't stand her, and even if it's not all the time, then don't consider her a friend at all. Be honest, and tell her you don't want to hangout with her.
Honestys better than lying, & things always get back to the person youre lying to, so lying just makes everything worse.

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