Ok theres this boy and were really close weve been friend forever and like in the last month we've get together. Hes so sweet and i dont know what id do with him. Today my ex asked me out and i told him and i also told him i told him no and he was like well speaking of things like that...my ex emialed me today. I didnt say anyting and he was like she had a tumor. But i guess they got it out. I told him he should go see her and he was like i was gonna ask you that cause i wanted to make sure it was ok with you. Then we were talking about it and i said id love you and i trust you and then he was like no matter what? and i said yeah. So what im asking is you dont think hes like liking hes ex or anyting? and what do you think he ment but that whole no matter what thing? you dont think he would cheat on me? like i feel like a foul writing this cause i say i trust him but i do...
Additional info, added Monday May 23 2005, 10:22 pm: ok like everything was going great after he seen her. He even talked about marrying and everything and were young you no. But now hes asking me if i would for give him if he cheated. And i would like a dumbass cause i love him. What to think? I love him and i so do trust him!!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Claire15 answered Monday May 23 2005, 1:32 pm: My evil friend seems to think there is a possibility that he will cheat out of sympathy.
However personally I think he sounds like a guy who really loves you and the fact that he asked your permission before going to see her is a sure sign that he truly cares for you. If he were planning to cheat, there's no way he would have told you about it in the first place.
In this situation your just going to have to trust him. If your still really worried, you could offer to go with him in order to support him. If he accepts your offer, obviously there is no chance that he will cheat. However if he declines, he may cheat but hunni I really don't think he will.
Feel free to come and help me murder my evil friend, lol
sourpatchkids379 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 5:54 pm: Hey!
Well i dont really know what to think. To me he sounds like the type of guy who loves you no matter what. I think the whole "no matter what?" was his way of saying he really cares and wants you to care for him the same way he cares for you! But I don't know that is just my opinion maybe you should talk to him. Good luck!
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