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ALRIGHT PEOPLE! I need your help! Alright well there is this guy and I think I have a crush on him! butt.. he is like a really horny person.. and like if i ever did go out with him (which I doubt) im afraid hed use me! But i think itd be fun to go out with him! and I have a crush on him.. and hes funny and everything! but I dont want him just to use me for stuff.. and I already told him if I do anything sexual with anyone they are gona be my boyfriend.. what if some how we do end up goin out.. how do I know he isnt using me? But also how do I make him like me for me and not just for sexual stuff!!
if you end up going out with him, dont do anything sexual with him until you KNOW that he isnt using you. make him wait it out.
I need help breaking up with my boyfriend. I still like him and everything its just that its summer and i dont think im gonna see him that much. What should i say to him? I still wanna be friends cause he is really nice.
Thanks Alot
If it helps we have been going out for about 2 1/2 months. And the reason is becuz i wont see him much.
just because youre not going to be seeing him as much doesnt mean that you should break up with him. if you still care about him, make it work. dont give up. you will never know, you might get to see him more than you expected.
I am 5'3 and weigh 110 pounds. What will 3 shots of 40% alcohol do to me?
3 shots, i dont think, wont hurt. it depends on your tolerance. im 120 and 3 shots wont even get me buzzed. no where near.
ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
thanks
yeah, you definitely need to tell someone about what happened. dont think its your fault, believe me, because its not. when i was 14, my boyfriend at the time raped me, and took my virginity. i know exactly how you feel.. and i blamed myself as well.. but i went to counceling and realized it wasnt my fault. please tell your parents, theyll know what to do. its going to be hard telling them, but its better than keeping it in. i hope the best for you.
this is a two part question.
1. i have been thinking of converting to buddism, but i dont really know enough about the religon. i was wonering if anyone can give me information on it or tell me where to get some information on buddism.
2. my mom is a really strict christian. im sure how to tell her that i want to convert.
any advice on either of these questions would be really helpful. i'll rate 5's for good answers.
i am buddhist, been so my entire life. i just wanted to say that ;]
i do agree with what the other person said, about how you want to convert to a religion you dont know enough about.. to learn more about buddhism, try going to the library and taking out books on buddhism, AND hinduism. i say hinduism too because buddhism started from that religion. and ofcourse, you can always google it and find stuff about it on the internet. find local buddhist temples, talk to monks. i know my religion well because my dad was a monk in cambodia. and i guess the only other way to know more is by talking to other buddhists.
and about your mom being christian, i went to a catholic high school and i am attending a catholic college, and catholics and christians are to respect other peoples religions even if its not their own. but before you speak to your mom about converting, just make sure you know all about buddhism and thats what you really want to do.
okay since the last person i gave head to.. i have been getting bumps in my mouth.. like one bump a day and it would go away.. and a few days later another bump would come but at another spot.. i am really scared! the bumps hurt also.. and please dont tell me to go to the doctors because i will someday but i just need help NOW ..okay thanks
so what if it is herpes? what are you going to do? just not go to the doctors and get it treated and have it spread to other people you may kiss and give head to? be real. seriously.
I hear in some rap songs all the time guys saying something about a girl but they call her a " Dime Piece or Dyme" what does that mean "dime piece?" Thanks a bunch!
shes a ten out of a ten.
there's a kid who wants to fight my friend and his little brother (known them for about 10years now)my friend knows i have his back but told me not to jump in if a fight breaks out. the other kid is very street and it could get ugly quick. i kno i can make a pancake out of this b*tch. im 15 years old 6'1 175(muscle i mite add) i dont want my friends geting hurt, so should i fight this kid myself or let my neighbor do it.
talking it over and going to adults doesnt work so please dont suggest that.
always stick by your friends. there is nothing wrong with fighting for a friend, just realize that you may get in trouble for it. but if i was in your shoes, i believe its worth it.
hey well me and my ex broke up b/c i cheated and the guy i cheated on him with i go out with now and i dont want to go out with him but i do i am so confuesedand my ex we are friends and he still tells me he loves me and wants to be with me and i told him my ex that i couldnt wait for him for ever well today he was flirting with me and telling me he loves me he says he forgives me but how can he i done him wrong anyways but that dude i am with now is older than me late teens early 20's and i am 16 fixing to e 17 and i dont want to be with him i do but i dont what should i do what if he asks me back out i love him so much and he tells me he misses me but how can i do this plz help
nikki
not one fuckin period in this sentence
Today my friend Liam invited me to his 18th birthday party. I was rather shocked because I don't really know Liam, but I guess he likes my quirkiness. So I was really excited until I realized that I don't really know any of Liam's friends besides the people he talks to in art class, and only one of them is really a friend. Her name is Rachel. Sometimes I talk to them about things in the art room where I know them from. They're both very open about themselves and have said that they're into drugs among other things. So I'm worried about going to this party tomorrow because I don't want to get caught up in drugs, but I also want to be friends with Liam and Rachel because they're nice people who talk on my level and care about the things I care about.
so should I go or should I stay home and be perfectly safe? and if I go and there are drugs, how can I stay away from them and not come home smelling suspicious?
dont go. those type of parties are bullshit. if you want to be friends with them, do so at school. its not worth getting in trouble for.
