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i am being forced to move from my home in texas, to the cold and mean streets of chicago. my mother got a new job, and she is carting me up there in february. however, my father lives here in tecas. i have the oppurtunity to live with him, but i never have, and we arent very compatible. should i go with my mom, or stay with my dad?

Hmmm... If you and your father don't get along WHATSOEVER then no, go with your mom... But you have to thing, would you like/love to live with your father for the rest of your life??? I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I'm 14 and a female! My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me about a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. He told me alot of things while we were dating like he loved me and I was the best thing that ever happened to him. I believed him and told him I loved him back because I truely meant it. He broke up with me because he said he wanted to concentrate on school and he didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse though. We started talking again and he said he wanted to get back with me after he brought his grades up. He ignored me for a week and i was kind of upset. We started to say hey to each other and I told him he could call if he wanted to, but he never did. The next day at school I found out he made out with another girl(this was 2 weeks that we have been broken up). I'm sure he knew I still liked him alot. I try to get over him and move on but I can't because it's really hard. I wouldn't mind getting back with him even though what he done was stupid and I shouldn't still have feelings for him because of it. I don't want to chase after him because if he wanted me he would come after me... right? I don't know what to do because I still love him and I don't know how he feels about what he done and if he still has feelings for me. help me please! THANKS!!

Hun, just try to ignore him... If he really cares for you adn wants you back, he will come after you... And he will regret what he has done later, i promise!... Just hang out with your friends more and don't even talk to him and try not to see him... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Well 1st of all im askin advice on what to do heres my story, well I still like my ex g/f, we went out in may and broke it off in june, becuz she went to Ecuador 4 the summer,we both have had relationships since but I still liked her, & I didn't feel right cuz as I was going out with other girls I was thinkin about my ex, recently we've been hangin out a bit, and we r good friends and when we hang out she's always flirty cuz she's like a natural flirt, but like idk what to do and I like her alot...

Ask her out again and tell her that you still have feelings for her and that you can't get her off your mind... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Hey, i think i can write this here, do any of you guys know a good website to download MSN Messenger 7 from? All my friends got it from all these different places, and their laptops have all slowed down. But chatting is a crucial part of a teenagers life, and i need to get the latest version!! HELP!!!

Just go to the MSN website... you can download it from there, but if you want a really good messenger... AIM is much better, trust me! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I've been talking to this guy for the past month. We've gone to the movies and to some basketball games. I am really starting to like him and i think he likes me back. Well even though we have gone out together we havent really talked about being boyfriend and girlfriend. I asked him what he thought we were friends or more, and he said he wants to be more, but that really is as far as we took it. I brought it up again a couple of days later and he asked me what he thinks we should be and i said i wasnt sure. Well i've been thinking and i really want him to be my boyfriend. We dont go to the same school right now but we will be in 4 weeks. What should i do, ask him to be my boyfriend now or wait untill we start school together? If i do ask him to be my boyfriend now how should i do it??? Please help!!!!

Girl go for him! Don't wait! Hmmm... i don't know how you should ask him.... maybe like, "I've been thinking about it, and i really really want to be more than JUST friends..." And i dunno! Maybe he will pick it up from there, lol. I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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ok , heres the thing , i got mad at my friend and now shes pissed at me and then i thought i should call her but i got no answer . anyway that part doesnt matter much cuz heres the important part , i got mad at my other friend for like using me to send notes to the many guys she likes cuz i like kno all the guys in my skool . ( or at least in the 7th and 8th grades ) and so the other day she wrote a note to a guy and asked me to give it to him so me and my friends went and like wrote stuff on it like the girls name , phone number and ect. and me and my other friends are going to put it in his band locker . does this make me sound like a bad friend or someone whos really angry ? should i send it or not ? im confused
( and tired from typing all this stuff) please help !!!

Don't send it hun... you WILL redgret it later!... Just tell her no and that she give the note to the guy herself or talk to him instead... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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im going to ask for a mini ipod for christmas, but which is better a regular ipod or a mini ipod and whats the differnce, and can i get a gift card thing to get songs at the itunes music thing online. and are they easy to use? becaus im not good with tech. things so im hoping its easy to use...please tell me anything you can about them.

