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younger guy
ok im 14/f and im in end of 8th grade..well the big problem is i met this 6th grader in the middle of school year and im not gonna lie his totally hot! The thing is uh is it ok to go out with a younger guy? Cause I think he likes me back because well today one of my good friends who never met this boy was walking with me..so the guy passed by and said hi and what not and after he leftshes like ooooooooooooooh he likes you..i dont know why she would think that but i like it. Why do you think she said that? Was is because of his reactions or his expressision.I really hope this is true. Sorry its long but please help..
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yes. its wrong. youll go to hell for it.
Haha? no. It's fine to go with a younger
guy, just like it's fine for a guy to go
with a younger girl. Age is rediculous.
Havee fun with it :]
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hello :)
i honestly don't think dating younger guys is bad. i really dont.
i dated a younger guy :)
and girls in highschool date younger guys ALL the time, so theres no need to worry there!
guys that are usually interested in you always say hi, and try to make conversation; so by what he said, i think he may be interested :)
maybe you should talk to him more.. get to know him, get to know what kind of relationship he is looking for and if you are looking for the same kind of thing.. ask him for his AIM name, msn name, or whatever you talk to people on.. and get to know him :) maybe something will spark, but.. your friend probably saw something about him that made her think he likes you. so. good luck, and i hope that helped! :D
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The only trouble with dating a sixth grader is in whether or not he's as mature as you are. Girls mature much faster than boys and while you may be acting like a 14/15-year-old teenager he may be 12/13 but acting like a 9-year-old who still sleeps in Spider-Man underwear and plays with action figures.
As long as you are on par with your maturity levels and know you want a serious relationship a.k.a (a real one that lasts) and your parents are okay with this as are his then pursue it. Yes, you'll get flack from your peers but trust your own gut and your heart on what the right thing to do here is.
Your friend has sensed for one reason or another that he likes you. This is a good sign if it's true. Short of asking him out yourself or asking him if he feels the same try inviting him to a party, group dates or just to hang out. You'll have to ask your friend how she sensed all of this as nobody here could accurately tell you because we don't know her or how she thinks.
You can tell if he's in to you based on whether he refuses or has some lame excuse. If he comes along and you hit it off as friends first (which is always best to do first if you can) see what you both think of dating. If you want him you have to now go after him as he's likely just as shy as you are about making his intentions known.
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its ok to go out with a younger guy. but if you're like me, next year (for 9th grade) you'll be in high school and won't see him much. so if i were you i wouldn't act on my feelings unless you truly think you'll get to see him and spend a lot of time with him. and as for your friend, it is possible that she honestly does think he likes you. but it also could be immature behavior. not to say that your friend is immature, though.....like how everyone says "yo mama" and they have absolutely nothing against the person's mother. it's just like "oooh, a guy talked to a girl....ill bet they LIIIKKKEEEE eachother!" if you know what i mean. but he very well may like you. decide whether it's worth it...and quick because school's almost out! hope this helps.
-SlushPuppy
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