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Center Of Attention
Ok my best friend (J) is literally the most populariest girl in the entire school. Shes gorgeous, flirty, and outgoing/fun nice shes perfect. Shes always the center of attention. But some of the people who we both hang out with at school hate the fact that shes always the center of attention. They're jealous of her ahb-viousely. They all told her that in her face. She told me about this during lunch and now all her friends hate her. Shes such a boy magnet like all the guys fall for her. I dont really even mind. But she hates school. I dont understand what I should tell her? She cant help the fact that shes always the center of attention. Shes an out-going person and she wont change? What do you think she should do?
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that sounds the same as me but if you want her to change that bad maybe its not her maybe its you so maybe you should ask your that sorry about the rude comment
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There is nothing really she can do. People are always going to be jealous of her. I think maybe she could introduce her friends to some of the boys they like; to try and get herself out of the spotlight.
Hope this helps,
DannyWalsh
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In your teenage years everyone is going to be jealous of everyone. Hey, even out of your teenage years it's going to happen. Some popular girls might be jealous of a nerd because her life is so much simpler and she is a lot smarter.
So what you should do is let your friend live the life she wants, this will sound so lame and overrused but real friends don't let something like that come in between them. So good riddance to the bitches who ditched her. Let your friend live her life, sometimes someone who has everyone jealous of them likes it and laughs about it in their sleep :)
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if you don't like how shes center of attention you can always pull a good ol' mean girls thing on her. for example have someone hired to trip her in the hall or hire someone to embarass her. otherwise you can't really change what people think of someone else unless you do something to change how they look at the person.
-rich
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first of all, what are you, 2? popularisest isn't a word, and it's not cute to use bad vocabulary. no one finds it entertaining past the second grade, lol. second of all, don't spell the word "ahb-viously". it's in the clique books only so the author can illustrate how the new york accent sounds, but it's not meant to be spelled unless it's for that reason. i'm just telling you this so you don't look like a poser in the future. if you want to be like massie and the girls in the clique, when you're talking in person, say it like how lisi harrison spells it. otherwise, it's a no go. finally, to answer your question, no matter who hates her, she is who she is. if she's the most popular girl in the school, obviously (note spelling) she isn't at a lack of friends. if those other girls are giving her a hard time, she should tell them that she is who she is and she's not going to change herself for them. overtime, they'll get over their immature jealousy. if these girls hate her for who she is, it's time to move on to some new friends, or tell the old ones that she's not trying to offend them in any way. hope i helped,
Jennifer
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She should just be her. People are always gonna hate, and to those people just be you in SPITE of them. They aren't really her friends if they'd do that to her. Next time make sure she just laughs and tells them "You know what, I'd be jealous to."
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