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I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online? (link)
I believe in breaking up with someone 2 their face! because if for example you did it online he would think you was a coward.Hope i helped


ok my boyfriend was recently caught making out with my best friend...well me and my bf wanted a private relationship to avoid other people knowing, he wanted it for some reason and now i know why! he's been cheating on me for my best friend! i am so hurt, you have NO IDEA! and i know it's not my friends fault but its so awkward being with her now..please what do i do! I'LL RATE A 5 FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS OK OR GOOD ANSWERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Ok you need to not tell your friend because if she was going out with him and she finds out she might become mad with you even though its not your fault.she might not be your friend because you have hid it from her!!! maybe you should speek to your bf tell him he cheated on you and you know and tell him its your bestfriend and how can he do that? I think you should break up with him because he cheated on you once he can do it again.hope i helped lv sweetcorn


14/f....Ok people this is like serious so dont be like rude about this...
Well my dad is very sick with an illness and like today is fathers day and everything and he was talking to me and was like "you know my medicine isnt working anymore...and like this is the last fathers day that i will be with yall and he was telling me how he wont be able to see us graduate or see his grandkids.and like i looove my dad so freakin much and like when me and my siblings were younger he wasnt really in our lives and then he came into our lives again about 2 years ago and liek when he wasnt in our lives i hated it i hated myself.....and i could never imagine being w/out him again..i dont know what to do i meen i cant talk to my family or anyone about it becasue im just not that kind of person it feels waaaaay to wierd to me...like he always tell me stuff liek "when he dies he wants ...blah blah blah" and like i cant freakin take it this is soo muc pressure of me and i think about it every single day and like earlier today i was balling my eyes out thinking that this was the last fathers day wioht him...i wish that this big nightmare would just go the freak away! i really dont know how to deal with this guys and i have no one to talk to it about..i love my daddy so much and i dont ever want him to leave.and liek i know its kinda stubborn but im like always kinda rude to him..you know how every teenager is..but like he is always liek do you hate me and i just wat to say "HATE YOU OF COURSE NOT DAD I LOOOVE YOU SOO EFFIN MUCH" but i cant.and like does anyone know sumthing special i can do for him like not today cause its already late but like another day..for fathers day..and also can you help me with the whole not being able to see him again...
Thanks soo much guys ! (link)
ok its obvious you love your dad very much and it must be hard for you i know it would be very hard for me even thought i have not seen my dad for nearly a year because we moved out of the house.i love him so much and i was not allowed to see him because my mum said so.You will need 2 tell your dad you love him as soon as you can because you never know what happens in the future.I mean if you never told him you loved him and something happened you would feel terrible so TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM ALOT.The best thing you can do now is hug him and kiss him and most of all tell him you love him and tell him he is a great dad i am sure that is the best thing you can give him!!!!You could try buying him something he likes i am not sure what he likes but what is better than a present to him is you!! so tell him how you feel.hope i helped and sorry 2 hear about your dad being not well.If you need anymore advice inbox me lv sweetcorn xxx


umm I’m turning 16 in a couple of months and I haven’t really had a real boyfriend. I mean I did when I was in 6th grade and only for a week and we did nothing it was a waste. I have never had my real kiss but all my friends have and they think I have too even my best friend thinks so. Also all the guys I talk to think I have to because I’m very flirty. I never really set my friends right about all this because I was scared to tell them. But I’m going into freshman year and I haven’t had a boyfriend, my real kiss or anything and I’m really sad about that im also scared to kiss someone now because i could be bad at it and that scares me a little. I don’t know what to do. Guys have asked me out and guys have hit on me but I just never liked those guys that have. My question is: what is my problem is there anything wrong with me?? and I’m VERY picky about guys if that helps u answer my question. thanks for the help.

P.S Sorry that it is so long I'll rate high thanks!!

