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All my life-I was known as the "stick."


Now I'm gaining weight-and fast. I am on birth control and that could be one of the reasons-but I'm also not in as many sports as i once was.

I'm not fat-but I feel as if i am overweight. I am 5'9 and i weigh 130.


Psycologically-I want to stop eating. I eat something fattening-and then I decide not to eat for the rest of the day.



I can't shake this-and I really just want to lose weight. I run every day-but it soon ended-I just couldn't do it anymore. I have horrible back problems. I try and eat heathy-but i still feel fat.


Sorry.


Please help..

Well you arent fat at all if your 5'9 that is quiet skinny for your hieght so dont worry about it ..
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OK this girl I've known for a long time hates me for some reason. I was crushing on her boyfriend and they broke up. We've been in many a fight and I want to be friends with her but all she does is call me a bitch or a cunt. This has been going on ever since I've met her. How do I get her to stop and maybe be friends with me? HELP

Well talk to her and let her kno somehow that her boyfriend didnt break up with her becoz of you .. if she doesnt understand then i would just forget her i'm sure you have other friends!!
kaitlyn jo ♥

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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me.

Make him understand that you want to wait until you feel comfortable to do it and if he really loves you then he will wait .. I dont think that the stuff that your mother told was really true but i dont really kno about it hurting when you use the bathroom but you wont kno until it happens becoz some people could be different .. Hope i helped !!
kaitlyn jO*

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okay i still love my x boyfriend but everytime i talk to him i always seem to have some reason to fight w/him..but i love him with all my heart? is it because i'm jealous that some other girl is going to come into his life and steal him away? i really need help because for the past 4 months i can't seem to get over him..we've dated 2 times but it never worked out..cause we fight all the time..he used to start the fight but now it's me who does..i love him so much! and i just wish that i could understand why i start fights with him..i've told him before that i'd rather have bad times with him than good times with anyone else..and we've both admited that we love fighting with each other because we ALWAYS make up. i can't understand why i like it though..please help me!! thanks

Well you never kno the fights could get worse and you might actually get over him but you should still have an open mind .. there are other guys !!!!! You could also try to sit down and talk to him trying not to fight about anything and explain to him that you really love him still !! Hope i helped !!
kaitlyn jO ♥

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okay the problem is when i sweat and stuff my hair gets REALLY frizzy, almost like in the movies when someone gets elecricuted! it sticks up everywhere, and everyone else has perfect hair lying flat on their head while dripping with sweat, and even the slightest bit of sweat and i turn into a puff ball or something! i have soccer tryouts tonight at 4-6 and the rest of the week, and then i have a soccer tournament saturday and sunday, does anyone have some ideas on how i can tame my hair so i dont look like i've been elctricuted while i'm playing soccer?! pleeeeeease help, this has been happening forever and i am sick of it. i rate 5's for answers that arent stupid or unhelpful. ♥

Well you could try putting it up in a pony tail when your playing soccer .. you can also straighten your hair with a clothing iron .. that really helps!! Hope i helped!!
kaitlyn jO*

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ok im 14/f and im going to high skool next year and i would like some exersizis (sp) for my arms legs and i wana get abs by the end of augest can u plz help i rate high

Run and walk alot for your legs
Push up and sit ups for your abs and arms
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Today the discharge in my underwear had a yellowish brown tint to it. Some parts of it looked kinda red. This is the first time this has happened. Is this my period coming or should I worry. I don't want to go to the doctor *unless its really serious* because my family is really short of money right now. I'll rate 5's for any helpfull answer.

Yea its most likely your period cominq !!
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what do i do, my girlfriend is geting hi on by her ex, but im not the violent type, or the type o confront, so how do i handle it? it really messes with me, cse it seems like she isnt making it clear to him that her and i are together and there is no chance for him... i dont know. but i really love her and this kind of stuff it aggrovating to try and handle...

Well talk to her and tell her that she needs to tell him to stop hittinq on her either that or you could try telling him that you all are together and that you would really like for him to stop hittinq on her!! Hope i helped!!
kaitlyn jo*

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Im from the uk. And we all have our own slang words or buzz words for things. What does making out mean in like american terms or to anyone really! All help greatley appreciated,
thanks
anthony

Making out in american terms mean that you kiss some 1 for a long time !! Hope i helped !!
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ohk so im going to be getting an ipod, it holds 1,000 songs but my question is lets say for example i have 225 songs on my ipod & im getting sick of 5 songs can i delete them so there for i would have 220 songs left?

Yepp you will have 220 songs left and you can delete all the songs that you want to !!
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i think i have artheritis in my arm. what sign should i be aware of. i know that its something to do with the joints and thats were the pain is..it happens anytime i lift something or add a little pressure to it. am a too young to have artheritis?? 13//totally FEMALE

Why dont you go to a doctor .. they wil probably kno whats wrong .. or you could go on google.com and look for symptoms of it on there !! Hope i helped !!
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Alright...well my hair is extremely thick and frizzy and poofy in the humidity. I straighten it and that seems to help. but i was wondering...is it true that if you get your hair thinned out it grows back thicker? thanks ill rate

I wouldnt get my hair thinned it makes it hard to deel with .. i dont kno if it gets thicker when it griows baq tho becoz it takes a while ..
Hope i helped !!
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my column was great..like, it had marquee of pictures and colors and all the codes and today i went online to look at it and it was all messed up. only words were there and none of the codes and none of my pictures showed up. i went to my profile settings to see if everything was there, and it was exactly the same. i tried copying everything in there and then deleting it and then going back and putting it in there but it didnt work! does anyone know whats wrong? is it happening to other people too? and if its just me, how can i notify the site to see if somethings up? i will rate 5 if i have an honest answer for all of my questions! thanks!!

