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why do you think people can be cruel to those they love the most?

Sometimes they do it just because they love you too much and think that they will never leave you. It pretty much happens to everyone.

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he says he deserves repsect from me but i think i do from him.

he cusses at me, and hes uber hypacrtitical.

he says i have to change if i want to live in his house.

uhm HES NOT MY REAL FATHER !

and there is no fucking way that im going to change for anyone, especially him.

so. i kinda cut. /:

Well I think you should talk to your mom about it. I dont think it is right for him to be doing that either. Its not good to cut though. Theres always another way through it but cuttin is not the way. Talk to your mom about it and get her tell him something or maybe you can even sit you step dad down and talk to him about it.

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Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?

-Confused.

Well you could go on the date and see how he is. If you dont like him then i mean dont see him anymore. Its good to give people chances because you never know whats going to happen. I'd say just give it a shot and see what will happen.

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14/F
i am a little confused, what exactly is LOVE between a boy and a girl???..u know like a couple.

In my words love would be like a boy and a girl understanding each other and really have strong feelings for each other. Would be able to talk to them about anything really. Just to trust them with your life.

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i recently got in a fight with my friends -long storey not getting into it. i lost them all and i DONT want them back. any ways to make friends quick. im shy so that might get in the way. any advice.?

Well im sure everyone goes through loosing some of there friends and tellin them your tired of them and you dont wnat to be friends anymore because i know i have. Just talk to people in your classes on the computer more the ones that are on your level. Soon enough im sure you'll have plenty of friends and you wont even have to worry about the old ones. hope i helped.

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I am blonde (naturally) and always have been. I can't imagine my life without blonde hair. It is a huge part of who I am today. Anyways, my class mates decide to be sterotypical and now everything thinks I am just another dumb blonde. I am so tired of it. I didn't do my homework assignment once and I now I am dumb. They look at me as if I were an idiot. I'm no though. I have A's and B's and I am in honors and seminar classes! What can I do to prove to them I am not a dumb blonde? or should I just let it go and let them think what they want?

I just say let them think what they want because the fact that blondes are always being called dumb is pretty stupid if you ask me. I mean they could be callin you that to because your in honors and you get A's and B's they probobly are just jealous of you and want to be like you. Thats why I think people mess with others. They have no life. Just dont even worry about them. Im sure you have other friends that you can be with. If they keep on bothing you go off on them. There Lame.

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My Daughter is 11 and she tells me shes old anough to babysit but i dont know if she should. I started babysitting when i was 11 but i want to make sure its a good age. Please help!

First of all you want to look at how good she is. Do you have trust in her. Is she mature enough to handle a kid. I mean you can talk to her about it and tell her your going to let her do it and while your out you can call her and see how everythin is going and if everything goes good then clearly she would be ready. You just have to give them chances.

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ok well theres this new kid in school and he is REALLY CUTE!!! He stares at me in all the classes we have together...
I really want to get to know him and maybe go out with him somtime.
But the thing is he has the same last name as me which makes it kinda weird doesnt iT???
Do you think it would be really weird??!?!?!?

Well I mean it may seem a little weird at first. Im sure once yall get to know each other it probably wont even matter. Unless you find out that yall are related. Most likly wouldnt happen though. Very odd. It really shouldnt matter i mean if you really like him and he really likes you then go for it. Hope i helped.

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Is it normal for the guy who loves u to check out other girls? because i find it sorta disrespectful but i also hear its normal and im confused..

Gosh. Well I do undertsnad what you are saying because I think pretty much all guys do that. I guess you can say its normal. He might just be tryin to check them out to see if he really does like you. I mean that may not be the case, some guys just do it to get attention. Its just a guy thing.

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