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if u get fingered what happens (link)
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It's foreplay, it's pleasurable if you do it right.
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My boyfriend and i are 18 and a month ago we started having sex he was a virgin and the thing is he cums too soon just as i start enjoying it he only lasts a few minutes before he cums i'm not sure is there anyway to get him to last longer? (link)
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This is really common, in my previous relationships I've been with a few virgins, I find that it takes a long time for them to build up a long lasting time limit, you can try a few things that might help, try foreplay some days instead of sex, and when you have sex go for a few minutes, stop and try just maybe massaging his back and then go again, best of luck.
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Hi, I'm 14/f. (My birthday was yesterday!!!)
Which one of these options is the healthiest for a girl to take? I know to have sex at all is bad.
1: Not doing anything sexual at all, not even masturbating until youre married
2: Only masterbating until youre married
3: A mixture of masterbating and having sex with someone all your life
Any opinions will be appreciated. Thanks to all who answer (or comment) !!! (link)
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I believe that masturbation and sex are healthy once your reach a certain age. Masturbation is fine but sex is something you need to be a little bit more mature to be able to handle, it's also dangerous if protection isn't used. I've had a few sexual partners and I'm not married, I think it's a healthy thing, when you are growing up you need to learn these things, some religions and some people in general believe sex is something to be saved for marriage. You are fourteen however, Masturbating at your age is very normal actually, however if you plan to have sex before marriage I think you should wait a few more years. I lost my virginity at your age and I was not emotionally ready and it really messed me up. So make sure whatever you decide it is something you are comfortable with. You may not be comfortable with it now, but chances are as you mature you will change your mind. Best of luck.
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talking fast
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I would love more information, but I understand you are asking how to talk slower probably? Being a girl, I've had this issue. My mom gave me some advice on this however and now I talk normal paced. I know you just probably want to get your words out as quick as possible, but the best way is to just read the words in your head as you say them. Picture the words. For instance. My cat is black.
Say my first then picture the word cat, say it, picture the word is, say it then black, at the end of the sentence remember the period same with commas, picture the period or comma take a deep breath as if taking a break then continue.
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So my boyfriend and I are creepin' up on our 6 month anniversary and Christmas is coming up as well. He is really hard to shop for, everything he needs/wants he gets himself or already has. I am clueless and need suggestions quick! (link)
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It would help if maybe you listed how serious you two are and how old the two of you are.
If he has any piercings or likes any jewelry you could get him some, like maybe a watch.
Maybe make a cute gift kid, like a date night kit for you both. Put in movie tickets, a gift card, and maybe a note saying something personal.
I know this sounds cheesy, but I worked at a daycare a while back when I was dating my most recent ex, I painted him a picture that said happy 3 months I did it with water color and glue and glitter sand, he loved it and hung it up on his wall, maybe he'd like something you'd make for him, maybe he has a favorite band or tv show? Get him or even make him a shirt portraying that band or show (:
Hope this helped.
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13/f
I found out that my 15 yearold boyfriend got me pregnant.I called him and told him and he freaked out. He told he can't take care of a baby now and that he doesnt want to be part of this.I don't know what to do about the baby.I don't know how to tell my parents and don't know what to do about my boyfriend.I need help and I'm scared. (link)
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My ex boyfriend's mother was thirteen when she had him, it was hard, not only that but her boyfriend was 17 at the time, her parents had a hard time accepting what she had done. And when the time came she was so tiny that her birth was premature, he was born at six months, she almost died and they had a hard time, she raised him by herself and it wasn't easy. I suggest you take another test just to be safe. If it's positive you need to tell your parents, it will be hard but it has to be done, you might be surprised, I had a scare once, and I told my mom and she oddly was supportive of me. Then you need to decide the best option.
There are three options.
One carry out with the pregnancy and give birth.
Two Carry it out and give the baby up for adoption, you can give the baby the chance to have a good life.
Three You can get an abortion, I am pro-life and I normal would be against it, but you are thirteen and your boyfriend hung you out to dry. You're so little chances are this is going to be an emotional and physical struggle. You could die giving birth if you're not big enough, and your baby could die too. I suggest you tell your mother at least and go to the doctor, see what they suggest...
