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Do you think that it is ok to go to prom w/o a date? 17/f
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It is TOTALLY fine to go to prom without a date. My junior prom I went to alone, and met up with some friends. It ended up being a lot of fun, and I met another single guy there. My senior prom I went to with a date, and it wasn't as much fun. I felt like I had to be with him the entire night rather than going with my friends. What matters is that you have fun and enjoy yourself, not who you do or don't go with :)


my but has stretch marks around. is their any way i can make them fade faster? and i also have them below my breasts. how can i get rid of thoes??? (link)
Cocoa butter and vitamin e cream worked for my mom. but it's normal for girls to have stretch marks there... it means your growing. if your still a teenager wait a little while - sometimes they fade on their own. otherwise go the a drug store and try those creams. good luck hun


I was wondering if there is something worng with me...I get headaches like every day and they last a long time and sometimes they dont go away when I take something. Sometimes they turn into migrains and its really bad. Last night I had a headache so I thought going to bed would make it better but I woke up with it. (link)
Talk to your doctor about it. You could be getting migranes from too much stress or not enough sleep, or you may have had head trauma and didn't realize it. If the headaches don't go away you need to get emamined. I hope you get better hun


can someone tell me how you say "reach for the stars" in spanish?

and please don't use the free translator junk. it doesn't come out right.

please and thank you!! (link)
i think it's alcance para las estrellas, but im not sure about the alcance part. thats what it said in my dictionary for reach, but sometimes its not the right thing you know? I really hope I helped :]


You know the facebook application "Hot or Not?"
Well for some reason, it only lets me get rated 20 times (I have an avg of 9.8), but it won't let them keep rating mee.
And same with a lot of my friends. If you click on "My Scoreboards," than a lot of my friends also have only acquired 20 votees...
Why can't I get more people to rate me? (link)
the application is still fairly new, as is the entire idea of appliations, so facebook hasn't worked out all of the bugs. Contact the facebook staff and let them know and they could give you a better explanation or at least fix it.



Whenever I download AIM 6.1, it downloads AIM 6.0. I have Windows XP and all of the requirements and I keep re downloading 6.1 but it just comes up as AIM 6.0 and I didn't even have 6.0 to begin with! Does anyone have that problem or know how to deal with it? (link)
I have never even heard of that happening before. Most likely the AIM server isn't recognizing your request. I thought 6.0 was the only one they released, so try downloading 6.0 and then upgraded. good luckkk


well i just got back from a party and i saw this boy who i kinda no and we were flirting and my friend told him that i liked him which i do! then later on i saw one of my old friends and we kind of went out a while ago but he was asking people if they had seen me so i talked to him aND HE likes me!!!!! but theres one more at school thati lkke and we talk but he has a g/f !!!!!! which one should i pick?????? (link)
Well obviously the one with the girlfriend is off limits. And just because someone likes you, doesn't mean you should go out with them. If you really like the first guy, then that's the guy you should go with.


Is it possible to have an English major and minor in Photography? Or would I have to minor in Art? (link)
I'm not sure exactly, but I think it depends on the college. I was looking into similar majors for when I graduate, and I was told that certain colleges will make you major in Art, and some won't. So I suggest checking the website for your college, or visiting yourself. Hope I helped


I live in Jersey & over break I'm going to NYC. I've been there but I have a few questions:
1. does tiffany's have returned jewelry or anything that's cheaper?
2. where can I get a good fake purse? (coach, chanel or juicy)
3. can I get good fake jewelry & where?
if you know the answer to any of those, I would really appreciate your answers! (link)
Hunny, every street corner has the most amazing fake handbags. I have a fake coach that cost 20 bucks that no one could tell was fake until they looked really closely. Tiffany's does NOT have cheap jewelery, I suggest looking at their least expensive items (on the first or second floor) or just going to a department store. As for fake jewelery, Target, and all those kind of stores have them.


