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i'm blonde..very blonde haha. i love the wind on my hair and the sand on my feet. i love the ocean splashing on my legs, the summer sun. i love ice cream, my friends, family and everyone else. i love being a girly girl. i may not be able to kick a ball as far as you, or throw that football as high, but i can sing, dance, and act. i love being pampered, and i love shopping. i love seashells and summer's sweet treasures. i love to live life to its very fullest. i am a girl. i am today. i am tomorrow. i am faithful, cute, spunky, fun, and will do my best to give you the best advice you've ever gotten!
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i need some help getting a new screenname i absolutly hate the one that i have now.
can someone give me some ideas on new s/ns

if this helps any
-im 15
-i like punk rock and metal music
-my fave colors are black and pink
-my afave things are my chucks

ill rate 5s (link)
one funny idea is to get one thats like yaynameson ((replace name with your name, of course!)) so like, if someones name was bob it would be yaybobson..just a funny idea ive had.

ummm..if you like chucks you could always do something with the word chucks in it..

or you could do a lyric or phrase from a song you really like..

here are a few ideas..

justletmecry15
conversegirl
conversebabe
conversechick
blackpinkandlife
wipeyourtears65
letmelivex3
brokenhearted12
pinkpunkx3
isntshelonely
onelastkiss15
thelastgoodbye


sorry i cant think of much..but here's some good advice i got once..be sure to get a sn that fits you, that you love, and that you wont get tired of! sorry if any of the sn's are taken..try adding numbers to them if they dont work!

hope i helped you!


How do you accentuate your eyes? How do you make your eyes look bigger, but with a natural, yet stunning and exotic kind of look? Any tips or sites would be appreciated, thanks. (link)
sure, eyeliner and mascara, but its more than just that!

*put a dot of light mascara on the edge of your eye (closest to the nose) this will make your eyes look rounder and bigger!

*take a dark brown or smoky color, and basically trace the line where your eyeball ends (in between the center of your eyelid and your eyeshadow. when done correctly, your eyes will really be brought out. be sure that you don't do this too high up though!

*dont just stick with plain old black and brown eyeliner. try a fun, flirty color (turquoise, teal, neon/bright/shocking blues work really well!) and put just little marks underneath your eyes. this look is more fun, summery, etc.

*try blending--pick a color. get a darker shade and apply on eyelids. then, in center of eyelids, draw a line with a lighter shade. use a soft brush to blend the edges where these two shades meet together. ((this can also be done vice versa--lighter shade as base, darker on top))

hope i helped!!


So this Saturday is prom and I am going with the guy I like. What is some small ways I could let him know that I like him like what can I do? Thanks! (link)
aw..well..just be yourself..and have a great time! he most likely realizes that you like him, after all you two are going together! be flirty, fun, and fantastic, and have an awesome time!


me adn my friend brooke spend an auwfull lota time together.. and people are starting to call us twins... we look nothing alike.. well kinda i guesss tall and blond hair... we both hate it so much and always say no we don't!! but people just keep saying it !! ugh ..what should we do~! (link)
ughh.. i definitley know the feeling. just keep acting like yourself. maybe one of you is up for a change. try a different haircut/style or something that will make your look your own. if there are people who consistently say it, and know that you don't like it, just tell them firmly to please stop. if they are first timers, just shrug and say "you really think so??". if you make a big deal, it is more likely that they'll say it again. hope i helped!



Yeah.. I was at a 'get together' with a group of friends.. and we decided to play a game of some sort involving the opposite sex.. we were choosing which game.. and "Honey if you love me, smile" came up.. except I have no idea what that is.. ofcourse we chose a different game.. but for future reference.. how do you play. (link)
well..i'm guessing there are different versions. when i played, everyone sat in chairs in a circle. one person goes first, and goes up to someone of their choice, sits on their lap and puts their arms around them and says, "Honey, if you love me, please smile!?". Their goal is to keep a straight face. If they accomplish this, then the person has to sit on another person's lap. If a person does not keep a straight face, it's their turn to sit on someone's lap!

