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My name is Misty. Im 23 years old. Im a part time bartendar a part time student and a full time mother of 3 kids. My oldest son is 6years old and my youngest son is 8weeks old and my daughter is 18 months.Ive been through alot in my short life and feel I can anwser just about anything and I hope my advice helps you out.
I thought this would be a good idea because Im the one everyone calls when they have a problem so I figured I would spread the love.
Ive taken many courses in psychology during my college courses if that helps any.
Just to make it clear my advice is what I think is best but you have to judge for yourself on what you believe to be the best thing to do in your sitation.
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Ok I have a really small plain room and it gets veeeery messy. the amount of space when its CLEAN to walk in is even smaller than a walk-in closet! And I can't move out any of the furniture because they're all nailed into the wall! What can I do to make it less messy and make it look nicer? It's so, well, PLAIN and I'm not even allowed to paint it. I like lava lamps and miniature desk water fountains and things like that if it helps!!!! thanx a lot, I will rate high for anyone who gives a reasonable answer
Maybe a border that you can remove would brighten things up and some curtains and mirrors can add alot of depth to even a tiny room. Try to do something with that clutter though and it will help alot. Remember, with small rooms less is more when trying to make it look larger.
I met this guy on the internet and he's coming to pick me up in an hour or so. EVerything seems all right and my intuition tells me its a go but everyone always says to be careful so I thought I'd ask. Don't be too hasty to answer cuz I'm really for going.
I dont think its to good of an idea but I guess your mind is already made up so with that being said make sure to go to a public place with him just incase he ends up being a weirdo or if he would considder going on a double date with a friend and her guy just so its a bit safer.
Be carefull.
Hi, I bite my nails ,I want to stop biting my nails but I can't stop it It's my habit biting nails please help me how can I stop to bite my nails. thank you
Look at walmart or your local drugstore..they have some stuff you put on your nails like nail polish but its supposed to taste rotten so you wont want to bite your nails. Or maybe carry something around to fidget with when you feel the need to start nawing on them. And before you go to start chewing your nails just think of all the germs under them...Ewwww!
this is stupid but i'll give 5's. if you want to get motovated to do something like work out everyday or practice for a sport everyday does anyone have any ways that they get motovated for something like that? thanks in advanced
Just set a goal and it will help. Start out at a small goal. For instance say its working out, say to yourself Ill work out half an hour each day then build upon that. Reward yourself for it as well..seeing that reward in site will help you achive your goal.
For instance, after having my son my goal was to loose 8 pounds so I bought a really cute dress one size to small and knew I couldnt fit it unless I lost that 8 pounds. I hung it outside of the closet so I would see it all the time and get motivated to work out. And guess what...Im back to a size 6!!
my friend hooked up with this guy for the first time yesterday...he walked out of the room laughing 5 minutes after they went in and she locked herself in the bathroom...according to the guy...she didnt know how to french so he left her...is there anything i can tell her to make her feel better or any pointes i can give her...ive tried everything, but shes still devistated and i would like to know if theres anything else i can do....thanks!!!
Any guy who would dump a girl over something like that was only after one thing and that makes him so not worth her time. Just tell her that and that she can do much better.
Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.
at first it may seem flattering to you but in the long run a jelouse man is hard to live with. Believe me I know. It starts small and gets bigger and bigger.
Just tell him straight out. Ive known these guys longer than Ive known you..if I had wanted to date them I would have already so you have nothing to worry about.
If you have that hard of a time trusting me how are we going to maintain a relationship?
My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children?
Alot of time not concieving is something simple that can be fixed. Go right ahead and visit a doctor so you dont have to worry. Then he can confirm if there are any problems. Good luck.
ok if someone is pregnent how soon would morning sickness kick in? and do all women get morning sickkness? do most women get morning sickness by the time they are 2 weeks pregnent?
Im a mother of three so its safe to say Ive had my share of morning sickness and I can tell you its different with everyone and different with each pregnancy.
With my first morning sickness started instantly and didnt stop the whole 9 months.
With my second it started after I was about 1 month pregnant and stopped at about 3 months pregnant and with my last I didnt get morning sickness at all.
I have to admit, I'm a huge wuss and I can't drink any hard alcohol straight. I always have to mix it with soda or something. Is there any way to make drinking alcohol straight easier or more tolerable?
Alot of how you will feel after consuming alchol and how much you can handle has alot to do with what you ate prior to drinking believe it or not.
To minimiz getting drunk fast and help to keep from getting a hang over or pukeing try eating something with bread in it like pizza or a sandwich or etc or even rice. These help to absorb the alcohol in your stomach.
alrighty im 13 and i want to start to masterbuate but i have like noo clue what to do like what do i use how do i do it etc!! help me out!!
Well Im going to assume your a girl but either way I guess this advice can go for boy or girl. Number one, dont be embarssed about it, its perfectly natural.
Just touch yourself till you find out what makes you feel good. Everyone is different so noone can really tell you what to do.
My mom keeps on intruding on my life. Heres a perfect example: Im sure some of you have an AOL screen name right?? For instant messaging? Well, I have it. And it has something called a log manager whice saves all of my conversations. So anyways, She READS MY MESSAGES I SEND TO PEOPLE. And then shes like, "YOU SWEAR TOO MUCH YOUR BANNED FROM IT!" And ITS SO GAY. AND IM FURIOUS. SOMEONE HELP ME!
I feel for you and know your very upset by your mom invading your privacy but Im pretty sure shes cautious because of so many online predators out there. Right now you might not understand but shes just tring to look out for you.
what are some nonmaterialistic things i can say/do for my boyfriend of 11 months?
Write him a poem perhaps? One for valentines I made a scrap book for my husband. Each page had a little love poem and a different picture of us.
Or maybe go through a list of I love you becauses.
Hello*
Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.
Brenda***
Your in love when you enjoy being with that person and miss them when you are apart. The plans you make for your future, you always see them in them. When they are happy you are happy for them and when they are sad you feel their pain.
im goin out with sumone right now and have been for 3 months he askes me if im ready to have sex but i have no clue what to say because im scared and at a young age (14) my body feels like its ready but i dont know if i am he says hes ok with whatever my choice is!i want to but i dont know if its the right moment sometimes?what should i do go on with it and deal with everything or forget about it???please i need some advice?
Just because your body is ready dosent mean your mind is. If your not sure then just say your not ready. If he cares about you he will respect you for it. If not then he wasnt worth it anyway.
I keep having these sexual fantasies where I'm sexually dominated - the guy hits me or forces me to have sex; mostly, they revolve around rape. These are my most frequent fantasies. I'm a very strong-willed girl in my actual life, and what I can't get is, why is this the most surefire way to turn me on? Would this scare guys? (I've never had a boyfriend). Am I a sadist?
I know what you mean exactly. In real life Im a very dominant person but I kept having fantasies about being dominated. I finially told my husband I wanted to give it a try but he insisted he didnt like the idea of it and was scared he would hurt me. Finially we gave it a try and I realized some things are just better left an fantasy because what seemed really hot in my head turned out to be kinda scary in real life.