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21 to old?
Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?
-Confused.
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I know it doesn't seem like that, but it is. All he wants is your body. I know you think I probably don't understand but, he's 21 and you're 15. So technically, whether your mom approves or not it's illegal for you two to be dating until you're 18. I strongly advise you to just be friends until you're older and ready for that kind of relationship he wants out of you because I'm not so sure it's JUST 'boyfriend & girlfriend'. But then again, he could go to jail if you two DO have sex, and that would've been statutory rape. So if you absolutely INSIST on dating, do not have sex with him... it's your decision but... I think you'd definately regret it.
~ I really hope I helped, Lauren
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Some people will probably think that it is wrong to go out with someone 6 years older than you, but if it is okay with your mother, and if you want to, go out with him, just be extra careful.
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Hey. If he is really sweet and all than maybe you can give it a try. But that is a really big age difference and I know it's good on your end but it's a little immature on his. No offense to him or anything but that is a really big age difference and a lot of guys do just go out with younger girls to take advantage of them. A LOT. Please don't take this the wrong way because he could be the most amazing guy and it could be true love so don't care about what others think. But please just be careful and responsible because for the 21 year old (no matter how overly mature you are) he is pretty old to date a 15 year old. Just be careful if you do give it a try! =)
Chrissabelle<3
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Ok this may seem a little complicated. On one hand, he could be genuinely sweet and really like you. But it is REALLY REALLY illegal for anyone over 18 to date a minor. He could get into a lot of trouble. And your friends are right, most guys who are older than 18 and want to date someone that much younger is only looking for sex. In most cases they realize teenagers are more vulnerable and into relationships, and they think it's easier for him to score. There is a good chance he likes you for you, and theres also a good chance he honestly just wants to date you. But it's illegal, and he should seriously date people his own age. I hope I helped <3
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i say give it a chance. he could be a very nice guy and then he could be a creep on the other hand. if you have seen him before it all depends but if you have not then do not see him a lone like ask to go on a double date untill you could really get to know him. so that is my advice your decision to follow it or not.
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well im 16, & i like a 21 yr old..
Soo I know how that is.
No, it's not too old.
There's no such thing as too old
in a relationship,
well that's my opinion.
But who cares what you mom or
friends say, if it's what makes
you happy..go for it :] good luck!
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Well you could go on the date and see how he is. If you dont like him then i mean dont see him anymore. Its good to give people chances because you never know whats going to happen. I'd say just give it a shot and see what will happen.
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if you like him
it shouldnt matter what others think
its the one you wanna be with
then be with him
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and if ur mom approved
thats also a plus
hope i helped
and never forget
there is never an age limit on love
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