Hi. My name is
kay ehh eye tee ehl why enn
((for you less intelligent people, Kaitlyn))
I'm not the prettiest, smartest, or thinnest,
nor do I claim to be. If you get the chance to know me,
I'm super radical.
I'm not emo,
scene,
goth,
hXc,
or preppy,
I'm just me.
I have a name, not at label.
Music is my passion.
I am the worldest biggest Choir Geek, ever,
and proud of it.
I feel like it's the only place in my life where everything just...
clicks.
My friends are my life source. --How star trek of me =]--
I'm pretty shy around new people,
but with my friends... hahaha.
Lets just say... it's interesting.
I'm a dork, and I'm proud.
Life's far to short to be worried about being cool.
I'm sarcastic, and optimistic.
I like hugs.
I'm Mormon, and I only have ONE mom. Kay? Thanks.
When I'm having a bad day, the whole world knows it.
I can be really nice,
or mean, depends on what day you catch me on.
m'aider à vivre, please and thanks.
In short,
I'm just me, don't care what you have to say about it.
so put that in your juice box and suck it.
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Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: Musician
Age: 15
AIM: addict4drmatics
Member Since: May 20, 2005
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My brother is 12 years old. A couple years back, we would always get into fights and I would always yell at him back. He would just take it in, or cry. Lately, everytime we get into a fight..he get's VERY physical and will fight for whatever he says! He is very violent..(he will climb on you and jump and scratch the heck out of you)It's starting to scare me because I can't even yell over him anymore. He's only 12 and I think he needs anger management! My parents think it's my fault because I make him mad first..but the only reason I yell at him is to set him right. He is VERY out of control when he's mad and he cries ALOT. Please give advice.. i don't know how to take this anymore..(I would hit and scratch him back..but that would only make the problem worse and he would keep on persisting to claw me out)..I'm a 16\F by the way. Thanks..I rate (link)
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Hey!
I agree your brother is... wow. Your parents need to see his rage and you have every right to try and fix him. Tell him he needs to find the middle there is no reason for him to hold it all in, which may be why he is so angry now, and his fury. Try to get him help if your parents won't listen then try to talk to counslers ECT. Good Luck God bless
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i was on myspace and i was reading my boyfriends comments and i noticed a new one from a girl in my grade. it was saying thank you. so i go to her page and i see that he commented on hers saying that she was beautiful and he thought she should know. is this weird at all? should i be mad? he is a very good boyfriend and always there for me and this is the only thing i have ever had to question about him..help! (link)
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Hey!
I think you have a very good reason to be mad at him. Confront him and tell him you can't have a boyfriend like that and he should clean up his act before ever asking you out again. If he loves you he'll fix it and if he is using you then you deserve SO much better. Good Luck!
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I'm 17, and so is my girlfriend, though most of the time she's a lot more mature than me because she's gone through a lot more. I've messed up a lot in my relationship.. nothing extreme, theres just a lot about me that bothers my girlfriend, and she's gone through times when she puts serious thought into breaking up with me, and truthfully i dont see why she hasnt. but what bothers her is basically just a lot about me that i can't help much, like things that i do without thinking about it, and the fact that i use to be a big flirt and sometimes have trouble stopping that.
she's always been more than faithful to me, and has never strayed away.she's debating giving up trying with me and i love her more than anything, she's perfect for what i want to be and am trying to be. but i need to know whether or not i should just let her go and live without my complications or not. please respond quickly. (link)
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If you love her so much tell her that! Buy her flowers and chocolates and show up at her house singing a mushy love song. That should solve things for now but if you love her so much and you want to stay with her you need to seriously think of changing your lifestyle. Mostly stop flirting there is nothing that bugs a girl more then seeing her man looking at another girl. It makes her feel like she isn't good enough for you. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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don't delete..i really don't know wat to do
one of my friends ..kinda..had this boyfriend and i knew him..and not to long ago he got my sn from the myspace and he told me who he was and we started talking ..well they broke up like so long ago..and the thing is my cuzin nows him and my cuzin best friends with his ex .and he likes me and i like him ..we wanna go out but i'm not sure if we should since ..it might start dramma with her and my cuzin with all for of us . and hes like 2 years older and my cuzin would probably think thats nasty ...wat can i do ?
