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my name is Beth.
i live for my friends and family, i dont know what i would do without them.
i hate seeing people upset, and i always try to cheer people up, and to help them out with their problems. that's why i set this up (o:
ill do my best to answer all of your questions and to help you out as much as i can (o:



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Hey so summer's here and so i wanna know what types of clothes are in this summer. I know baby doll dresses with flats are in but i was wondering what color dresses go with what color flats besides white or black. I also wanna know what other summer apparel you guys love this season or a must-have item. Thanks! Any advice on what to buy and how to put together would be great! Links and pictures would also be much appreciated.

i love love love these questions

i love shopping @ forever 21.
they have so many cute choices there, and so many mix and match things.
CUTEEE Accessories!
cuuute wedges. [love love love them]

i couldnt really say what colors would go with what, but i can tell you that wedges and flats are REALLY in, and that sundresses are wicked cute.

also little tanktops and skirts with a nice pair of sandals always looks cute.

and you cant forget about chunky jewelry.
like bangles, big rings, and cute necklaces. :)

try going on their website! :)
very cute store :)
also try delias if you are into the indie- style :D


hope it helped, if you have any more questions feel free to ask!

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Do blood tests hurt more or less or the same as vaccines? Because i had 5 vaccines last month..and they didn't hurt that much...and i have to get a blood test soon...and people say blood tests hurt less than vaccines. Is that true? because vaccines don't hurt all that much..

oh gosh :(
i dont want to freak you out, i really dont.
but blood tests hurt me really bad, but thats because i have thin and deep veins :(

but i used to love them when i was littler. hahaha
like, it pinches for a second and then it goes in and you are fine.
i think those hurt less than vaccines.
it depends on what kind of veins you have though.
if you have veisn like mine, its gonna hurt like a bitch. hahaha :P i dotn want to scare you, but it'll hurt :( maybe im just a wimp. haha


but keep your cool.
dont tense up, and if you cry [like me. haha] you cry, just be calm, because if you tense up, they could end up poking you in the wrong spot :(

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13/f
ok well i met this kid who is my friend's friend and now hes my friend. we have so much in common and he is everything i look for in a guy. hes also my height. well actually like and inch taller than me but yeah same thing. but for the weeks I've known him I've really started to like him. i haven't told him. but i really want to. but i don't know how. he's the type that likes that cutesy stuff girls do. and he would never say anything perverted so whats a way i could tell him?
please help. =)

when i read this.
i was like.
WOWWW, thats DEFINITELY me right now.
hahaha


when i like guys, i tell them.
sometimes it turns out bad, sometimes its good.
if you really think he likes you back, go for it.
but make sure you are ready for either a new relationship or a heartbreak.


im very outgoing and when i like a guy.. i am just like.. okay listen, ive been thinking lately.. and i have some feelings for you.. i know that seems really random for you and im sorry about that.. but i was just wondering if maybe you would want to hang out sometime.. because i really think things could work between us, and you are a really great guy to talk to.

it depends on your personality and how confident you are.

some girls like to play mind games.
ive done this before.
be like, well. i need help.
do you mind helping?
well, theres this one guy..
[then describe him and your situation]
then be like... hmm.. what should i do? :(
hahha and maybe he'll catch on, and you can let him know really cuutely.
haha
its hard to explain.


but there are a lot of ways you can let him know, its just your confidence level and your personality.

i hope things work out, he seems like a nice guy.. and i hope my confusing advice helped :P :)

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Ok so with summer starting and school approaching in August I want a new look. I don't want to be the image I am now. I want to have that hot & sexy look. I don't want to look trashy but I want to look sexy. What kind of clothes should i wear? I want short skirts, short shorts, cleavage you know. Have any ideas where i should shop? Or anything like that?

Hmmm.
sounds like mee.
hahaha
well, i shop @ the usual American Eagle & Hollister, and there you can find like the cute cami's and cute flowy tanks that look AMAZING with cute little shorts or skirts.
also, if you are short like me.. wedges are amazing to show off your legs if you are wearing a skirt; i always found they work amazing for me :)
and im DEFFFF not a big cup size, so cleavage is a big thing for me. haha
you probably shouldnt let it all hang out, but maybe a little bit, like if you were wearing a tanktop and a little shirt over it, or maybe if you are wearing just a cute tank to add a cute necklace that shows off the neckline :)


a really nice place to get cute little accessories, wedges, and cute tanks is Forever 21. ANDDDD its pretty cheap! :)
if you are looking for a more casual school look, then i'd say american eagle or Hollisterr.


i hope i helped :)