hope i helped


i am really having a hard time right now. my parents and i are always fighting.and im not gunna say its allt there fault but like i juss start screaming or they juss start screaming and i cant take it. there so much anger going on in my house. they just dont like me. i cant remember the last time they said "i love you" i cant talk to them about anything. i mean like we say hi and bye and stuff but thats about it. i dont get along with them and they dont get alng with me. i alway dont really have "friends". like sure there are people that i hang out with on the weekends and at school and stuff but i dont have friends like every one has where you can like cry on their sholuder and spill your heart out. not have friends has just put so much on my mind that i cant concentrate in school and my grade are slipping and then my parents scream more. also i have never had a boy friend and thats not that much of a big deal but it make me feel more unloved. i need someone to open up to. i have thought about killing my self many times. i even cut my self for a while but now i stopped. i cray my self to sleep EVERY singlt night. i need someone. i feel so lonely and deserted

im 13/f if that helps (link)
hello..i'm so sorry you feel so lonely and deserted. do you have a favorite aunt or awesome cousin you could turn to? also, you may want to try talking to God, even if youre not really faithful. He is a great friend to everyone, He will love you, and you can talk to Him as one. I also suggest getting a journal to write down your thoughts and feelings in. I'm sorry, I know i'm not much a big help..but anyways, whatever you do, hold on. Killing yourself is NOT the answer. With every thorn, there is a rose, with every ounce of dark, an ounce of light. hold on, and everything will be okay, if you hold on.



I have a major problem with giving speeches in front of the class. This week I am the only one left to do my speech, but I don't thick I can. I start to shake, and I can't talk right. I've tried looking over people's heads but it doesnt work. What can I do to get rid of this fear? (link)
Many people have trouble giving speeches. Try breathing deeply before your speech, and focus on what you are about to do. Make sure you don't have to go to the bathroom, you're not starving/thirsty..etc. All of these things can distract you while you are making your speech. Also, it's always good to carry note cards. Practice in front of your family, friends, or even by yourself in your room. Before your speech, don't tell yourself "oh i cant do this", etc. Have confidence, and give yourself optimistic thoughts to fiddle with. As for shaking, carry a chain or small squishy ball in your pocket, or really anything you can fiddle with. When you think youre about to shake, put your hand in your pocket and play with whatever is in there. If none of these techniques help you, have your mom or dad talk to your teacher. Many teachers will understand when a student has problems making speeches, and will make exceptions for you. I hope I helped!!


Okay I have this black pigment skin I guess you would call it. Where like some parts of your skin are darker than others. Like around my mouth its dark. Does anyone know how to get rid of it? I hate it. (link)
heyy! well i have the same problem only my pigment is lighter than the rest. my condition is permanent, so i dont know if yours is. but..if its just temporary and you just got it, it could possibly be affects of being out in the sun alot. if its something youve always had, you could see a dermatologist about different creams you can use to make it go away. A temporary fix is also using skin tone blenders. You can find these at CVS, or really any drug store or cosmetic store. You could also use sunless tanner, and/or foundation and/or a concealer stick with your skin tone. hope i helped you!


Omg, can anyone help me? It's almost 3 in the morning where I'm at, and my gum's hurting really bad. It's in the back, where I used to have wisdom teeth. I got them taken out way back in Oct. and haven't had a problem since. It's not my tooth, it's my gum, but I don't know. I don't think it's gingivitis, because it's not red at all. I checked for anything there, like food, but found nothing. So far, I've tried brushing my teeth and using rinse, but that didn't help. I took some painkillers about a half hour ago, but it hasn't helped much either. Does anyone know what this could be? And what can I do to stop the pain? Thanks so much, I'll rate.
x3 Erin (link)
Ouch..toothaches arent fun, are they!!?

i would suggest drinking lots of cold water and gargling salt water. dont suck on anything, like a candy or a straw, because that will have pressure on your gum and make it hurt worse. try and get an appointment to the dentist as soon as possible. hope i helped you, feel better!


