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HOW TO ditch A friend.. : )
I cant stand my friend, but sometimes I still like her. How do I ignore her without letting her know that I'm purposely ignoring her? Or how can I tell her that I dont want to talk to her really without actually telling her ?
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Wow, that`s a toughie. Well, first of all, stop answering her calls and stop calling her. Also, try hanging out with other people and start dropping hints. Subtly.
Hope that helped.
good luck!
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Okay, well I don't think anyone on here should be telling you how to ditch a 'friend' that's just mean.. If you honestly can't stand her, and even if it's not all the time, then don't consider her a friend at all. Be honest, and tell her you don't want to hangout with her.
Honestys better than lying, & things always get back to the person youre lying to, so lying just makes everything worse.
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its always sad to see this happen to friends. especially if you guys are really good friends. i would say don't ditch her especially if you guys have had a pass- but thats up to you.
you could always:
-talk in a sarcastic tone like if she says something and starts laughing be like haha so funny or something like that (you get it)
-when she talks to you don't look her in the face and look around like your trying to find someone else to talk
-if you do see someone else that you know when shes around weither or not shes talking to you just call there name and run over or go over to them. for example:
HER: hey.
YOU: hey...
HER: whats up?
YOU: nothing...
HER: yeah blah blah blah
YOU: *see a freind lets say her name if casey*
HER: *still talking* blah blah blah
YOU: -CASEYYYY!! and run over to her..
you get it.
-make yourself unavailable to them. like if they call you or something and ask to hang out just say that you have plans and stuff.
-don't return phone calls, or texts
-when they IM you, don't respond.
hope i helped =]
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If your saying you cant stand her and are even asking this then stop calling her a friend.....maybe more of an accuantance...the bottom line is shell probably eventually take notice to this treatment as will those around you no matter how discreet you are...youll probably lose your so called friendship with her to but maybe thats best...some dont click...you can try nodding and grunting or just acting like your occupied but believe me shes going to know better sooner or later..if shes your friend then talk about how your feeling if not then end the sherade because usually people can see through that kind of thing
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Hey,
If you're feeling these mixed emotions about her, I wouldn't even call her a "friend".
Anywhooo...Just don't talk to her. She'll get the point.
And as for telling her that you don't really want to talk to her, just be straight up about it. I'd personally tell her online or over the phone--anything but in person. Tell her "Hey (Name), I don't really want to be freinds anymore. This isn't working out"
* Preferrably do it on AIM, & then block her.
One question though: Are you sure you want to do this to her? ... Make sure it's a good reason, you might regret it later. Make sure you don't hurt her either..
Hope this helps,
-Jam
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