How do you get those things in your AIM profile where people click on it and it records their name and shows it when they click it?? If this makes any sence?!?
Thanks!!
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i went out wit this kid a while ago and we really liked eachother , cept he went to a different school so we didnt see eachother that much or talk in that case, and after a couple months we just decided to wait till the summer to go out so we can do stuff with eachother. then a couple months later he started liking my best friend and the two of them hit it off behind my back. but ya now i dont kno if he likes her anymore and i take it the summer plans are off, but i still like him alot and miss him, should i give it up or wat? help!
i think you should ask him what does he want first, and go from there. just say to him how you guys were planning to go out with each other, but then the whole incident with him and her occured,so ask him where do you two stand now.
i have 2 questions The first one is for prom i think most people get like long dresses and stuff but im not sure is itok to get like a knee- ancle length one ?
and 2 of my good friends already got pink dresses ..thers some pink dresses i realli like but now im thinkin i should get a different color cuz i dont want all of us to have pink dresses...so what do u think?
long dresses are nice, its traditional. but dare to be different. i think shorter dresses steals the attention away from other girls. and i also think that you shouldnt wear pink too, because you know, its kind of cornny looking like everyone else. like i said, be different.
Wet Seal has been my favortie store for a very long time, but recently they just shutdown a whole bunch of them, including the one in my area. Does anyone one know of any cool stores with fashion/clothes like Wet Seal?
Thanks!
rampage and forever21
hey does anybody know of any good sites where i could get music for my xanga site i will rate high for good and reasonable answers.
oh yeah i'm looking for eminem-
song- mockingbird thanks :)
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Hey I was just wondering, because I have a Samsung Digimax 130 camera, and it was on the top shelf of my desk and fellow like 5 inches down to the next, and now it won't work! Yikes! My dad is gonna kill me =( It won't turn on or anything. Shoot I'm dead. Please help. I will leave you good feedback and rate you well. =) Thanks in advance a zillion! =/
it's not like you meant for it to fall, or you made it fall on purpose, so just tell your dad what happened. if you tell him what happened ahead of time, and not wait for him to find out on his own, i'm pretty sure he wouldn't be so mad.
Any good ideas for a hairstyle with long bangs- yes I've clipped them back and pulled them back- I just need some more ideas =] They come up to about.. my chin! ♥
i have bangs and sometimes to get them out of my face, i do the pump, or hump, which ever you'd prefer.
I need to know some colleges CLOSE to New Jersey, New York..That area.. That you can get into without Straight A's
certain colleges will accept you regardless to whether or not you have straight a's. to be honest with you, i got kicked out of 3 high schools for fighting, and i never had straight a's, however, my grade average for each year in high school was an 80, but point is, i've got accepted to my number one choice for college, and the following two. i stressed sooo much that no schools were going to accept me because i got suspended over like 6 times, and fought a lot of girls, even got involved with cops, yet, they still took me in. and it wasn't like they are corny schools, if you ever heard of rosemont and cabrini college, which are catholic colleges, and west chester. anyway, sorry if i'm dragging on, but i believe that you shouldn't need to worry that you don't have straight a's. just look into the colleges that you want to go to, and fill out an application. just make sure you fill out a couple just in case you get reject for any reason. hey, if my anger management ass can get into a good college, than anyone can. ;]
I'm really into fashion and stuff but i don't know what stores have the hottest clothes!! Fill me in!!
no offense to anyone, but, all the stores listed are "preppy" stores. don't get me wrong, i have no problem with that. it's just that i live in the city, philly, and the hottest clothes around here are stuff by rocawear and baby phat. yeah.. urban clothes. my point is, it depends on where you are from because fashion is different in different areas.
I want to dump my boyfriend...and yes I have my reasons. He asked me if I would go to the movies with him this Friday. And I said I would, but since then I have decided I want to dump him. I don't know what to do now though. Because I went with him to the movies last week and he thought I got mad at him there. But I didn't. His friend told me that my boyfriend was shy last week and he wanted to give me a kiss and everything but he was to shy. And he was going to this Friday. I need advice on what to do, because there is another guy that I want to go out with, when me and my boyfriend break up. I'm not sure if I want to dump my boyfriend before or after the movies. What do you think?
if you already decided that you want to be with this other guy when you and your current bf breaks up, then, my opinion, i think that you should break up with him before you guys go to the movies. if you stay with him, you'll only be leading him on.