Hi!!I am Emily and i decided to give advice because i like helping people and see them happy...Others tell me that i am understanding and sociable. The only thing i know for sure is that i am possitive thinking! I have one sister and i am a very good friend with her. My best friends are Ann and Geogre. I share with them almost everything. I have a lot of friends and we go out together all the time. My hobby is acting and that's why i want to become an actress or an advisor.Of course i like giving advice. The last one is the best!!!
I like Justin Timberlake and Nick Carter very much because apart from their talent they are very hondsome too. I also like Britney and Alyssa Milano. I watch Charmed and Smalville but i like California teens very much too.
I think that we should smile more often and that's why this is my nickname!I also believe that everyone should be more spontaneous. Everyone should be a little bit more his/herself! And somethin else! A general advice from me to all you: Be you and live every minute in your life like being the last one... Only by doing it you will be really happy! Kisses!!!
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Age: 15
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Why would it upset a guy that you're just dating (not living with or sharing any expenses) that you finally found a good job at that you're happy with? I have my own appartment and my bf has his own place. He has a very good paying job in the oil rig camp but with crazy hours. When I told him how much fun I was having at my new part time job he was acting really strange, like he wasnt happy for me. This was really weird because he used to be upset when I was unemployed and encouraged me to find employement. I almost got the feeling that he was even jealous? Or maybe it was my imagination.
Anyways, now he hasnt talked to me in several weeks. What do you think is his problem? (link)
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I think that he is jealous.There is no other explanation. He just like being the most independent and now you are too he is a little bit jealous.Is your job better?Maybe thet made him feel envy. And this is not a reason to stop talking to someone. I believe that this is really immature. If i were you i would ask him what is going on and be honest with him. Remember that when we love someone we love seeing him happy. So smile and do not worry. Just talk to him
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Okay this is probably going to be really confusing, but this guy i work with and i are dating (i really really like him), well he used to be hardcore into drugs and im pretty sure hes slept with a lot of girls... im not sure if all he wants from me is "to get some" or not. he said he quit smoking and all the rest of the drugs, but how can i tell if hes being honest with me, and how can i hint to him that id rather be a couple (goingout/bf/gf) thanks for your help!
(*he was going out with his last girlfriend for almost 2 years, until she cheated on him, if that means anything--he also hasnt been with anyother girls since they broke up apx 6months ago (or so he says) (link)
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I am not sure...I think that you should be sure before doing something with him. On the one side his past and on the other side you who know that everyone deserves a second chance.Do you like him so much to take the risk? Do you think that he deserves your stress?
If i were you i would ask him:"How can i know that you will not behave to me like to all others?"Go and talk to him. Talk honestly and tell exactly what you feel.
If finally you will end up with him, don't have sex with him or something like that because as you said he has been with a lot of girls and you can't know if he is healthy.
And if he will tell you that he continues it with drugs and tells you to be handcore in to drugs break up!Then you will understand if he is really a jerk or not.
Now, to be sure that he tells the truth, see how he behaves. If he is dizzy, or has a weird sight or continues to go out with the same "friends", that means that he is not telling the truth. If do not even think to be with him. The guy is apart from all others a lier too!
I hope i helped you honey...Kisses and good luck!
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okay theres this guy at my school and i think he likes me. my best friend who is soooo trustworthy says he does also. he sits right next to me in two of my classes and i always find him staring at me but trying not to make it obvious, but it is... hes in some of my other classes too. I always find myself looking at him to see if hes looking at me. i know i dont like him but i want him to like me. and i always get odd feelings when i find him staring at me. Please help i dont know what to do and its really annoying!!!! i rate 5! (link)
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Are you sure you do not like him!?Because ok! You look at him to see if he is staring. Think about it!
Now, you say you do not like him. If you find it annoying go there and talk to him.Ask him what is going on and why is he staring all the time.
But, if you want him to like you do not talk to him rudely or like you detest him. If he will tell you that he likes you try do be polite. If you are sure you do not like him tell him that you do not want a relationship now or sth like that...Otherwise, say that you like him too.