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Trust me, you don't want the mini iPod... it sucks! The only thing cool about the mini is you can get you name engraved on the back and it's colored.... It really is a rip off because the battery only last 2 hours then you have to charge it again!... And you can only store up to 1000 songs... I have the 40G and it rox! I can store to 10,000 songs and the battery lasts 6 hours!... The 20G is good too! My cousin has the 20G one... It can hold up to 5,000 songs, but i think the battery last for 4 hours... i'm not sure though... And yes, iTunes is very easy to use! And yes, you can get a prepaid card or you can get free cards at like grocery store when you buy something - my mom got a 5 free song card for iTunes for buying HagenDauz icecream... lol - . I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Alright I'm a 17 year old male. I met this girl through a friend of a friend basically. At first it was rather awkward cause I'm a really shy person but she isnt. Then we got to know eachother rather well and became good friends. But I love this girl, shes so great. I've told her this and at first she started ignoring me. Then she was okay with it. She never said she loved me back. She just said it was okay If I loved her. So I started being more nice to her. I baught her lunch for a month,I pre-ordered the new Ev CD for her (she's a HUGE Ev fan), I gave her a necklace too... then she suddenly started ignoring me again. She won't even talk to me anymore. Some of her friends claim I freaked her out because I baught her stuff but... I was just being me. Being nice. I just wanted to see her happy. Anyhow, she's talking to me again but its not like before. It's only a hello here and there. So What do I do?

She probably thinks you were "obsessed" because of all the gifts and saying that you loved her... You need to ask her why she is ignoring you and apologize for feaking you out... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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i've known my best friend for almost two and a half years now, and i have some hilarious pictures and memories from the past bit. also some serious ones and all that. anyway, i want to somehow incorporate everything he and i have been through into some sort of gift to be able to give him at the end of high school (we're juniors right now). but i'm kind of blanking on good ideas. i want to make sure it can have all of our inside jokes and all that, and be something he can keep forever, you know? any help would be greatly appreciated!

Make a scrapbook! Also, you can like knit a blanket can somehow sew on the pictures onto the blanket like in that movie Stepmother - or Stepmom - ( i think that is what is called with Julia Roberts). I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I Like this girl name Brittany and im not sure iff she likes me because she mite be dating my friand. But I never liked any one before so i kno she must be the one! what should I do?

Wait, what do you mean that she MIGHT be dating one of your friends?! Find out first if she is, and if she is dating your friend then don't be with her a lot and if she isn't, just flirt with her and eventually ask her out... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea OX

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hello moto. it's your home skillet here. yesh, it's sham! yay! i don't have any worries but this is pretty cool...hm...wait...i do have something. ok this guy (daniel lim, what a fag- you know him) keeps giving me those damn lollipops and is stalking me. almost everyone knows that he likes me and all his friends come up to me telling me that he likes me. WOO HOO! but i just don't care cuz i like someone else. he got my number and has called me twice. i've given him the rejection hotline number but it still doesn't work. he keeps talking to me and telling me that he's my best friend. it's been going on for 10months and it's really pissing me off cuz i feel like i can't have a boyfriend without killing him....screw him...
ok bye

Lol, i hope it's the guy i am thinking about - the one that you like - !!! Anyhoo, 10 months... wow... a long time. I would suggest that you call Daniel Lim after school and tell him what's going on and how you feel... Don't be nice about it eather because this will just keep going on... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Ok, I'm a Freshman girl and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 month and a week. (He asked me out) We were getting along great at first, but it seems like the relationship is going down. Well not bad. We have gone to the movies 3 times and we flirted heavily while watching it. We made out I think 2 or 3 times and it had always been perfect and he says I'm really good. He usually hangs out with me after school, we have fun flirting and getting pictures with my camera. One thing that annoys me is that a few times he mentions who is Ex girlfriends were and it seems like he has had like 500! One girl he went out with is like the biggest slut in the whole school. Another thing is he keeps joking around that we should have sex, but it is funny though because I joke and say, "Ok." . A day or so ago he said he said, "It is over." But then he told me he was joking. It freaked me out because I thought he was really going to dump me.
Today my guy friend told me that my boyfriend is pissed off because I act too immature. Well I kinda fingured that. I'm crazy! I run around and jump all over my friends, I scream like an idiot, and I wear pink a lot and my friend told me I look like a 3rd grader. But after school we had fun and flirted for a while. But I think he might want to dump me because 2 of my guy friends were joking around and telling him that they would take my away and they told me he said, "Go ahead. Take her." I'm not sure if he was joking though. I think he was. I don't want him to dump me though because I like him so much.
Do you think this guy really likes me? How do I act more mature? Do you think it sounds like he wants to dump me?
Please help... I want to keep our relationship going. Thanks ^_^

