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okay i am so confused. i hate rumors. two of my closest guy friends who are really close to my boyfriend are sayign two different things. one says that he just asked meh otu as a joke and the other says he really really likes meh. who should i believe? should i ask him myself becuase i am afraid he may take it the wrong way. i don't say this much but i love him. i trust him but when we went to the movies he didn't do squat he just sat there. his excuse was his dad was there. but i mean his dad couldn't see us and i am sure of it. should i move on or wait it out and see what happens? please help i would highly appreciate it. (link)
hey there,i think you should wait it out and see what happens and if you dont like it form there move on well i hope this helps.-tish


(im a 14 female) I have this guy friend, and he is giving me mixed signals. He tells my friends he likes me and then he makes a huge deal of telling me that we are just friends. I really like this guy a lot. now he's telling my friends that he doesnt like me. I'm so confused! every other day he changes his mind weather he likes me or not! I WANT HIM TO LIKE ME SO BAD! Like sometimes he's really sweet and flirty and other times he's sort of mean to me though which adds even MORE mixed signals. And one time i told him i liked him liked him and he told my friend that he didn't like me that way. BUT like a month later he was acting all flirty and he was like "if i asked you out what would you say?"

Do u think he likes me? Is there anyway i could make him like me even more than he already does? Is there anyway that would help him ask me out if he does like me? HELP! (link)
well i think that he likes you you could always talk to him and tell him how you feel but dont let him bring you down carry on with your life


Hey there is this guy i met over the summer and i really liked him then and kept talkin and then slowly stopped talking and then resently i have seen him online and talked 2 him here and there and he called me last night and we talked like we use to and i think i am liking him again is there anyway that he likes me again? but how can i bring up that i wanna go out with him and everything and he got this new job at a bowling alley and he said it is free for friends and i guess he was kinda hinting at me coming but i am not sure, should i just keep talkin to him and hope things go well and what are some things that i can do 2 make him really like me this time and i not lose him again? thanks for any help (link)
well,i think he defantily likes you and he was hinting for you to go to the bowling alley and as for things you could do to get him to like you i dont think you need to do anything because sounds ta me that he likes you for who you are and wants you back.-tish


ok so there is this guy in the 12th grade im in the 10th
Everyone thinks i like him and i didnt until people kept saying it over and over again and i guess i started to believe it so know i think i like him but im not sure if i really do
well im not sure if he likes me... like he will do little stuff like always take my order at the snack shack or he will always look me in the eye and just stares at me
today he tried to talk to me he asked me if i had a ride home and im was just like yeah...
cause i dont flirt well i dont even think i know how to like i get all nervous and i turn red...
im fine if i talk to him in a group but not on my own..
anywho its christmas break so ill see him again on jan 3rd then hes coming on the school trip to yosemite and i sorta want to get this cleared so i dont act all weird around him and vice versa.
if it helps ive never had a boyfriend cause i never really needed one (link)
well, talk to him and see if its true because it just might be and besides if you ask him the whole thing will be cleared about if he likes you or not.-tish


My best friend and I dont ever hang out anymore. Her and I got in this really big fight back in November and we didnt speak to eachother for a few weeks. We both kind of brought our parents into our fight so now my mom doesnt like her and she never lets me go over to her house. Its like her and I are only friends in school and not outside of school. And sometimes in school she'll be with her other best friend who is a guy(my ex) and when she is with him, its like I dont exist to her. What do I do? It just seems like her and I have completly drifted apart. What can I do to make our friendship stornger.I havent really hung out with her or had a decent converstion with her in well over 3 months. When we talk on the phone she is always on her computer and I am wathing TV or listening to music and we dont even talk on the phone, we just sit there and it bothers the fuck out of me. We honestly can be on the phone for like 2 hrs and we will only have said maybe 5 mins of a conversation. PLease help me! (link)
hey i think you should tell her how you feel and ask your mom to let you go by her house some times i mean you should be able to talk to your bestfriends about everything. -tish


Ok, here's what's going on... My boyfriend, we'll call him bob, has been living with me secretly for about 2 weeks now. My dad, just found out that he was here yesterday morning, and my dad was very mad. Then last night, my dad found out about it and made him leave, bob left and came back, and now my stepmom just saw him leave. So I'm really really really grounded right now. I don't know what to do or tell my parents, I can't kick Bob out because he has nowhere to go, literally. He has a pretty bad story though. Should I tell my parents his story and risk being able to be with him? Or should I lie to my parents more? (link)