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My friend anita has been kinda of mean lately. we've never had a fight but we've known each other since we were about 7 (i'm 14 now) everytime i ring her to ask her to come out she always has something else to do like clean her room or the living room or something like that. the only time she wants to come out is when she has to go to the shop for school or her parents and i think shes just using me for that because she doesn't like walking to the shop by herself!i don't no what to do! should i try to igore her for a while? should i just ignore the whole thing and carry on with whats going on?please help!
p.s. i rate 5's (link)
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I think that you should talk to her. Tell her:"I think that something is going wrong the last days. I think you ignore me. Do you remember when(tell one of the times she ignored you)?What is going on?I thought we are friends."Remember being calm and patient.
If she will tell you that you are wrong do not tell her anything. If she will continue ignoring you ignore her too and go out with other friends. If not forgive her.
If she will tell you what is going on try to understand her and talk about it with her. Remember!Be calm and understanding!I think that such an old friend deserves a second chance!Good luck!!!
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I'm having a soft-tissue gum graft Thursday on my lower gums. Have any of yall ever had this done. How badly will it hurt, how long should I wait until I should try to eat, can I talk since I'll have stitches in? Please don't say " Go ask your dentist" I asked him and he told me not to be worried. Thats all he said. Thanks guys =] (link)
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Don't worry!I have had this done and that was ok...It was not at all painful.Ok, To be honest only a little bit.Do not eat for four five hours. And of course you can talk!I could!So, i guess your dentist was right!No need to fear!!!
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:/ I just cant get it right.:/ I called the acting audtion person today but she said it was too full.:/ O well... I wasn't ready. Can somebody give me acting advice? I really want to become an actor.:)
~Aaron Leung (link)
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I want to become an actress and i know a wonderful website that answers all questions
www.abwag.com
Perfect one
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OK a bunch of my guy friends have been acting VERY immature and disrespectful lately. They'd lie to me, disrespect me, my friends, some of their friends (who are girls, of course), teachers, etc. They'd tell me one of my best friends are against me, and all my guys friends are against me. Theers this girl i really hate, but my best guy friend would see her staring at him and he'd scream to her "TURN AROUND AND NEVER LOOK AT ME AGAIN! YOUR SO UGLY!" and i'm starting to find all this very disrespectful. Another one of my guy friends also spit on my cousins/best friends head. When she told the principal, the kid said it was "by accident." although after he spit, he ran away with his friend and started laughing without saying sorry or ANYTHING to her.
Me and two of my best friends want to take action and start getting the respect everyone needs from these guys. Does anyone have any ideas to help us start off? thank you! (link)
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Yes...You can do only one thing. BE YOU. If you do not like going out with him or something like that do not do this again. You do not need anyone. If you do not like their behaviour just tell it. At the beggining they will laugh at it or be really surprised but only by doing it you will make things change. The next time they will do sth like this with the cousin go away. Let them alone. Stand up and go somewhere else. Generally make them understand that you do not like their behaviour.If they find you ok and want to go out with you they will stop doing silly things. If not, you do not care. Com'n!They do not deserve it!
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My Friend stayed with me last night and we were so bored out of our minds....there isnt anything to do! Can yall tell me some things to do so next time it wont be so boring? A few things that might help you: we are female, 15 years old...i dont think theres anything else yall NEED to know...please and thank you! (link)
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I am fifteen too and female too. So, i will tell you some things i do with my friend...
#1Talk about boys.What better???Sending atext message to the one you like or just plan how you could make him like you.
#2Plan a party or the next big thing that will make everyone talk about you!
#3If you are alone at home call some other friends. Boys and girls!!!
#4Listen to music and talk about stars and the news in Hollywood.
#5Play sth like truth or dare.Difficult things! Imagine your friend going and kissing a boy she likes? Terrible!
#6 You can read magazines and do some tests. Funny tests and magazines you like. Teen magazines are good...
#7Do whatever you want!!!Plan the next crazy thing you will do or the moment you are there do whatever you think. And say whatever you want. This will help your friendship too!!!
HAVE FUN!!!
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Hey all... i'm 17/f and usually i'm one to dish out advice but in this case i dont know what to do! I met this boy this summer, who lives on Coronado Naval Base in San Diego, and hes going on criuse for the next 9 months. We used to say up until like 3am every day talking to eachother telling each other how much we like each other, and text message all the time, and now that hes leaving i just dont know what to do. Should i forget about him or try and keep in touch with him, and see if we still feel for each other when he comes back? I would appreciate any help because holding myself together when i talk to him, is getting kind of hard because i know he is leaveing so soon. Any advice would be so helpful. thanks :) (link)
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I understand how hard it is but this is not a solution to stop being with him and find someone else. You know why? Because you like him and you want him. If this thing you both feel is love it will last and become even stronger but if it is not you will stop suffering too. You have to do tow things. Firstly, do not tell him to broke up or sth but live every single moment you are with him as it is the last one. Secondly in one month or too 2 things can happen.#1 Stop liking him. If this one, tell him to break up and find someone new and#2 You will still like him. Congratulations. This was love. Continue sending him text messages and call him on the phone. Everything will be better when he will come back...
