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My Relationship
Ok, I'm a Freshman girl and I am 14.
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 month and a week. (He asked me out) We were getting along great at first, but it seems like the relationship is going down. Well not bad. We have gone to the movies 3 times and we flirted heavily while watching it. We made out I think 2 or 3 times and it had always been perfect and he says I'm really good. He usually hangs out with me after school, we have fun flirting and getting pictures with my camera. One thing that annoys me is that a few times he mentions who is Ex girlfriends were and it seems like he has had like 500! One girl he went out with is like the biggest slut in the whole school. Another thing is he keeps joking around that we should have sex, but it is funny though because I joke and say, "Ok." . A day or so ago he said he said, "It is over." But then he told me he was joking. It freaked me out because I thought he was really going to dump me.
Today my guy friend told me that my boyfriend is pissed off because I act too immature. Well I kinda fingured that. I'm crazy! I run around and jump all over my friends, I scream like an idiot, and I wear pink a lot and my friend told me I look like a 3rd grader. But after school we had fun and flirted for a while. But I think he might want to dump me because 2 of my guy friends were joking around and telling him that they would take my away and they told me he said, "Go ahead. Take her." I'm not sure if he was joking though. I think he was. I don't want him to dump me though because I like him so much.
Do you think this guy really likes me? How do I act more mature? Do you think it sounds like he wants to dump me?
Please help... I want to keep our relationship going. Thanks ^_^
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well if you like the color pink..then wear it! i love it too! lol and this guy probably likes you, he just is immature. i dont think he wants to dump you, he is just being like that around his guy friends and stuff..(they all act like that) and if you want to keep your relationship going..then just be nice and talk alot..:-)
*becca
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WELL HONEY THIS GUY DOESNT SEEM REALLY WORTH IT IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE THERE IS ONLY ONE THING HE WANTS AND WE BOTH KNOW WHAT THAT IS. IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR IT THEN DONT DO IT. YOU DONT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING NOW. YOU STILL HAVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TO GO. PLUS EVEN IF YOU SO SLEEP WITH HIM HE IS GONNA DUMP YOU AND SPREAD ALL THESE HOERRIBLE THINGS ABOUT YOU BECAUSE THATS THE WAY GUYS ARE. WE ALL KNOW THAT WE JUST WANT TO BELIEVE THAT THE GUY REALLY CARES ABOUT US BUT REALLY THEY ARE JUST BEING DIRTY ROTTEN SCUM.ITS OKAY HONEY IM HERE FOR YOU BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO BE PLAYED IF THATS THE CASE.
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Wearing pink and screaming is just being a young teenager. You will grow out of it. He is being immature by playing with your feelings. You don't need that. If he wants to dump you, let him. He is a huge jerk. Joking statements usually have a bit of truth in them. Don't waste your time because if you are a little bit miserable now, you will be plenty miserable later.
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Okay this guy is gay..Uh he is the one being stupid and immature by making a joke like that, saying its over. You should get a new bf. I bet he'd treat you a lot better and accept you for who you are. This guy your going out with doest, and i dont think he likes you for who you really are if he says stuff like that. Never try to change youself for a guy, there are a million guys out there who would like you just the way you are. DUMB HIM! Just my opinion. :)
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Hun, i don't want to burst your bubble or anything, but it sounds like he is really being serious about all that stuff... He is probably thinking about dumping you... You deffinately have to act more mature! Just wear more clothes and less pink. Don't scream in the halls or drink anything that has caffeine in the morning or later in the day - that might help keep you under control - Don't scream, people HATE that! Trust me... And i bet your friends are calling you annoying behind your back, no offense or anything! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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