Hey there, i think you should tell them the story lies will get you nowhere so its best you tell the truth


I've been with this boy for 9 months and for some reason I feel like things are ending. I love him and he says he loves me but I have this feeling inside that has been there for the past week that its coming to an end. I don't want it to come to an end and I'm not going to be the one who breaks it off but I just feel like he might be getting frustrated with me or sumthing? I mean I'm only 18 and I don't know if this is a gut feeling telling me to move on or what. He says he still loves me when I ask and when I ask him if he doesnt wanna be with me anymore he says that he still wants to but I cant explain this feeling. Has anyone else ever had this before??? (link)
hey my friend has had the same feeling before but she talked about it with her bf and it got better so i think thats what you need to do talk about it with your bf.-tish


I just found out one of my friends likes my bf. im kinda worried shes going to try to get him. see shes gone out with him before but they broke up a long time ago. anyways she told me she needed to tell me something but she couldnt. i finally got her to say what she needed to say. she said she did like him but didnt anymore. but its weird the day before she told me. she said she needed to tell me something important. and then one day later she tells me and says she doesnt like him anymore? is it just me or is she lieing? maybe she doesnt want me to get mad or something i dont know. i just know that she has some sort of feelings toward him. and well i have another friend and he told me that she has really weird tricks. that she can get any guy she wants to break up with their gf. he said that he knows by experience. im soo worried that she will try to get him and then im screwed. and this girl is the type of girl who always gets what she wants. basically i need help on what to do with the situation. please. i rate high (link)
hey, i think that you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel.saying how you feel is always better then keeping it balled up in side of you -tish


i really like this guy and he is really hott and really sweet, but he is like my best friend!
we tell each other that we love eachother all the time, but we both tell everyone that and he doesnt know that i think i mean it.. we always right over who loves who more and i can tell him almost anything.. i dont know if he likes me or if he is just a big flirt.. i dont know what i should do!
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hey,i think you should tell him that you love him and say you really mean it.then theres always taking a chance and kissing him!!!!!!


Last night my best friends parents got into a car accident. Her dad had to spend the night in the hospital because he broke his ribs and lost a lot of blood. Her mom is doin ok, she has internal bruises but is taking everything well. The doctors thought that her dad was going to die, but he made it through the night. Ive never been in this sort of situation before. I dont know what to say or what to do. Please help, i really need to be there for my friend!!!!!!! (link)
hey there, i think you should help your friend the only way you can you know by carrying them ta the movies ,shopping or just kicking back doing things your friend likes to do


My sister is seriously a devil, she can't keep her hands to herself! She abuses me by hitting me really hard and throwing furniture at me! I hate it when she does this and I can never make her stop! She swears at me and the thing about it is, is that she is my younger sister! I 've already told my parents and they don't do much excpet ground for a week! i am seriously getting hurt and I don't know what else to do! what should i do? (link)
i think you should let your parents chech her in the act


Here is the thing i have this really nice lowered blue s-10 ( i have posted other things on here b4) but anyways my mom says that i can't drive it in the snow cause it isn't save and that my brother has a friend that will trade me cars and his is a volkswagon golf hatchback, which isn't that good of a looking car but it is safer. I really like my truck tho and i was planning on painting it and suping it up more and now i don't know if i should trade cars and be safer or keep my truck. help i am not sure what i should do? thanks for anyhelp (link)
hey there. i think that you should be safer and get the other car


Okay, me and my ex broke up for about a year now... just recently, me and my friend called him, and she was posing as me(but I didn't know that was what she intended) and he talks like everything is normal, and then I bust out no, this is me, and he goes hey monkey, and then my friend goes SHE STILL LIKES YOU!!! But I was like can I tell him please, hows your niece (beating around the bush) but then he was like call me back later cause I gotta go to work. So then I called (w/o my friend) and we talked for like 45 mins, like the good ol' times we had together, he asked about my love life, and we talked about his, and it just felt like how things used to be... he was my first love, and when we did break up, I knew he still loved me, and till this very day I still know he does... but I enjoyed him and he enjoyed me.....so am I falling for him again? And if I am and if he is worth it, how do I get him back??? I really do love him..... (link)
hey there it does sound like you still like him and if you want him back you should just tell him how you feel about him he might just feel the same way about you dont lose faith