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Hey I am 18/F
Well I haven't been a virgin since I was fourteen, I've had about three sexual partners all close boyfriends, I've been checked for stds and I am clean, I've been single for a while now so I've started to experiment with just myself, I've never had an orgasm before, I've had to fake it, sex never even felt especially good, sometimes it did, but not really. Well, I've been touching myself lately, and sometimes it feels really good but in a strange way, I like how it feels but for some reason I just have to stop like it's too much, I've tried to overcome it but I can't, sometimes I get really close and I feel like I am going to orgasm, but then I just pull my hand away and I can't understand why, is there any reason why? And if so is there a way to overcome this and reach my goal?
tips would be appreciated!! (link)
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You might want to try relaxing, it may just be because it's something new and you might have to get used to it, maybe set a goal, every time you do it try and reach a certain time limit without stopping add a minute or two every time.
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Hi, Im a female of 14. So there's this boy I like and last night while I was frenching him, people were like ew they're kissing. so today someone asked if i Frenched ir Madeout with him. I don't know the difference. What's the difference between Frenching, Making out, and just kissing? (link)
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Frenching is when you use tongue when you kiss, it's inbetween kissing and making out. A kiss is more of a closed mouth short exchange. While making out is a lot longer and open mouthed, it sometimes includes tongue and can go as long as you want.
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People like my eyes, they say I talk, but not a lot, and really nice. My hair just gets in the way of everything though, poofy/wavyish. I just want more friends to hang out and talk with though. (link)
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Looks really aren't important when it comes to friends, well at least GOOD friends. But if you are having trouble with your hair getting a flat Iron and iron it, get garnier fructis frizz control and put a bit in your hair when it is damp. Use a bit of mascara to accentuate your eyes, But really, be yourself!! (:
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What does it mean when a guy throws things down your shirt, and looks at your lips and eyes? (link)
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Nothing, it means they are immature, all my guy friends do this. They even keep score.
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This is my second UTI in like a month. I always pee and shower after sex and we do use condoms. I know its a UTI because I went to the gyno. I'm just wondering why this keeps happening to me? (link)
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I used to always get them, I haven't lately but try this to help, get some cranberry juice and mix a little bit of apple cider vinegar in with it every time you drink it, it will help I promise.
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Why do I throw up when I'm on my period? (link)
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I threw up on my periods do to cramps a while back, I went on birth control about a year ago and it really helped with that.
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15/f
I've dyed my hair a few times in the past, but I've rarely bleached it. Colour seems to show up very well despite my dark hair. Now I really want to dye it red but I'm worried about bleaching it again. Should I? (link)
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If you are going to bleach it and do it red either go to the professional or do this, deep condition your hair a few times a week before you decide to do it, after you bleach it, go to a beauty store and get a toner that removes all the brassy tones from your hair, after, give your hair a break for a week or two, then dye it red, keep deep conditioning your hair and make sure to put in a leave in conditioner, after you bleach your hair you might also want to give it a trim to get rid of any damaged ends it may have caused.
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15/f
So there's this boy.
We've been pretty good friends for about a year or so now, and I really like him, I've liked him for a while, and I've heard rumours from friends that he supposedly likes me. My parents aren't terribly fond of him, but my brother and I love him. I've never had a boyfriend and he hasn't had a girlfriend; we're both kind of awkward, not really dating-type people, but all my friends tell mw we'd make a great couple. What should I do in this situation? All [serious] answers are appreciated :)
Note~ We have the same German class, study hall and lunch, and we have each other's numbers. (link)
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Tell him in person, not over text or phone, just lay it all out, it'll be really hard, but if he likes you too, it' be worth it.
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So I stretched my ears with a stainless steel nail. It was 2" and 25mm. I think that was length though.. but idk. Can someone tell me what gauge that is? It is pretty thick for me and hurt like a b**** to put in..plus it was hard trying to do it without my mom seeing me cuz she dosent approve of me doing it. So how can I actually get real gauge earrings without her knowing so I can actually have earrings?? (link)
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Hey there! I have one inch lobes!