Just recently, a man apparently came to my school. I don't really know who he is but they've been calling him Prophet Murphy. He's this guy that predicted the 9/11 fiasco and now he's like, come to my school and talked to the principal. I go to a high school in Vermont and he told the principal that there was going to be a shooting at the school this friday, the 13th of May. I'm a little bit confused because I don't know if the guy even came. It could all be just a rumor that some idot circulated. One of my best friends ex-boyfriend had told her that he planned on shooting up the school. I told her to tell the principal but I don't think she's going to. My other friend told her mom about the rumor and now she's not going to come to school because her mom's not letting her. Kristin's dad doesn't believe her and neither does mine. I just don't really know what to do. Should I take this seriously and cut school or something or is it nothing?

~scared to be shot in the head~ (link)
okay well first of all, you should probably find out if the rumor of that man coming to your school is true. go to your principal or a teacher/adult at the school you trust. most likely any adult will have been notified if it is true. if the rumor does happen to be true, i don't think it would be a bad idea to take some precautions. explain to your parents that you are scared to come to school. its better to be safe than sorry!


yesterday i was working on a project for chool outside adn a bug bit/stung teh bottom of my foot. i thought it was just a bee, but when i saw it, it looked like a big yellow fly. i know its not a horsefly. WHAT IS IT?!?! im allergic to bees, so i wasnt worried when it got swollen, but now its red and swollena dn i cant walk on it. what should i do. i already took some benadryl(sp?) thanks in advance! (link)
I think it'd probably be best to go to the doctor, but meanwhile, put ice on it to keep the swelling down, and keep it elevated (if youre laying down, stack some pillows under it). but yeah, just in case you should probably plan to go to the doctor..you don't want it to get infected!


this guy has liked me for practically two years now, but hes so shy and he never did anything except tell me he liked me. well now we've got this big dance coming up and i think hes gonna ask me. the only thing is that he is kinda weird and listens to all those really sick songs by sublime..no offense to the fans out there..but he is still really cute and mysterious..and really nice..do you think i should give him a chance? i rate... (link)
i think it would be a good idea to give him a chance at this dance. if you have a great time, maybe you two could do something another time again. who knows? maybe you'll find he's perfect for you!


I need a cute bikini this summer. Does anyone know websiters or certain brands that have nice bikinis for a low price? (around 40 dollars) I really like the bathing suits that are hooked in the middle of your chest by a heart. No floral designs though. Thanks a bunch! I'll rate 5's! (link)
aeropostale has some really cute bathing suits. here's a hott one!

tops:http://www.aeropostale.com/aero/collection/collection.asp?section=female&subsection=swimwear&subsectionid={85CB716C-3321-4AB8-944F-8201F1CED636}&collectionid=AeroSpring05&itemindex=0&selecteditem={093BBB31-59BB-492D-BC8A-5673162B9957}&detail=true&itemordernumber=2&totalcount=18

bottoms:http://www.aeropostale.com/aero/collection/collection.asp?totalCount=18&detail=true§ion=female&subsection=swimwear&subsectionid={85CB716C-3321-4AB8-944F-8201F1CED636}&collectionid=AeroSpring05&itemindex=0&itemordernumber=3&next=true

the prices are on those pages, i am almost postive they are on sale now.

and here's another cute one:

tops: http://www.aeropostale.com/aero/collection/collection.asp?totalCount=18&detail=true§ion=female&subsection=swimwear&subsectionid={85CB716C-3321-4AB8-944F-8201F1CED636}&collectionid=AeroSpring05&itemindex=0&itemordernumber=4&next=true

bottoms:
http://www.aeropostale.com/aero/collection/collection.asp?totalCount=18&detail=true§ion=female&subsection=swimwear&subsectionid={85CB716C-3321-4AB8-944F-8201F1CED636}&collectionid=AeroSpring05&itemindex=0&itemordernumber=5&next=true

hope i helped!


I want to make some healty smoothies with fruit. Im not really sure what to use and how much of it. I know I need fruit and I have it. I want to use strawberries and bannas mixed together or not. It doesnt matter. Can someone please tell me some good recepies for how to make them. Also milkshakes too. Thanks.. oh by the way please dont say search on goodle! Thers nothing on there and its a waste of time.

