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running out of time.
i have 2 days left of school. and i need to tell this person, that i miss are friendship. we were on some bad terms, because of me. i feel weird going up to them and saying, hey i miss talking to you. what can i do? i need help. badly.
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Sending a person a note or an e-mail is a bad idea. It doesn't come across as looking sincere as anyone can write what someone else wants to hear and send it off. Also, it's a very bad idea incase this person is really mad and shows it around to others mocking you for writing it.
That's an extreme case but I have seen it happen many times before with people I knew. You need to follow the advice of the poster who said to pull the person aside, tell them you miss them and want to resolve the issue between you.
If the person won't consent to that or wants nothing more to do with you accept it, don't plead, beg etc. but move on as quite often they'll come back to a person and give them a chance to state their piece if you give them room to.
It's often shocking if you haven't spoken for so long for the other person to be getting an olive branch. Don't be surrised if they aren't sure how to react to you extending one.
But extend it you must and by approaching them in person. There's no other way to properly deal with this. It's people who cannot deal with turmoil and upset who turn to letters and e-mails, pleading etc to back out of a face-to-face talk which is the only thing that will solve issues like this.
Anyone can write a note or e-mail it's face-to-face sincerity and hashing things out that works. I hope it goes well for you but in the event it's over it's not your fault completely because you cannot control what happens and maybe they're scared of being hurt again.
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Send a email to ask the person to meet you after school at somewhere you always hang out before. And then tell him/her that you missed talking/hanging out with him/her in person. It's alwasy good to know the old friendship is still there. Good luck. ^____^
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writing a note is ALWAYS easy. That way you don't have to worry about stuttering or them rejecting you to your face. I always write people notes when we're arguing.. it also helps because you can say exactly how you feel, and erase stuff and all that junk. Hope it works out :]<3
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