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i just found out that my sister was bi
my sister just told me that my other sister was bisexual and my sister and i are really close or at least i thought we were and iam just in so much shock right now and i don't know how to handle it it's just that we've always told each other every thing.
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I don't really understand what you're asking for.
Your sister is bi. You guys are close and tell each other everything. She TOLD you she's bi. So...what has changed?
So she's bi, it doesn't matter. It shouldn't matter to you at all. It has nothing to do with you. She's still the same sister she was when you didn't know she was attracted to girls.
If you have a problem with her being bisexual, that's definitely not something she can/will just change for you.
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I'm not totally sure what your asking advice for but i can tell you that nothing has to change between you and your sister. shes still the same person you've known all your life. but when it comes to sexuality thats a hard thing to share with others. and possibly the reason she didn't tell you sooner was because she was lost/confused. or not sure of what she was feeling for other people. but just act normal around her. i'm sure the whole process is much harder for her because she will moslty loose a friend or two because of her choice to be Bi. and the last thing she needs is to loose a sister so my suggestion is just be there for her.
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It' natural for her to be scared, she's worried of what you'll think of her so she didn't tell you. Maybe she's afraid you'll have less of an opinion or think less of her. All you can really do right now, is be there for her. Tell her no matter what you guys will always be sisters, Bi, Straight, or Lesbian.
Much Love,
Lauren
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ah, i know how this is.. considering my sister's bi. I can understand how you're a bit shocked because you expect her to tell you everything, but Im shure she's probably scared.. to the point where she couldn't even tell you. It's strange when you figure out your bi.. so just try to get her to admit to it, and if she dont bring it up and talk to her about it. Hope everything works out :]
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that must be shocking, i won't lie to you. but keep in mind she may have been scared about it. people dont choose their sexual orientation, so probably when she first started getting some feelings toward a girl or girls, she was like, "omg...i'm bi!" and was probably more shocked than you are now. so have sympathy for her and let her know you're there for her and that you will always love her. it will probably make both of you feel much better. hope i helped =)
-SlushPuppy
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