Hun, i don't want to burst your bubble or anything, but it sounds like he is really being serious about all that stuff... He is probably thinking about dumping you... You deffinately have to act more mature! Just wear more clothes and less pink. Don't scream in the halls or drink anything that has caffeine in the morning or later in the day - that might help keep you under control - Don't scream, people HATE that! Trust me... And i bet your friends are calling you annoying behind your back, no offense or anything! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Me and my b/f are pretty close! I am just worried because he is in a grade older than me and im scared that sumthing might happend becasue hes going to a different school next year! I dont know if i should stay with him or break up with him! If i stay with him i might get hurt later because he might find other girls but if i break up with him now im going to hurt now because i love him and i dont no what ill do when i see him everyday in the halls and maybe get a new g/f!? Everyone is telling me to stay with him but theres just sumthing i dont no im just confused! All my friends are saying stay because then ill go to all the dances with him and stuff! ((*If this helps my BFF is in his grade and im always with her*)) HELPP!

I say stay with him! If he finds another girl, oh well, it's his loss... It's hard to keep a relationship going when people are seperated and don't see eachother often, but just call him a lot and go out a lot on weekends... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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If I walked on a tredmale (however you spell it lol) for about an hour almost every morning, then ate healthy and also did pilates... How long do you think it would take for me to notice results? (Especially a flat stomach and skinnier legs/thighs) Thanks!! :)

Hun, it would take ATLEAST 3 weeks minimum to start seeing results... you need to do more than just walk/run... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
~I rate!~

You should get your brother guitar picks or a book of music that he would like or doesn't have! Aa for your dad... Ties are like the most common thing to get them... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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there is this girl that almost everyday wears the same thing I do(this girl is my x-best friend)how do you think she finds out what i am going to wear Do you think that she has a camera in my room or something
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Okay, i HIGHLY DOUBT that she hid a camera in your room... yall probably have the same fashion since... Just bring an extra outfit to school if she is wearing the same outfit again... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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(not trying to sound stuck up) but i used to have long hair past my shoulders, and all guys thought i was pretty (not hott, just cute or whatever). well this year i go to a new school, and i cut my hair REALLY short, its like at my jawbone, and - not that it matters - but alot of guys said that im ugly. now i feel really self concious. my dad told me that guys prefer long hair. ALSO, my hair is red, and don't guys hate redhair? cause people always judge my red hair. what do you GUYS think? please be HONEST, it wont hurt my feelings. i might want to grow it out again (and dont tell me not to care what others think, just answer the damn question)

Okay i am not a guy, but i wanted to ask your question... From all the girls i know, they look MUCH BETTER with long hair... If guys tell you that you are ugly and you hate hearing that... the you should grow out your hair... Also, where i am at - Texas - the guys prefer red heads if that helps you feel better... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Alright..there are these two guys..lets say collin and devin..well i like both of them..but last night i found out who collin likes..and i also found out who devin likes. devin likes me..collin likes these two other girls in my class...and i am happy and sad..happy because devin likes me..but sad because i like collin more than devin. am i being selfish?? should i just stop liking collin and start liking devin more?! help me please! thanks!

No, your not being selfish... you just like Collin more, that's not your fault! You shouldn't just TOTALLY stop liking Collin, but i suggest you go for Devin since you like him and he likes you!... If Collin likes you, then he will come for you... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
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Hmmm... at my school, there is not time to change your pads or tampons, so, everyone just wears a tampon AND a pad so that are covered for the day... i hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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(13 yr old girl)ok so me and my friend (lets call her Ashley) were best friends. But they i started middle school and we had this big fight over nothing! And a new friend i met in middle school, lets call her Mary, would tell me what Ashley said about me and Mary would tell Ashley what i said about her... and this caused us to fight even more!! She just got in the middle constantly and like now we dont talk anymore.. question : should i be friends with Mary even though she split me and my BFF apart ..

p.s- Mary is friends with ashley .. and mary is friends with me now .. (but idk if thats a big mistake)

I don't think you should be friends with Mary... she could ruin future friendships too! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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