Sticking a nail in your ears was realllllly not smart, especially if your ear hurts, you probably had a blow out, and depending on the nail I'd say it was a 6 or an 8, not smart. you can usually find a store in your area that sells tapers and plugs for about 5 dollars a pair. My advice, take the nail out of your ear NOW! You are going to cause damage to your ear lobe that will create scar tissue which will make it incapable of stretching them any bigger. My parents disagree with me having stretched lobes at first even at a small 2, you need to realize a few things, yes it is a trend and a pretty cool one, but once you get to a certain size you cannot go back and you will have to live with it or spend money to have your ear lobe cut. If you are absolutely sure, tell your parents you will go to a small size such as an 8 or 10, if they approve go to that size, they usually be okay with you going bigger after that, I got my parents to agree to a 0 and now I am an inch. Just remember to take that nail out of your ear, put your earrings back in and soak your earlobe in sea salt until it heals, after that ask your parents for approval, and if they say yes go buy a proper pair.
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Im 13 and i want to dye my hair black and hot pink. But my parents say im not old enough. I think its soooooooooooo unfair. What do you think? (link)
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Don't dye your hair black, it's hard to get out and you will regret it, go for a dark brown, tell your parents that part of growing up is trying to express and individualize yourself, don't argue with them if they say no, that'll make you look immature, instead wait a few days then try again, my mom used to not let me dye my hair, I proved to her I was mature and she let me dye my hair, now I can have it however I please. But those are my parents, not your's.
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How exactly do you style arm warmers?
I want to get a pair because they look so cute and comfortable. But I don't know how to wear them. (Over shit, under shirt, what type of shirt to wear with them)
I've never actually seen them ON somebody before. Just nude mannequins.
These are what I mean; http://www.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6E.aspx?GrpTyp=ENS&ItemID=1cbc821&DeptID=73375&CatID=81120&SO=0&Ne=5+8+1007+1031+3+904+949&x5view=1&NOffset=0&N=4294934733&Nao=63&PSO=0&bcCat=3&CmCatId=73375|81120 (link)
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wear it with a tight long sleeved shirt with a cute cut, and maybe even mix it up with a cute t-shirt if you are a bit daring.
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F/16 hi i'm scene but i can't ever really get the scene hair right...I need some tips and maybe some pictures and links too i have short wavy hair it's a bit above my shoulders... (link)
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Hey there! If you look at my profile you can see I kind of have scene hair, well I have short shoulder length hair,a good way to do this is find a picture online and go to a stylist, if you don't have the cash yo can easily cut it yourself, but be VERY careful, I found a good way to get the bangs it to take your hair and comb it forward. But to get the choppy layers, section your hair off into about 5-10 layers making the bottom layer the thickest, and the top layers the thinnest, it is hard to achieve scene looking hair without it being long, but take a clean razor for shaving and take the layers and us the razor to cut the layers at the top short, make sure these layers are very thin, becase thick will make your hair look odd shaped, it should turn out great if you do it right (: I cut all my friends hair this way and they all love it.
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I have this friend and we've been friends for almost four years. I've finally buckled up enough strength to tell him that I liked him more than a friend. He said you know we've already had this conversation and if it happens,it happens. I really didn't quite understand what that meant. I don't want him to play games with me and I really hope thats not what he's doing. We talk on the phone a lot and we really just enjoy each other's company. What should I do? (link)
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If it happens it happens, let time show you, if it's meant to be it's meant to be. That's the best advice I was ever given when it comes to love (:
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i had this huge pimple on my chin and i did the worst thing possible. i popped it. now the scab has healed and fallen off...i have a gross ugly brown spot where the scab was :( ive had this scar thing for around three weeks and it will NOT go away. how do i make it go away and less noticeable? (link)
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Scars don't completely go away, but a few home remedies to fade it are:
1. Cut a raw potato in half and rub it on the scar once a day.
2. Apply lemon juice with a Q-rip on the scar
3. Take a ripe tomato and juice it, use the juice as a masque.
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