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hey the same thing kinda happened with me but i made sure my first kiss was with this boy who had never kissed anyone before so we was both bad and i still remember it to today its kinda funny when i look back it was only last year i got my first kiss i am 16!!Don't worry about it i am sure the perfect boy will come along soon a first kiss you always remember so make sure its someone you like.I used to be so scared of kissing and i was so scared that i rejected my first bfs kiss so many times until i just kissed him.Don't worry about being bad i thought i was so bad at kissing but to be honest i don't think if the boy likes you he will care if you are bad at kissing.Wait for the boy to kiss you and then its less scary!!!there is nothing wrong with you don't worry i am sure when a boy you like goes to kiss you,you will be fine good luck lv sweetcornxx


there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help! (link)
Bullys are always cowards so you could try sticking up for yourself or telling them to go away! do you have any older brothers? because you could get one of them 2 come to your school and stand with you when they walk by they will see you have brothers and leave you alone.If you have no brothers the best thing 2 do is tell a teacher that you trust will not tell them because if they find out you have told a teacher they might begin to get worst. Only tell the teacher if they begin to become abusive.You could even try talking to your parents and changing school?


i don't know if anyone knows the answer to this, but i figure i'll ask it anyways. recently, whenever i've gone pee i get a really weird, almost burning sensation. but it's not during the whole thing, it only happens at the end, and then it leaves the lower part of my pelvis feeling funny too. anyone have any idea what this could be? if it goes on for a few more days i'm gonna go to the doctor, but i was just wondering if anyone might have any random remedies or clues as to what i could do to avoid the doctor. if it helps any i'm 19 and am not a virgin. (link)
i think it could be an infection so you will need to see the doctor and before i read the additional info i was going to say drink at least 2 litres of water a day.Cranberry juice is also very good.I think you need anti biotics so see the doctor.Hope you get well lv sweetcorn


I haven't seen my dad since i was like 6. I got his address and his phone number. I wanna call him but i dont know what i would say to him. My mom thinks that its a good idea i should talk with him. But like i said i dont know what i would say to him. My dad's girlfriend wont let my dad ever talk to me. or if i send him a letter she wont let him read it. She doesn't even have a picture of me because she doesn't want me in his life. What should i do and what should i say? please help (link)
ok i think your mum is correct!phone him he is your dad after all.Phone him and if his gf picks up you could say could i speek to mr(your dads name)then she might think you are someone from his work or try if you really hate her could i speek to my dad please.explain 2 your dad how you feel say 2 him you forgot what he looks like and to really get to him say (i don't think i have a dad anymore) tell him you want to meet up somewhere if your dad is mean to you get your mum to phone him.After all his girlfriend has no right to stop you from seeing your dad.She has 2 understand that you should mean more 2 ur father than her.good luck lv sweetcornxxx inbox me if u need more help


this guy that i really like is a bad kisser. i really like him but i hate kissing him, is there anything i can do to make the situation better and less .. gross? without telling him that hes bad at it? lol good answers get 5's! (link)
ok well tell him you will teach him a real good kiss and he is not 2 do anything thats what i did to a boy i went out with he could not kiss very well but now i look back and he was good.Then he will be good because you will teach him.hope i helped.


I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment? (link)
Not to sure you can but your virginity is very important so do not rush it.I have not had sex yet im 16 but i think there is no planned day just see and it will happen on its own.Make sure you love him alot first.



Okay, so I was at the drugstore yesterday buying eyeliner. I was in a rush, so I bought the cheap stuff the 75-cent shit. I put it on and wore it all day. Then at night I tried to wipe it off with Cetaphil, a facial cleanser, and it didn't come off!!! So i rubbed and rubbed and rubbed, and it finally came off. I think I got the Cetaphil in my eye, because an hour later, my eye was kind of pink and the skin around it stung a little and my eye kind of hurts. Help!!! I don't know what to do! I'm 15, my mom is on a business trip, and so is my dad! And I don't have a car!!!! (link)
what you could do is get some cold water and put some normal table salt in the cold water.The salt and water always acts as a healer.It worked for me!!!But do not use too much salt otherwise you might get it in your eye and it might make it worse.So apart from that try getting some hot warm water must be boiled in the kettle and dip cotton wool in it and keep bathing your eye.Try my second option first do not use any face stuff just use plain water for now.Hope i helped lv sweetcorn xxx


me: i never look good lol
him: yeah you do
me: you havent seen me in like.. 10 months how would you know
him: b/c i just do

is he into me? (link)
yes he is! if you like him flirt with him to let him know lv sweetcorn