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Who cares what your cousin thinks!! And if his Ex has a problem then she should get over herself. Follow your heart and see where it leads you! Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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15/f--i've been dating my boyfriend for nearly the entire school year and we're INCREDIBLY close. however...i'm not a big fan of kissing. Its great fun on the neck or ear...but just frenching or long kisses on the lips...its gross, and i feel like i'm drowning. i don't know if its just something i'm doing wrong, or if he's not a good kisser...or that's just how things are supposed to go and somehow i'm the only person in the world who finds this disgusting. :-/ please let me know what it might be, and anything i could do to help this situation! thanks (link)
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Nothing is wrong with it at all! Just let him know. If you can't take it just keep them short and sweet. who says that the kiss has to last 5 minutes break it off when you are ready. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I’ve never been kissed and I was wondering if that is a turn off for guys (if they know). I personally find it embarrassing because I am 15/f. So my second question is, is it stupid that I haven’t kissed anyone yet, at my age? (link)
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I don't think that guys care. And if they are your first you are sort of a "trophey" to them. No it isn't stupid i know some people who havent been kissed. You are just saving it for the right guy. Good Luck
~*~Sour~*~
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ok i asked if your ovaries, kidneys, or your appendix could get damaged from something going up your vagina. My back has been hurting (where my kidneys are) but sometimes it hurts in the front of my body. I should be having my period pretty soon, so that could be a cause. but, since my kidneys are hurting and they both started hurting at the same time im thinking this is connected. but anyways, do you think its my kidneys that are causing this pain? or do you think its from damage to my ovaries? could it be both? what would cause my kidneys to get hurt or infected? can they fix themselves? i really dont want to go to the doctor and get surgery or anything. i also have a red spot on my left side where it has been hurting. its kind of a bump and its in the same place where my kidney is hurting. its not just the bump that hurts, because i can feel the pain inside of me (my kidney) is this swelling up from my kidney or something? put your hands on your waist like you would normally and where you hands are in those places thats where it hurts. from the back of your hand to the front. please help. thanks :o) (link)
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Well i would go to the docter. What ever was put well... "up there" may have infected or damged something. I would recomend going to the docter or atleast talking to you parents.
Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I've been going out with this guy for almost a month and I'm not sure if I really like anymore. It still feels like we're just friends, but I know he likes me a lot. How do I find out if I still like him?
Pebbles (link)
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Hey Pebbles!
Well i felt the same way with my first boyfriend and i let it keep going for a while and now i hate my self for when i finally did break it off it hurt him even worse. I'd give it a week or so if you don't have that "warm fuzzy feeling" anymore then break up with him tell him you need space. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I got over somebody perhaps two weeks ago and decided to move on with my life. Moving on materialized in a new matter with a friend of a friend, and we started going out. At the same time everything else in my life has been going awry, and I don't feel attracted to this person anymore. I'm extremely confused right now, but if I break up with him I'll hurt his feelings and since he's part of the circle, my friends will make me feel bad about it forever. I'm beginning to think I have no sexuality at all, and he wants to do so much stuff. I just feel like getting away from him, not that I don't like him as a person. His attempts at romance only succeed in making me sick to my stomach with self disrespect.
I just want things to be the way they were. I don't want the status of having a bf, or being in a relationship. I cannot act all happy when everything else in my life is falling down around me.
I am so malcontent. (link)
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Well just tell him that tell him you can't have a boyfriend right now you have to much going on ask him to have a break. Tell him to give you some space for a while and maybe you can go out when you feel better about yourself. Sure he and your friends may get mad but if they are your real friends they will understand. Good Luck!
~*~Sour~*~
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I really want to enter the NA Miss Competition in my state, but my parents are big anti-modeling and anti-cheerleading because they think it's a brainless thing that only focuses on the outside. They don't really know that this competition takes grace, poise, and intelligence to win, and it's not even focused on beauty. I really want to let them know, but they have EXTREMELY closed minds about things like that. If I mention the word "model" in front of my mother, she flips out and gives me her anti-modeling speech. My parents are from a rigid family that believes in moral values and modesty, and there is only that in this competition. How can I show them that I want to be in this competition and open their minds to it? (link)
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Well I hate to tell you to go againist your parents will but here's what i would do.
First i would start out with a mom/dad(which ever one is easier to get to) "you know how you told me i could be anything i wanted to be when i grew up" they would be like "yes honey" then you should say "well its not like i want to pick up a career in modeling(even if you do want to) but i would like to particapate in the National American Miss compation."
Sure at first they may react with a no but you keep saying you told me i could be anything i wanted to be i just want to try this and see if its for me then give them the cold shoulder. Eventuly they will wear down (after 2 or 3 days of cold shoulder/begging) Hope i helped and i hope to see you on the National American Miss.
