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hello. so you want to know a little about me?? well im 14 years old. i ♥ to make people laugh, cheer them up and give them advice. it is just a part of me and i can't help it!! lol. i love sports, my fave is basketball and dancing. wierd combo?? i know. lol. as you can tell i love to laugh as well. i write songs and am pretty good at singing. writing the songs is basically writing poetry which i think is pretty cool. this is my opinion but i think that people rating other people is low themselves because some people put prank questions and rate you low for 'trying' to answer. so sometimes im tired of answering stupid questions. but if you truely need advice im happy to answer. so feel free to add me as a friend or ask me a question or just ask me questions to try to get to know me!! have a nice day!! :]

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ok i need some good advice here. every day i put on deorderant(soft&dri) and i still sweat perfusely and get large sweat rings. also i might add that i am allergic to the powder/white deorderant cause it gives me large rashes. Any advice on what i could do so that i dont sweat as much? -thanks

Obviously that deodorant is not working for you. So go out and buy like 3 different deodorants and try one each day. You just need to find the one that works best for you. You need a stronger one then the one you are using right now. Good luck!

Hey All!
Homecoming is a way away, but I am currious. I have never gone to a dance before. My boyfriend and I are going to most of the dances at both of our schools this year, because it is his senior year. I already have a dress for Prom. and it is floor length. I wore it in a wedding.

So, is homecoming like prom at all? Do you get an almost to the floor dress? a knee length? what? What are good colors?

Is it a huge deal? How much should one spend on a homecoming dress.

What about shoes?

its in September or October. (I cannot remember!)

thanks so much in advance.
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-SLeK-

Okay I am only 14 and havn't had my homecoming yet, but I do know about it and what to wear and all that. Here is a list..
DRESS:I would suggest some dresses that are about knee level or a little lower. Cause they are fun and flirty and easier to dance in. Here is a website with some ideas. They are really cute dresses I think. http://www.windsorstore.com/category.cfm?cat=48
Here are some of my favorites. Enjoy!
http://www.edressme.com/homecoming1311.html
http://www.edressme.com/homecoming15.html
This one is floor level but really pretty.
http://www.promgirl.net/bedr15.html
SHOES:Go with something strappy. Here are some ideas. Enjoy!
http://www.windsorstore.com/detail.cfm?Cat=10&SKUGroup=474010107&c3=64
http://www.windsorstore.com/detail.cfm?Cat=10&SKUGroup=474010084&c3=64
http://www.windsorstore.com/detail.cfm?Cat=10&SKUGroup=474010109&c3=64
PURSE:For a purse, it needs to be matching the dress in some way. A long strap that is small and semi small purse here are some ideas. Enjoy!
http://www.windsorstore.com/detail.cfm?Cat=11&SKUGroup=472030234&c3=35
http://www.windsorstore.com/detail.cfm?Cat=11&SKUGroup=472030219&c3=35
http://www.windsorstore.com/detail.cfm?Cat=11&SKUGroup=472030169&c3=35
WHAT IN PURSE:Well your cell phone,money,makeup,maybe a camra to take picture with friends and your date. and anything else you think you will need!
I hope I answered your ?'s! Have fun on your special night! :]

I am 57 years old and have hazel/green eyes. I have a fair complexion and dyed light natural auburn hair. What eyeshadow should I wear to bring out the green?

maybe a brown or a tone close to your skin but darker. or maybe dark/light greens. don't use the same color as your eyes. something either brighter or darker. good luck!

does anyone know the name of a song and who its by, it goes something like this where the party at? all my girls .... the bacardi at ... its like an r&b song / rap song

i think its 'Where da Party at' by 'Jagged Edge'

my hands are always really sweaty. i dont know what to do to make them stop being sweaty. what can i do to make them normal?

this might sound wierd but hand sanitizer (sp?) it might just do this to me but it dries my hands out. so i would try that. sorry im not much more of a help!

well my boyfriends coming to visit me here in pa and i really want to get in shape for him. the rest of my body is fine but my tummy is a problem lol i need a flat tummy! well i wanted to know if there was a way that i didnt have to sacrafice my eating habits and lose this tummy in three weeks! please help thnx!

SIT UPS! they are the best way and very simple. while your watching TV or something just casually do situps. everyday slowly raise the amount you do and before you know it you will lose a few pounds. good luck!

I know this one girl, lets call her Natasha. Natasha goes to this high school that's pretty close to my high school so i see her pretty often. I really like her alot, but it seems like she never notices me. we met once but i don't think she remembers. She's always hanging around these other people i know who are also my friends. How am i gonna get her to notice me?

first off start hanging out with her and her friends. get to know her and stuff. then once you are pretty good friends just straight out ask her out. believe me its better then just drooling over a girl from afar. im a girl and i like guys who wanna hang out, and dont do that thing where they tell their friend to tell me they like me. i like it when the guys tells me so remember that.

