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hey..im 13 and i live in new yOrki really haven`t been throuqh ThaT muCh
but i can still help ya i quess...i`ll
do my` best LuvV ya alWayz mariia
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i dont feel the same way about my bf anymore. plain and simple. but hes in love w/ me. so i dont know what to do. he deserves A LOT and i dont want to hurt him. but i just... well i dont deserve him and he was mr right at the time... but hes just not mr right now. so i dont wanna lead him on. how do u break up w/ a guy thats in love w/ u??
just tell him yOu dOn`t feel the same way anymOre .. well actually say everything yOu just said in yOur questiOn .. just *don`t wait any lOnger* that wOuld be a biiig mistake .. hOpe i helped! x3`xo maria
I'm 14 and me and my friend kristina have been friends for like ever! since like kindergarten.. Well she got really serious with her ex boyfriend. They're like made for each other.. Well they broke up and were seeing other people for a while.. She got involved with this kid jason and he's totally obsessive! Well they broke up and she got back w/ the first guy.. Now jason won't leave her alone.. If you have any ways she can tell jason to leave her alone that she's with the one she loves completley could you tell me.. I was kinda lost when she told me about this
haha wOw the same thing happened to me .. but the guy like 'jasOn' is wierd arOund me and i knOw he likes me and stuff cause he asks about my bOyfriend all the time. i jus ignOre it, but if it gets to the pOint where it gets annOying just tell him to leave her alOne! it might wOrk.. nO wOrries!
I really like this guy (im 15/f) like i think it might be love.. but he has a girlfriend.. me n him always chill n like make out n stuff.. and he always tells me he loves me.. but why is he with her?
hey, well once u are about to make out just say i can`t you have a girlfriend .. and see where he goes from there*
what do girls do when they start to get sick of a guy?
dump them .. ?
i was just wondering what the best diet is to loose like 5 -10 pounds before school starts....please help.....luv ya
well, i rly have no experience dietinq, but i`d say probably cut down on all the junk food, not that anyone couldn`t think of that .. ha .. and set a limit of calories for a day .. my friends mom did that and i think it worked for her .. so say maybe 500 calories or pick whatever*
hey. im really skinny so its hard to find tight fitting jeans like i want. i shop everywhere and i cant really find jeans that arent a lil baggy. i shop at hollister, abercrombie, pacsun, nordstrom, marshall fields, some designer stores u havent heard of and more.. and i cant find any good tight fitting jeans. even the slim sizes arent tighter, they just fit better around the waste. where should i shop? thanxx
hey..i`m the same way..i sh0p at abercrombie kids, the slim sizes fit pretty well for me..good luck!
my boyfrend wants to do me but im not ready for it\\ and he said that if i won't do it with him he won't go out with me\\ please help ASAP
...f0rqet about him..he`s obiously using y0u f0r sex...and thats not cool =( ....hope i helped!
do you think having an online relationship is okay..... so youve seen the pictures talked alot.. but do i really know and trust them.. i mean would you depend your life on someone you just met online.. or is that crazy!! thanks
~*a*M*y~
h0nestly..no, i d0n`t think it`s right...i think 0nline datinq is completely fake...but it`s all up t0 y0u..h0pe i helped* xox maria
well all year this girl has wanted to fight me but she never duz....she always called me a slut and everything well now she has my number and she calls me all the time bitching and threatning to beat my ass and i dont know what to do...i want to leave this town im just not happy here anymore plezz help me
sounds to me like shes scared...if it`s really bothering you, you could get ur number switched, so that`s not likely to work. i`d say just ignore her call`s. you`ve got nothing to lose..i mean if she wants to waste her time harrassing someone and not doing anything about it...thats pretty dumb..so shes likely not to do anything, she`s just ruining her rep, so u have nuthin to worry about!
Could u plz give me some pick up lines 4 a good conversation.I mean whenever i speak 2 my bf we like dont know what to speak about.Plz advice.*Will rate if anser.*
don`t use pick`up lines..they are fake..just talk about you`re summer`s and stuff you`re planninq to do or whatever comes to mind...h0pe i helped! goOd lucK! *rate me please =)*
i have a thing for this kid that works at the cvs near me. i dont know anything about him except his name, which i got off his name tag, and that he has to be at least 18. he flirted with me one time i went in there and then i went back constantly for a couple weeks to try to start some sort of conversation but he was never there. then one day i saw a girl that works there walking to work and i asked her if he still worked there, and she said he did. that night i went to cvs and he didnt flirt at all and beyond that i didn't find him to be particularly friendly. so was he having a bad day or did she tell him that i asked about him and now hes all "eww" and is rejecting me? should i go back and try again? what should i say? im such a dork. but im a cute dork.