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Ok theres this boy and were really close weve been friend forever and like in the last month we've get together. Hes so sweet and i dont know what id do with him. Today my ex asked me out and i told him and i also told him i told him no and he was like well speaking of things like that...my ex emialed me today. I didnt say anyting and he was like she had a tumor. But i guess they got it out. I told him he should go see her and he was like i was gonna ask you that cause i wanted to make sure it was ok with you. Then we were talking about it and i said id love you and i trust you and then he was like no matter what? and i said yeah. So what im asking is you dont think hes like liking hes ex or anyting? and what do you think he ment but that whole no matter what thing? you dont think he would cheat on me? like i feel like a foul writing this cause i say i trust him but i do...
*-*PLZ HELP ILL RATE 5*-* (link)
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Well i dont really know what to think. To me he sounds like the type of guy who loves you no matter what. I think the whole "no matter what?" was his way of saying he really cares and wants you to care for him the same way he cares for you! But I don't know that is just my opinion maybe you should talk to him. Good luck!
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I feel like I am seperated from my family by a million universes. We seem so distant. I can barely hold a conversation, and I can definately not sit in the room with them without feeling awkward. I am like the reject of the family while everyone else is together in a happy wonderland. Is there anything that I can personaly do to get closer to my family? (link)
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Well first i would talk to your family see what is driving you apart. was there just a big problem or something. Or are they just waiting for you to come to them. This might sound corny, depending on your age, but set up a family night. Go to the mall, rent a movie, or just talk about random stuff. Believe me it really helps. I had the same problem a few years ago with my family, so every Monday night we go somewhere and do something, or even just stay at home and play board games. Good Luck
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Hi. I have a really bad cold and i need a way to get better by tuesday. I have to go back to work on tuesday and i went to the doctor but she could only give me something for congestion but not my throat or body aches. My throat is the worst...is there anything i can do to help m throat, its very scratchy and sore when I swallow... (link)
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LOTS of citrus And go in you shower and turn it up really hot dont stand under the water just breath in the steam
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I recentley bought an iPod.
I only have 44 songs on it, and I can't think of any more songs to add! Mostly all the songs I have on there are emo/rock. Im looking for some good songs that are in the Indie and Techno genre. Thanks! (link)
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Taking Back Sunday
Green Day
Switchfoot
Blink 182
The Killers
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I babysit every Sunday for 3 kids. 2 girls ages 5 and 7, and one boy who is 9. I bring coloring books and board games, but after a while we just run out of stuff to do!!! These kids get bored easily, and everything I own that they would like, they have used. After a while, I become bored and very tired, and so every week i am reluctant to go. What should I do, and quitting is NOT an option! (link)
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"clean queen"
each girl/boy gets to be the "Queen/King" of the room. and in each room they get to tell the others what to clean in the room.
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what are the babysitting costs? what should i charge? thank you.. (link)
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I let the parents choose what they think is fair. I usally get $5 a kid and add $1 for each kid extra. so lets say there are 4 kids i would get $8.
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I really like this guy, he's a senior and im a freshman. It used to just be like an admiration type of thing, but i really think I like him now, and i dont want to be upset when he leaves. I don't know what to do, spend time with him, although some days we don't even talk, or should I just back off, we're not super close, but there is an attraction, bigger on my side than his. What should I do? (link)
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First of all that is a HUGE age diffrence. I think you should just lay off if he doesn't like you it is not big deal. Look for guys your own age maybe a year older. Look around for another guy this will sound stupid but as they always say there are plently of fish in the sea
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okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do? (link)
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I know it seems like you might love him not but you are ONLY 16! If he is threating you then you need to get out of there and get out of there FAST! This will sound gay but if you are really scared, which i would be if i were in your postion, talk to someone about it... other then him. If he keep harassing you after you break up i would either talk to your consolers or principal and if it gets worse consider a restraining order. Good luck.
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Well I met this guy. He is a year younger than me but he really likes me. He is my cousins best friend. I like him just not a whole lot I hate it when he calls me b/c he gets on my nerves alot. He only gets on my nerves because he acts shy around me and he doesn't what to talk about. Do you think that I should give him a chance or what? (link)
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Well, personally i think you should give him a chance. He obviously likes you alot and if he likes you that much and he seems like a good guy go for it. It's not like you two are going to get married anytime soon so see if he becomes less annoying if you start dating and if it doesn't work out then you can always break it off later on! Good luck!
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