Hey i love my jeans with holes in them and i have a couple pair of jeans without holes in them. i was wondering how i could put holes in them so it looked natural not like i just took scissors and just cut a hole in them. thank you! xoxo_* (link)
cut a small hole with scissors and gently rip the whole that should do it


I like my school and the people in it and stuff, but im always, like depressed because my Friends who are the people who I hang out with the most dont seem to likke me anymore. I was wondering if I should go to a private school for freshman year next year. I mean everyone else will be new, too its just im afraid to start over again. And afraid ill miss something in my towns' highschool - i know ill miss my friends but they were like, "Oh," they werent sad at ALL..they laughed at me. I dont know what to do, should i go to a new high school ( a private one bc i cant move) ??? or just stay where i am and be pretty sad. People say things are better with friends in high school, is that true. I want your H0NEST T0 G0D Opinion. (link)
If they laugh at you they are not true friends sometimes starting in a new place might be better because you meet new people at first it is very scary but as long as everyone else is new you will be fine.Before moving try and become friends with them again give it about a couple of weeks and if not move and you might be more happy hope i helped lv sweetcornxx


when shaving "down there" for females, is it normal for your skin to turn a dark color? (link)
i'm not sure i don't think so but also it might be possible!


i have a lot of moles..and i hate it. i have a lot on my face and arms! they are soo annoying, like not trying to sound conceited but i am kind of pretty..but the moles just ruin me! i hate them so much! is there anything i can do about them! makeup? surgery? anything!!! (link)
Take my advice and do not have surgery on the moles because i have one big mole on my leg and i asked the doctor and he said never have surgery on a mole because someone he new died when they had surgery on a mole and would you really want to have surgery on a few moles???? just cover them up with makeup and i think you will still look pretty.When you go in the sun wear lots of sun cream!!! hope i helped and i hope i never scared you just don't want you to be in pain after surgery it might leave a scar and look worse!!!!hope i helped


There is this guy I like but he dosen't even know I'm alive, how should I get him to notice
me?? (link)
Try and talk to him then he might notice you.Find out what things he likes and make a conversation with him!Hope i helped


My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do? (link)
This is because he really likes you alot and he is afraid someone will take you away from him.You need 2 explain to him he is the only one you want and that you would not go out with anyone else.This may help him 2 not be so jealous.You also need to explain to him that the guys you talk to are only friends and you would not 2 time him.Hope i helped lv sweetcornx


My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children? (link)
I understand this maybe hard for you! if you have been trying for so long maybe you should see a specialist'.You need to find out it might be him who can't have a baby.Why don't you both go to ur GP and i am sure he will transfer you 2 a specialist and help you. I hope that you will get a baby soon lv sweetcorn xxx


hey, today my crush dropped a major hint for me to give him my phone number, but i didnt...its cause my parents dont know about him, and i feel really uncomfortable talking to them about guys unless im going out with them and want to go to the movies or something...what should i do? i really like this guy and i want him to call me, but i dont want my parents to know!! please help!!! ill rate... (link)
The best thing 2 do is give him your number!he will ask you for it again. He obviously likes you because he asked for your number.just tell your parents he is a friend and i am sure you will be fine.


i have horrible blackheads, and i got that blackhead clearing astringent by Clean and Clear. if anyone has used it, could you tell me how well it worked, and how long it took? thanks! =) (link)
ok well i would stick to the hot water and press them out because when i used that it made me have more black heads.You don't want even more do you?and sometimes it can cause pimples!!! but try it if you want sweetcornx




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