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Im a 16 year old female high school drop out. I got married to this guy i thought i was in love with, we found out i was pregnet a mouth ago. He left me because he wasn't ready to be a father. Im worried about the baby because i don't want to give it up. I have recently discovered that i have feelings for my best friend Linda, who is a girl. I am also working at the local strip club Copperheads to make money to save up for the things i need for my child. Me and Linda are doing good but she has a husband and is 60. When my old friends from school see us they laugh at me which makes me feel even worse but i really love Linda and i KNOW she loves me. My mother found out i was pregnet and having a relationship with another women she told me to get out of the house i was forced to live on the street but Linda took me in. Now i an living with Linda, her husband, and her 7 kids. Her husband thinks Linda adopted me but he caught her sneeking into my room last night. Things are not going well as you can see. I really need your help. P.S...your cute.
--Love Becky

im glad people have to be stupid about this advice column.
like, i try to help people out by running this to help people who need it,
then i get people like YOU who make up things and i waste my time talking to really immature people.


please, dont write to me if you are not serious.

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So Beth. You say you're pretty amazing at this 'advice' eh?
Well tell me this one.
What do i do to get another guy to have sex with me?
My penis is horribly crooked.
I found this guy. i think we have something.
I don't want to get naked around him though because i'm afraid he'll reject me after all of these years.
Help me!?!?

wowwww... hmmm..
well, you got me on this one :P

you will just have to trust him. if you think your relationship is a strong one, and that you can trust him, do it and see what happens.
life's about taking chances :) :P
and if he was seriously true to you, i don't think it would matter, i really don't. he should like you for who you are.


hope that helped?! :)

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well i like this boy and we had a thing but then he got a girlfriend while we had a thing. we just started talking again and i am afraid ill start liking him a lot. i want to tell him but i am afraid he will laugh and think im stupid.

welll. first of all; you have to think of it this way.. if you guys had a "thing" and THEN he got a girlfriend, obviously he thinks of relationships differently. i don't know this guy personally, so i cant say he is a player.. but he might just be leading you on :( i dont know.. but thats what it sounds like from your letter.

don't be afraid of your feelings, let things take its course.. if you start talking to him, you should prepare yourself for either a soon- to- be relationship, or a heartbreak. make sure you are ready to take that chance again.

if he respected you, he wouldnt laugh or think you are stupid. hopefully he's a nice guy and will accept the things you say to him in a respectful way, and take things into consideration.

i hope everything works out for you, and i hope he doesnt laugh at you :( then ill have to beat him up! :)

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Im a lonley 17 year old high school drop out ive recently become pregnant and found out ive contracted Clymidiea my boy friend is a dead beat and refuses to take any responsibility for our child. Beth wut should i do im so lost with my life i really need ur advice.

:( awwwe.

first, you need to think for your child.
think about how you are going to support yourself and your baby before anything. think financially, so then you dont run into any troubles along the way to add to the troubles you already have going :(

then, go to the doctor.. and just see if there is anything you can do. [ive learned about chlamidia in health, but i dont know much about it :/]

i think finding a financial aid would be good too. if you are on your own and are trying to support yourself, the best thing to do would be to try social services, or something of that sort to help you find things you need.. or to help you get a doctor if you need one.. maybe a part time job just so you have everything you need to start a life for you and your baby.

as for the dad, he's a jerk. maybe don't look around for a guy until the baby is taken care of, and of an older age so you dont have to worry about that stuff too.. maybe take a break from guys and really concentrate on everything you need. because the father won't help you, i think you should really start by looking for financial help.

i hope i helped, and if you need anything else you can ask me :)

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I'm a 18 year old guy, and I'm bicurious.
Help me.

well, what do you need help with?
like.. what to do about it, or.. how to tell which way you are leaning towards?

then, i can help you :P :)

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16/f
i need good guyz 2 answer dis...
how do i know if my boy just wants to do stuf wit me... i men he tels me he luvs me n oter stuf but im just curous
thanxxxxx

hmm. lets see.
if he tells you he loves you, thats his decision.. but do you love him? before saying it back.. really think about it.

if he has asked you to do stuff with him.. think about it. don't act on impulse to make him happy. really think about yourself, and if you are comfortable.. if you aren't, tell him. if he understands, then that is awesome. if he doesn't, then obviously he wants to do stuff with you.. and doesn't care about your feelings.

hope that helped! :)

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does anyone know what song this is ? i`ve googled it and everything, and i still can`t find it.