Hey, well maybe he was just havinq a bad day..maybe he wasn`t..there`s no other way to find out but flirtinq with him more...what do ya have to lose! *rate me =)*
Hey Im 19 and I have blonde hair, green eyes, im 5'5, and 100lbs. My bf says he loves me but I think he only likes me for my looks. He is always telling me how pretty i am and stuff. Everytime I ask him why he loves me, he jus doesnt answer the ?. He loves bringin me places to show me off to his friens. Everytime one of his freins hits on me, he jus laughs and keeps talking. One time his friend tried cybering wit me on here and when I told him he didnt believe me.
well...it seems t0 me he`s 0nlii` usinq y0u f0r l0oks..s0o either get him t0o answer whether he really l0ves y0u, or just find a new quy wh0 really likes y0u f0r y0u `nd n0t f0r l0oks*
maria
I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents?
same thinq happened t0 me, i kept it a secret f0r a few m0nths, but my m0m eventually f0und out and t0ok it really well..and my dad didn`t rly care either..s0o i say g0 f0r it..and if w0rse c0mes t0 w0rst then y0u just have to break up wiTh him* h0pe i helped*
im 12 yrs old i dont know anyone who has had sex (well people my age and a couple yars older) but when i read some of these problems on advicenators most of the people are like 13 or 14 and say that they have sex a lot its kind of creepy my sisters 14 but she hasnt had sex im wondering if these people are either lying about their age or more mature than me. i feel like when im 13 or 14 that il be soo pressured into sex and stuff. i hear these unbelievable stories of guys and girls having sex since they were 12. its so perverted and i mean is it weird im not ready or as into it as other people are?
no hun, they`re n0t lyinq...they`re just maturinq faster..you should only do what`s comfortable f0r y0u..hope i helped*
IM MIKE! Im a nice guy and alot of girls like me. i have a pretty good life except ONE THING..puberty. my voice is still a little high and there is no sign of cracking. im 13 years old and i turn 14 in the begging of january! Is there something wrong with me?!
0oh mikey mikey mikey..lol..ya ur v0ice is high..but hun there nuthinq wronq with u..lol, it`s just that y0u`re devel0pinq *slower* lmao haha h0pe i helped..
ok well my bf was at school for most of summer and i missed him a lot but after spending a lot of time with him before he left, i kind of don't like him as much as i used to. i mean i don't not like him enough to break up with him but yeah.i still love him. i like never see him too, i see him like maybe every 2 weeks and it's been like this for awhile and i don't really think there's anything we can do about that. i also feel really bad because when i was at a camp for a week, i cheated on him really bad and i'm just really confused. should i tell him i cheated on him?
y0u sh0uld definately tell him..he probably will be mad if he still likes y0u..but its f0r the best, believe me--been thEre d0ne that s0 d0 whatever u want
Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old?
n0 offence, but, thats deff. a qiant aqe qap...think back t0o when y0u were 10..did y0u kn0w AnYtHiNq y0u d0 n0w? s0o i`d say that`s kindaa wr0nq but y0u can d0 whatever y0u want
my boyfriend's parents don't know we're going out and they're starting to find out and acting really suspicious ever since i went over his house today. we both dont know what to do... if he tells themhe the truth we'll probly have to break up... if he lies then his conscience will get the best of him. please help me. im in tears already.
well h0ney, y0u can`t keep lyinq t0o his parents.. all i can saii` is qive it time, his parents will learn t0 accept it
*h0pe i helped yaa, rate me
I think i am very fat. I am 5'1 and i weight 110 pounds..all my friends are tall and they weigh more than me but are skinnier than me. They are all 13 and i am still 12. Sometimes I feel like I am the fattest 12 yr old in the world. Do you think there is a way I could slim up my body? If so could you tell me how? I would really appreciate it.
oO mann...honey..y0u`re deff. n0t fat..really y0u`re n0t..5'1 and 110 are pr0bably perfectly n0rmal..actually, when y0u feel like y0u`re fat..go to tha fact`s..the average american w0man is a size 14 and 5'5..s0o ur deff. n0t fat at all!
i like this guy, and i think he likes me to. but my sister told me she also likes him. i really like this guy!!what should i do if i lke him and my sister does too. he acts like he likes me though.
hey..i think yOu shOuld find anOther quy tO like..i mean, i`m an Only child and all but i dOn`t think yOu want to lOse what trust yOu have with yOur sister by bOth gOing fOr the same quy..sO then yOur sister might lay Off him tOo..that way it wOuld be fair i guess? =)
* mariaa