Hey,
I used to cut and alot of my friends do about 5 and i stopped about 2 months ago and i havn't done it since and i'm sorta worried bout this cuz my cuzzin (whos younger then me by 2 months) is doin it too now and i think she picked up the habbit from me..... i feel really bad and i want to start again but i promised my bf that i wouldn't and i havn't but when we broke up a couple months ago i did it and i havn't since because were going out again. but i feel realy bad hope you can help
Feeling stupid and iresponsible.
Well you shouldnt do it and yeah i know it may seem like it takes everything away but it doesnt trust me i would know and about your cousin and friends talk to them about it and tell them how dangerous it is and maybe they will stop and if they dont well..there iisnt much you can do.
Well i hope i helped
xO Anna xO
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i have this "sister" and she cuts her wrist...i want her to listen to me when i tell her stop but she doesnt! she doesnt do it everyday now...only sometimes...it still bothers me becaus ei mean this is my "SISTER" and im worried about her...i have had a lot of family members do that in their life and i knew a lot of people who died from suicide and i dont want ANYTHING even close to that happen to her
Some days she wwill go to me and go please dont tell no one and i will say promise and i dont want to break that promise but she will lift her sleeve and then i will see this red line (on top of the many) on her wrist. i give her a look and just sigh. the angel inside me is saying tell someone!!! its the right thing to do but idont wanna lose a friend so my mind is saying DONT BREAK THAT PROMISE!! i dont know if im being over protective or just being a good friend
i dont know what to do!
PLEASE HELP ME AND FAST BEFORE SHE DOES IT AGAIN
*~Feared Friend~*
Well..i think that you should tell somebody because if you dont she could get really hurt i mean i used to cut...but i dont anymore because sometimes it just doesnt help and if she keeps doing it more and more you might just want to tell somebody because it isnt safe to keep secrets that are harmin her.
Well i hope i helped
xO Anna xO
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i think someone doesnt like me anymore but she pretends to be my friend what should i do? then i like this guy and i dont think he likes me back but all of my friends do how could i find out if he does?
Well ask your friend straight up and tell her that you want the truth if she does have a problem with you figure out ways to fix it and maybe she wont have a problem wid you anymore
And about the guy pretty much the answer i gave in the other ? just talk to him more
Well i hope i helped
xO Anna xO
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i liek a guy but i dont think he lies me bak but all my friends think he does how can i find out if he likes me or not??
Try and talk to him and try and chill wid him more and get to know him and then ask ?'s to lead to if he likes you..
Well i hope i helped
xO Anna xO
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ok i have this friend and she cuts her wrists about alotta things and i wanna help her by GETTING her help, but i dont want her pissed at me...do i get her help or jus help her myself?!
frightened friend~
Well you can talk to her about it and try to help her if it doesnt work..well maybe mention something like dont give names but mention u have a friend who does that and see what advice you can get and then talk to your friend again
Well i hope i helped
xO Anna xO
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i like some 1 nd ask them out but he like some 1 else how do i get him to like me?
Well talk to him more get to know him and you know just work your way i mean it takes time to get a guy to like you its not something you can force well..i hope i helped
xO Anna xO
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well i have a b/f and i cant stop lying to him i dont lie about big things just small things and i keep saying i'll stop but i cant and i dont know why how can i stop and get his trust back??
*Dased and Confused*
Well idk...i mean you shouldnt lie you should be honest with your bf...i dont really know what to tell you...hope i helped a lil..
xO Anna xO
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ok so i have a friend n she isnt treatin me much like a friend..... sh dusnt have me in her pro n wen ever she talks 2 me at all its about my other bffllnlnlnlnlnlnllnl or her bf. its gettin me annoyed. Should i be mad at her??
Well i wouldnt necessearly be mad at her yet..maybe you should talk to her about it and tell her how you feel and maybe she will understand and if she is a bitch a about it take a lil time from her and then maybe you should be mad at her.. well i hope i helped !!
xO Anna xO
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ok i like this guy but he said he dont wanna relationship right now but he wants one w/ me...what should i do? i wanna be w/ him...NOW!
Well...maybe give it a lil time and talk to him more and he will want to be with you NOW!! lol hope i helped!!
xO Anna xO
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ok so theres this guy that i wanna be w/ like more than anything and i honestly think that i "love" him :-/ but thent heres this guy that i liked for a while a long time ago and he still loves me so i dont know what to do...HeLp!
Lost Ladii
Well...if you think you love the guy your with..then maybe stay with him and if things dont work out between you to get with the other guy..im sure he would understand if he "loves" you. Hope i helped
xO Anna xO
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Okaii well, yooh knoe who ii am but yeah ii`m not quna realese mii iidentiity or however yooh spell iit.
But okaii thiiSz miite be kiina loonq -- Sorriie.
ii`m biisexual. ii had thiis qurl friiend ( ii`ll just call her " D " ). Okaii well ii had asked her a couple tiimeSz would she not be happiier wiith her ex ( well call her " KE " ). And then so we broke up cause she saiid iit seemed ii diidn`t trust her. Okaii then she told meh about 2 weekSz aqo that she`d thiink over niite about us qoiinq back out. Well she qot on the iinternet the next daii and she hadda new qurl friiend ( well call her " K " ). Well they been qoiinq out liike a month and " D " tellSz meh that when her and " K " break up were qunna qo back out. But last niite ii was readiinq " D "`Sz xanquh about how " KE " stiill`Sz loveSz " D " and then " D " left " KE " a comment sayiinq how do yooh knoe that ii don`t stiill love yooh nd alla thiiSz thiiSz. and todaii ii asked " D " what was up and she was liike * why doeSz iit matter * and yeah so then she wouldn`t talk to meh the resta tha niite. And stiill hasn`t. Help ??
Okaii on to one of mii other problemSz =/ ...
Mii mom iis a druqqiie and she beatSz meh when sheSz on the druqSz. and one niite she passed out ( not liiterally but feel asleep ) and yeah we had thiiSz quy over here and he raped meh and ii thiink ii miite be preqnant. Help ???
On to the last one ...
ii wanna do suiiciide. Help ??
xl3 The qurl who never told
neone how she felt xl3
Okay on the first one obviously she knows how you feel..but..she really likes "k" so maybe you should give it a little time and see wat happens.And if that doesnt work tell her how you feel and maybe "d" just needs a little time to think everything over. Hope i helped on that one!
On the second one. Well maybe you should call DSS on your mom because you shouldnt get treated that way especially bcuz she is on drugs.and about the guy..well maybe you should go to the hosipital to make it positive your pregnat so you can get an abortion nd you should turn the guy in to the police(the one that raped you)
On the third one. Dont do suicide it may seem like its helping your problems but dying doesnt help anything you just have to be strong and "try" and think of alll the positive things in life!!
Well i hoped i helped ALOT ILY!!
xO Anna xO
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well i am goin out wit this guy and i think he likes sum1 else :-/ what do i do?
o yah i also tried talkin to him about it and he got mad well please help me
> Confused Chickita
Well..then maybe you should dump him if you dont think you can trust him i mean if you cant talk to him about it then..maybe hes not the one because you should be able to talk to him about it to work things out and you shouldnt have to think he likes someone else it should be clear that he only likes you! wellll i hope i helped!!
xO Anna xO
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i just stopped goin out wit a guy who i still like nd i gues he still likes me but he dont wanna go out iwt me..how do i get over him quickly?
well..the best you can do is to talk to him about it and ask him why he wont go out with you..and just talk to him and maybe he will go back out with you. and if that doesnt work then try and talk to other guys and maybe you will get over him. well i hope i helped!!
xO Anna xO
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