Everyday
With every worthless word we get more far away
The distance between us makes it so hard to stay
But nothing lasts forever, but be honest babe
It hurts but it may be the only way

Maroon 5- Nothing lasts forever;
GREAT SONG btw! :)

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can any one tell me the name of this song im not sure if it helps i think its like rap or sumthin prtty sure its rap but it goes lik this (srry i only know a lil bit)
Cuz im on right now
and im right now
thts all i know plz help its stuck in my head any advice wood be appreciated

haha well.
im an idiot, but i just typed what you put onto google, and i got "Hott Ghetto Mess" - Thug Love lyrics? :P
idk, hopefully that helped.
if i knew how the tune went it would probably be better, so i tried my best.. and wung it :D

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okay im an idiot. this i sthe story: my bff and i got in a fight and i got really mad i called her some.... things and she wont talk to me in person on cpu once in a while but thats just to say something not friends would talk about. I tried long apology letters of how much she means to me and i have tried short and sweet Im sorry. How do i get her to forgive me?

:( tough situation.
it's hard to say how you could get her to forgive you.
you know how girls are..
just keep trying to talk to her.. maybe invite her over to talk one on one.. and just say it is important.. and you don't want to lose your friendship.
sometimes sorries arent enough [unfortunately :(] even though you may really mean it, she may think nothing of it.

so, my suggestion is..
keep trying to talk to her. keep going with everything, and don't give up. if you give up, then she will think you don't care anymore. maybe she's just seeing how much you care about her? who knows, but. i hope things work out!

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ok im 14/f and im in end of 8th grade..well the big problem is i met this 6th grader in the middle of school year and im not gonna lie his totally hot! The thing is uh is it ok to go out with a younger guy? Cause I think he likes me back because well today one of my good friends who never met this boy was walking with me..so the guy passed by and said hi and what not and after he leftshes like ooooooooooooooh he likes you..i dont know why she would think that but i like it. Why do you think she said that? Was is because of his reactions or his expressision.I really hope this is true. Sorry its long but please help..
TL4PL

hello :)
i honestly don't think dating younger guys is bad. i really dont.
i dated a younger guy :)
and girls in highschool date younger guys ALL the time, so theres no need to worry there!

guys that are usually interested in you always say hi, and try to make conversation; so by what he said, i think he may be interested :)
maybe you should talk to him more.. get to know him, get to know what kind of relationship he is looking for and if you are looking for the same kind of thing.. ask him for his AIM name, msn name, or whatever you talk to people on.. and get to know him :) maybe something will spark, but.. your friend probably saw something about him that made her think he likes you. so. good luck, and i hope that helped! :D

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Does this guy like me if i sit in the back of the room and he sits in the front row...and he asks me for a pencil? If every time i look at him he is looking at me and quick turns around again! because i like him


hmmm sounds to me like he's flirting with you :)
if you catch him looking at you, maybe next time give him a smile or a little wave.. maybe that will lighten things up. :)

if you like him you can do one of two things :

1. you can ask him if he likes you.
- i've done this so many times.. sometimes it doesnt work out too great, other times it does. one time i had a relationship for a few months because i told him i liked him; and then hes like.. well i like you too! and there you go :) we went out. but, this takes some courage. if you were to do this, you'd have to be ready for either a let down, or a good response. so make sure you are emotionally ready for it :)

2. you can wait.
- keep sending him little flirt signals when he looks at you.. and maybe fool around with him when he asks to borrow a pencil.. maybe keep the conversation going. ask him if he has AIM, myspace, msn, or whatever you talk on.. maybe something will connect between you guys and you will start talking more and more.. and maybe end up liking each other a lot :)

idk, i hope that helped you and your situation :)

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Hey advice givers. I'm in need of a little bit 'a help. I'm so confused about this whole dating concept, and I'm only 13/f. If a guy asks you out, as in, "Will you go out with me?" does that mean you're boyfriend and girlfriend? And is being girlfriend and boyfriend the same as dating? I'd just like to know because I'd be very embarassed to tell someone I was dating a guy, that I wasn't really dating. And is going on ONE date with a guy, officially dating? Or is it girlfriend and boyfriend automatically? Like going skating, or dinner, or going to the movies or something. If you were like going on a date on night with a guy, then a different guy the next, does that still make you single? Or is that kinda cheating... ? I'm very confused, sorry if this doesn't make very much sense. I really need an answer please, I don't know where else to ask! My friends don't know (most likely), and right now my mom isn't available. I can't ask my dad - we just don't talk about dating the same way. Please help!

Much Love,
Lauren

hello :)
when a guy says, "will you go out with me" it means you are boyfriend and girlfriend [atleast, thats what i know of :)].
I believe it is the same as dating.
when i got into highschool i thought the same thing :P
to me, one date isn't officially dating. usually guys [after a few dates] will be like, want to make it official? or, lets make it official, will you be my girlfriend? [or something along those lines :P ] but usually only one date doesnt mean you are "dating"
i think the multiple person dating still makes you single.. it just means that you are "looking around" and persuing friendships that could turn into relationships. it's nice to have some guy friends you like to hang out with too, and you never know :)

i hope i helped youu! :)
i know my letter was a little confusing too, but hey, we're girls :P :)
good luck with everything.

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