Well it hasnt ever happened to me but you could make sure that all the codes are right and try waiting a while and put the pictures on there again !! i dont really kno whats wrong tho becoz one other person said that they spent 5 hours on theirs and they went baq to it a little later and it wasnt there .. i dont know how you could contact anyone !! sry and i hope i helped you out some !!
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Hi. im not writing this question for people to tell me im unique and crap, but lately, ive just been feeling bad. I think im ugly. People always tell me that im ugly. its just my face..i mean my nose is just so weird that i feel so self conscious and whenever im with my friends it hurts me so much always seeing guys all flirting with them and stuff. ive never been asked out, and people always tell me that im ugly. i know its mean, and only sometimes i feel pretty. i know that if i feel beautiful, i am beautiful, and being confident is bueatiful, but i dont want that crap. i need some way to make me feel better about myself....any suggestions?

I ignore poeple like that and i dont think that it should matter what you look like .. they are probably ugly them selves i wouldnt let afew people bring down my self esteem becoz of that !! hope that i helped !!
i.m. me - - - xdingyxbabex
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This years camp play was supposed to be Annie. I wanted to be annie so bad! But the counciler said I was really good. So I got the part. The next day on stage I was getting my costume on. The tiny red dress, just didnt fit. It ripped in half! I mean I know im overweight but I have never ripped clothes before! What do I do to get a new dress? I cant buy one! The play is 3 nights! HELP!

Just talk to the couselor about it and see if she could sew it baq together or fix it some how
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what are some good hair straighteners that won't really damage your hair alot

Well i'm pretty sure that when you go to the store that you would be able to find one that would damage your hair !!
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Okay, here's the deal. My one guy-friend told me he liked me and that he wanted to go to the movies with me.. and I said yes ; because I did/didn't like him ( cause I haven't seen him in for like ever ) but I didn't want there being awkwardness so I had my one friend kinda invite herself ( lol yeah I know.. ). So she was coming to the movies. But then he didn't have money for it, so he couldn't go, so he suggested just hanging at his house. Well all day nothing happened, and it was getting latish kinda around 7 or something so I didn't even think I was going...but then he suddenly said he could come and get me. So I was allowed and stuff which was awseome! But then we stopped to rent movies, and his mom went shopping and stuff, so we didn't get to his house till like 7:30 and I had to go by 9 ( so we had to leave before then ) so then we were holding hands and enjoying ourselves and stuff and then I went home. And then my mom tells me she got a call from my friend who said she was upset because we ditched her or something ( and I didn't mean to like intentionally, I just thought that I was only there for like.. an hour or so, so I thought by the time she got there, we'd all have to leave anyway so I thought next time.. ) but she's not talking to me now and stuff and it's become this huge thing and stuff... and I don't know what to do, I mean I feel really really bad and stuff...
=( PLEASE HELP ME!

WEll you should have called and told her what was going on but ... i would call her and tell her what went on that night and it was a last minute thing kind of and that your really sorry for what you did hopefully she will get over it soon !! Hope i helped!!
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hey.
i am 13/f & i have this cousin that is 10 & she asked me if i have had sex before & i said no & she said that she could "show me" & gave me the choices of having sex with her, her giving me lessons, giving me oral or fingerfucking me! & i went with it just so she would leave me alone & now i am scared of what she might do & i dont know how to react to this & am so creeped out... What should i do? plz help!!! i rate high!!!!
thanks

wOw she is your little cousin and only 10 years old!!!!!! that is reallly wrong you could have just walked away from here or left the room .. you need to talk to her and make sure that shes not doing that with any 1 else !! that is a little odd and gross for only a ten years old sry if i sounded mean !! =(
Hope that i helped you out some !!
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I just did my column and it looked REALLY pretty! I went to about 6 different websites to get ALL my graphics. I logged out, came back about 5 hours later, and EVERYTHING I did is GONE! I'm really upset right now because I spent about 5 hours on that column and my HARD WORK is all gone! Why is this and is there ANY way possible I can get it back? Has this ever happened to any of yall?
PLEASE HELP!

That totally sucks .. are you sure that you even hit the submit button?? i pretty sure taht you could probably go baq into your history and it could still be on there.. Hope that i helped you out!!
kaitlyn jO

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well all of my friends wear special underwear, thongs, and i dont like them ,but i dont wanna tell them that, they'll call me granny, but im also not allowed to wear them, and when i do i feel uncomfortable and guilty thinking wut would my parents think if they know im wearing them, HELP ME!

It really is just your choice and how to they kno that your not wearing a thong ??
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