When I was still with my boyfriend, I never really and truly loved him. I loved him but I wasn't IN love with him, if you know what I mean. He broke up with me, saying we had nothing in common and I thought I was okay. My friends came round to cheer me up and I thought I was over him. Then, yesterday I couldn't stop crying and I realised that I loved my ex. I need him back, I can't live without him. Everyone's telling me that I'm still young and that my heart will be broken a thousand times until I find the right guy, but I don't care. I'm scared that if I don't get my baby back then I'm going to hate christmas forever. What should I do? (link)
hey dont let a boy stand in the way of your life belive in your self you are a great girl and you are going to find a lot of boys that like you and you will find that you will have a lot of things in common with the next guy that comes along


I was in a mental institution and I got really close to one of the staff members that worked there, she helped me in every way possible and I thought of her as my mom. Since I have been out it seems like everytime I call the hospital to talk to her, they make an excuse for me to NOT talk to her. Last night my sister looked her up on the internet and come to find out, she lives a mile away from me, and I have her home phone number, I mailed her a christmas card this morning to her home, but I dont know if I should actually call her at home. I miss her so much and she made such a big impact in my life, what do I do? I don't want her to think that I am like stalking her or anything! ??????? (link)
hey i think that you should call her for all you know she might miss you and want to hear from you to .so call her!!!


Ok me and my boyfriend have been having some trouble lately and we haven't been talking that much. Well the other day this boy pranked my friend and he got her number off our friend and they called me on 3 way and I started talkin to this boy. I talk to him like every day now and I am falling for him! He's so great. But i dont even know what he looks like but i don't think it would matter to me because he's just the greatest person in the world to talk to. But theres just one thing I HAVE A BOY FRIEND. I don't know what to do I like both of them so much! What should I do??

HELP (link)
hey i think you should get to know the both of them a little more and find out which one you like the most about


Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do? (link)
hey

i think you should go with guy #1 he sounds like a great guy and he really cares for you guy#2 might be gorgeous and popular but if hes making you cut you should leave him alonce and stay with guy #1


I have been best friends with kara for almost a year. Just the other day, she broke up with her boyfriend. And that same day, someone new asked her out. She said yes, and has been ditching me ever since. Because we go to different schools, we talk on the phone every night. Now, when i call her house she always says got to go, i will call you back in 5, and never does. I really am upset because i did nothing wrong and we were best friends and she is avoiding me for reasons that i dont know, and i cant get ahold of her to talk about it. Also, before she dumped her first boy friend, i kept talking about his boy that i like a lot! And she was kinda annoyed about it because she came to my school one day. I think that she likes him, she told me she did. Then, I have been doing stuff with him and my other friends a lot lately, could she be jealous of that?
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hey there

well ya she just might be jealous .why dont you just talk to her or go and visit her some time and ask her why shes avoiding you


My friend is going out with a guy that's a year younger than us (whom i like too.)He's like my best guy friend and i feel a little protective of him because a lot of people just want to go out with him for his looks and it's so annoying to me because they don't even know him the way i do. He flirts with me online and we can besically talk about anything. His girlfriend now won't even talk to him and she wants to break up with him, although i don't think she will. Please help! What should i do! i can't talk to him alone anymore because of her and i really just want to be with him! Should i ask her how she feels about him and and how she feels the relationship is going, in a friendly way? I'm not sure what i should do. I need another person's oppinion. Just to let you know, i'm 14, he's 13. (link)
hey there

i think you should talk to the both of them and see how they feel about each other andif there not so into each other let the guy know how you feel about him tak a risk for all you know he might feel the same way about you .


ok so i have this so called friend that i hate so much and she hates me a lot to..........everytime we try to figure something out it seems to get bigger and bigger i mean i could be nice to her but it would be really hard for me to do that because i cant stand her in any way! you will probably just say dont hang out with her or anything....but my bestest friends are always hanging out with her so i have to hang out with her or i will lose all of my friends.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!? PLEASE HELP! (link)
you should tell your friendz how you feel about her they were your friendz first im sure they will understand




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