Ok my best friend (J) is literally the most populariest girl in the entire school. Shes gorgeous, flirty, and outgoing/fun nice shes perfect. Shes always the center of attention. But some of the people who we both hang out with at school hate the fact that shes always the center of attention. They're jealous of her ahb-viousely. They all told her that in her face. She told me about this during lunch and now all her friends hate her. Shes such a boy magnet like all the guys fall for her. I dont really even mind. But she hates school. I dont understand what I should tell her? She cant help the fact that shes always the center of attention. Shes an out-going person and she wont change? What do you think she should do? (link)
She should just be her. People are always gonna hate, and to those people just be you in SPITE of them. They aren't really her friends if they'd do that to her. Next time make sure she just laughs and tells them "You know what, I'd be jealous to."


what is the normal age for a girl to get her first kiss? and when did you guys have your first kiss?

because i'm 15/f and i've never been kissed before. (link)
There's no normal age. When it happens it happens. Mine was when I was really, really young. But I have friends who are 16 and never been kissed too. It depends on the person, don't kiss just to kiss. It'll happen at the right time.


I'm about to graduate from a trade school next week and there is a teacher who I grew close to. And i'm kind of sad because I don't want to lose contact with him after graduation. It's nothing weird, I have just always gotten along better with adults than people my age...
Anyway, How can I ask him if we can stay in touch and remain friends without it sounding weird I guess, because he is my teacher and also i'm the youngest one in class and I don't want him to see me as just some weird kid.
I'm 19 and he's around his early 30's (link)
Just be like. I know I'm leaving soon and it would be great to keep in touch with you. You've helped me a lot this year (or past few years) and it would be great if I could stay in contact with you.


Whats it mean to be down-to-earth? I mean, I hear people say it all the time but I'm not clear of what it means.. sorry, I know it isnt really an advice question. (link)
It means that you're really calm and you don't think of yourself too highly. So if I was to say "Oh wow! You are SO down to earth." Then I'd mean that your cool, calm and fun to be arround. It's reallyyyyy, really hard to explain, so I hope I helped.


I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
dont kill yourself.


wat hair color will look good on a filipina girl with black eyes and yellowish beige color of face? (link)
Black usually looks the best. Or try black with red higlights or low lights. To give it a more exotic look.


there's this guy that i like and he likes me back. we've liked eachother since..november.
the only reason why he won't ask me out is because i turned him down last time which was like, last year. and he's afraid i'll reject him again (according to one of his friends). so basically, he wants me to ask HIM out.
how do i do that though? it seems so hard. (link)
Trust me it isnt. If you like him, and he likes you, he'll deff say yes. So one day just go up to him and say "Hey, wanna go to the movies or something". Bingo, all done =]


Hi, i just recieved the HPV vaccine, and the next day my boyfriend and i had sex...i didnt think about then, but is it possible that he can catch it or anything? (link)
Only women can have HPV. Although men can be carriers, they do not get it through sex. You have nothing to worry about =]


It seems like in my new town,[well,i've lived here since i was in 6th grade,now in 8th...13 yrs old.] i dont have any close friends!! No one ever want to hang out with me. i have a lot of school friends,but they never seem to want to hang out. i know im not interesting,how can i be? i don't know how to get close to anyone or let them in! i feel like im uptight,or quiet,but if they really knew me,im not! they always seem to have fun,but not outside school? i dont get it. how can i be closer to them? & dont says things like join a activitie,its almost the end of the year...kinda. no activities. and no "join a new group of friends" - every time i do that,the same thing happens. i feel so left out. they never want to make plans with me. what do i do? (link)
Don't ever change for someone else. I have learned the very hard way that changing will only make people think your fake. My advice is to talk to everyone. I don't mean be friends with everyone you see. But try to strike up conversation with different people. If your "friends" only like you during school and dont want to hang out, then they arent friends to begin with. Try making plans with them yourself. Ask them to hang out at your house, movies, or just hang out at the mall. Offer the invite to a group, that way no one feels awkward or anything. If they keep avoiding hanging out with you then I strongly suggest trying to get new friends. I hope I helped


i have been fingered 2 times and ate out 2 times im i still a virgin? (link)
Technically your still a virgin until sexual intercourse. But some say that oral counts. It depends on what you want to believe I guess.


Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?

-Confused. (link)
Ok this may seem a little complicated. On one hand, he could be genuinely sweet and really like you. But it is REALLY REALLY illegal for anyone over 18 to date a minor. He could get into a lot of trouble. And your friends are right, most guys who are older than 18 and want to date someone that much younger is only looking for sex. In most cases they realize teenagers are more vulnerable and into relationships, and they think it's easier for him to score. There is a good chance he likes you for you, and theres also a good chance he honestly just wants to date you. But it's illegal, and he should seriously date people his own age. I hope I helped




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