I've always wondered this... is "costed" a word??

no, its just cost.

In a week will be my first day of a new school, so i want my skin to look good. I have a severe acne problem, its all over my face. the dermatoogist gave me retin-a micro and benzaclin and a sulfur wash but its just not working. i rele want clear skin or atleast clear enough toput make up over it by when school starts. any tips or natural remedes?

i know a lot of people who use proactiv and they said it works really well. you have to order it from the TV or maybe web though. good luck!

about what age do boys and girls start french kissing?

Once you hit middle school is when it starts, but whenever it feels right is the right time. have fun..!

13-f
i have flour tortilla's , penut butter, juice, and regular butter please give me ideas im starving and im low on food!

Okay heat the tortilla in the microvwave for about 30 seconds. then put the butter (regular butter) on it right away so it melts. then roll the tortilla and there you go! then have juice as a drink.

ok, this house has nothing to eat at all. what are some things i could make? we have peanut butter, grape jelly, bread, (im not eating pb&j anymore!!!) and milk. everything else is rotten. and it's 11:53 so i dont think we can order pizza. and we dont have any money....help.

toast the bread and put the jelly or peanut butter on it or both. you could make french toast. But you said you didn't have more then bread, and pb & j. i dont know just use whatever you have in your house to make stuff and try new things. good luck!

Hey.............my older sister is having a baby but she doesn't kno yet if it's a boy or girl and she needs some cute names!! (Don't worry she's married and like 29 years old!!) Thanx!!

Girls::Lucy Emily Crystal Kristin Tara Summer Stacy Claire Nicole Courtney Jenna Tamera Hannah Natalia Brianna Sara Tiffany Jessica Carly Lauren

Boys::Kyle Zach Cole Taylor Tyler Brett Gavan Nick Jesse Garrett Jason Ryan Scott Parker James Joey Mitchell Jake Andrew/Andy Jordan Luke Caydin Stephen

I would name my kids any of these names, they are all cute!

Hope you like some of these! Good luck!

p.s. please leave feedback telling me what your sis chooses as the name! :]

I really need to lose 20 lbs fast if anyone can tell me some ways please i will appreciate it
.

it might take you a while to lose 20 pounds cause thats a lot. but try the simple normal stuff such as sit ups, push ups, crunches, wall stretches, running/jogging/walking, walk your dog everyday, and little stuff like that. good luck!

Since its summer I never see my boyfriend. My mom doesnt want us going out on dates actually she doesnt even want me having a boyfriend. Im 13!!!!!! It is so unfair. Anyway how can we see each other more without my mom finding out?

you could sneak out but your not old enough to drive so i guess that wouldn't work. just tell your mom your going to the movies with a friend. then have your friend invite her bf or a guy and your bf and double. it worked for me when i was like 12 and 13. good luck!

I have a problem with spots, mainly on my chin, nose and forehead (T-zone?).
I also have large pores + blackheads on those areas.
Anything anyone can recommend to help with the problem?

i use clearisel (sp?) cleaning pads, targeted for black head clearing. also just wash your face everyday and keep clean. good luck!

OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx

believe your lucky. some girls HATE how small their breasts are. i dont think ive ever met a guy who didn't like big breasts. i dont think there is anything wrong with it. you should feel lucky. hope everything works out!

Hi

I want to get the cartillage on my ear peirced but i'm 15 years old so i cannot get it done without a parent. The problem is I do not think they will let me because I had to argue just to get my ears periced normaly. What is the best way i can persuade my parents into letting me have this done.

Thankyou

tell them why it is important to you. just try to keep your cool and not explode or say anything that will piss them off. ask if their is anything you have to do to make them let you get it done. like more chores or something else that makes you seem more responsible. do you chores around the house without being asked, etc. and get on their good side and sooner or later they might let you. good luck!

Im gettign bracestommmorw! im scared ta death, cna anyine tell me whta goes on what do they do does it hurt stuf lie kthat pelase help

i got braces about a year ago and it doesn't hurt when you get them on. basically they just put the special cement stuff (it tastes REALLY bad) on your teeth then put braces on. and for some people put a bar on the top of your mouth. a heads up though they are really sore until up to a about a week after. good luck!

I have a boyfriend and he is starting to get on my nearves.The other problem is is that i like someone else who doesn't even know i exsist!I need help figuring out how to tell my boyfriend I dont want to go out anymore and i need help figuring out how to get my crushes attention.And what if my boyfriend finds out that i dumped him for another guy?

please help!

well first of all, does it matter if he find out that you dumped him for another guy? no. because thats what happenes in this world, that is mostly why people dump eachother. and just say i think it would be better if we saw other people. and for getting your crushes attention. there are a MILLION ways. i say just flat out tell him. its the best way to get a guys attention and you never know he probably likes you back. good luck!

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