I rate! (link)
i'm no expert on making smoothies, but i do have a very good homemade recipe for strawberry milkshakes. youll need about a cup of milk, 6 sliced strawberries, and four scoops of sugar free vanilla ice cream. you can also add some crushed ice, but it doesn't really matter. put everything into the blender and blend! if its all chunked together, use a spoon to mix it around a bit. or it might need a bit more milk. top with fat free whipped cream. hope i helped!


OK this might sound kind of weird but I'm really scared that I'm dying or something... I exersize the correct amount of time each day but lately when ever I eat, even the smallest thing like a bowl of cereal, I'll be full for the rest of the day and sometimes even more, the longest I've gone is 1 week, am I dying.. thx :) (link)
i'm no doctor, but i definitely think you should talk to your mom or dad or doctor about this one. theres been times when I just am not hungry at all for awhile..but one week seems kind of long! definitely get this checked out!

hope i helped


ok i have a bit of a problem.
I just got a hair cut about 3 weeks ago, and my hair is long probably at my boobs and i have all around layers. well I didn't get my layers re-cut because im trying to grow then out, but they are really split bad, other than hair cut what should I do ?!
I've tried pretty much every product, but I can't seem to find anything that works !! (link)
split ends can be such a pain..cant they!?

i dont really know of any particular product that really works on getting rid of your split ends, but i do know of a great product to make them look better. garnier fructis smoothing milk helps smooth down your hair and not make your split ends frizz out. just apply it in your hair when damp, then blowdry your hair.

hope i helped


I am writing a graduation speech that is entitled "Looking Back" and I am having trouble finding quotes. Ineed quotes about choir, school in general, and friends. Please don't tell me to google this, I really don't have time. If it's May 10, 2005 or after, please do not answer this, you will be rated an automatic one if you do. Also, this is a dialogue speech, so if that matters...Please cite your quotes so I can credit these people in my speech.

THank you so much!!
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firehotquotes.com has some really great quotes of all different kinds.

sorry, i have noo idea who wrote this, but if you searched the lyrics you could probably find out who.

"all good things must come to an end, the river of time keeps moving on. we must say goodbye my friend. tomorrow you'll look and i'll be gone. wherever you go. wherever you travel in this world, may all of your dreams come true. wherever you go wherever you travel in this world always carry a part of me with you"

also you could use the traditional "graduation song" lyrics by vitamin C

"as we go on,we remember all the times we've had together"

"Every rose has a thorn" - unknown

(( good times at high school with friends being the rose, having to leave them for college being the thorn ))

hope i helped you..let me know how everything works out!


I'd like to start a tradition with the theater that I'm in. Any good suggestions and ideas? (link)
well, every year before my school play, we form a luck circle. before the show, we all get in a huge circle. one person starts it by squeezing the hand of the person on their left. then that person squeezes the hand of the person on their left, etc. its just a small special tradition we have, and it really helps to calm us down before the show, and focus. hope i helped!


Ok so i am 7th grade 13 and I like an 8th grader. We aren't going out; yet. I really like him, my friend asked him he said he liked me too. Tomorrow we don't have school and it's supposed to be like 88°. Well he lives really close to me. He was like, what are you doing tomorrow, and I was like i'll be so bored. He says well, maybe if you can, you can come over and chill with me and austin (his friend). Then he said I have a pool and it's supposed to be hot so maybe we can all go swimmin'! I was like sounds awesome. Well I really want to go but i'm afraid what my mom will say if i ask her. She isn't home tomorrow she's at work and i WILL NOT sneak out. But i'm afraid she'll be like, i'm not letting you go over to a boys house you're to younge. WHAT DO I DO OR SAY OR DO about my mom.... i REALLY WANT TO GO!

i rate high
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talk to the boy and ask if it would be possible if you could bring a (girl) friend along with you. then talk to your mom. tell her when you two are getting along or just chit chatting..bring it up casually! explain to her that you didnt just want to sit around all day since its so nice outside, and that he graciously invited you over to hang out. also, it might make her more comfortable if she talks to his parents on the phone, and if someone (like a friend) also goes. k hope i helped!





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