See it as a test for your relationship! Live it and follow your heart. Do what you want. This will be the right thing!
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(sorry it's so long, but its worth reading.)
There's this guy that I have been madly in love with since like, July 2005. Every damn day I think about him more & more, and I want him more & more everytime I think about him. The thing is, is that he's too old for me, and I will never get him because...*tear* He's David Desrosiers. I know, you think I'm just in puppy love. I don't think so. I have NEVER felt this way EVER! I love him sooo much, I HATE HIM. I've been getting jealous easier, and I've been getting mad at my freinds for talking about guys to me. It makes me feel so bad. ***I am extremely self concious, and I guarentee that I don't have the nicest body. I've been gaining weight really fast, and I don't know if it is because I am in love with someone I'm not supossed to be. Am I depressed? I don't think so, but yeah. My friend came up to me and said to get the fuck over him, and that I looked pregnant in the outfit I was in. She isn't very supportive, and I really love this guy. I don't like his looks as much I I like his point of view, his personality, his usage of words, and little things like that. I appreciate anything I can get, and I appreciate him the most. BUT I CNA'T HAVE HIM :( I rate high! (link)
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Hey, this thing happens to you is something normal and happens to a lot of girls. But you are from the ones that dare to say it.
Sorry for saying it but your friend is an idiot! She is not even a friend. She should support you, not make you feel worse.You should do sth to have much more self confidence. #1 From now on start eating a little bit healthier. #2 Try to start a hobby that you like and a hobby that will make you feel happy. For example dance or volleyball. #3 Stop having friends like her #4Go out more often #5 Smile!!! #6 Think that weird things happen to love and go in the places where he appears(according to the magazines)#7 Try to find someone new#8 To manage the previous one let your big love a little bit and look around #9 If you like, only like someone(outward appearance is enough) find out what type of boy he is and start talk to him more #10 Think about you and the new one and what happens between you tow and what you would like to happen and let the old one!
By doing these things you will manage to like the new boy more than the old one.
P.S. I don't think what happens to you is depression! It is just love! Remember to smile this will help you. Then, look at yourself in the mirror and believe that you are one and unique and you deserve a lot of things! Believe in it, believe in you!!! Kisses!
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who r u? Tell me your fist and last name. (link)
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Oh God! I thought it was a friend of my school who has exactly the same problem and she told me that she would ask for advice here! But it's ok. The advice doesn't change!Remember to make your friend feel important! That is what i told to my friend too.Bye!!!
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I recently started dating a guy Ive had a crush on for some time now. I was exstatic, because I really liked him. Now, Ive known this guy for seven years, and had little crushes on him every now and then, but only recently did it develop into something bigger. The only draw back was he had dated a friend of mine at one point. It lasted about 4 months between them, and she broke it off with him.
Normally I would have confronted her about the fact that I liked him and asked permission. It didnt seem like a big deal anyhow: she broke up with him, has since had other boyfriends (even currently), and it was quite awhile ago. They even broke up on good terms. However, someone managed to tell her before I had a chance (thank you rumour mill) and I was wrong; she was pissed. She claims its because it would be weird for her to "hang out in a group setting." Please take into consideration the last time we hung out was over the summer, over 4 months ago.
My question is this: Is this wrong of me? I have no intentions of breaking it off with him. I dont profess my undying love for him, but we seem really good together, and Id like to pursue it further. So now what? (link)
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Continue being with your bf and try to solve the problem with your friend. You do not need permission from anyone to do something. Life is yours and you can do whatever you want. This friend maybe still likes the guy but you cannot do something now because she did not trust you and she did not tell you that she liked him. Talk to her and explain her that you like him and that you are happy now. Tell her that she is important to you but she has to understand you too. Remind her that the last time you hang out was over the summer and tell her that this boy is really important to you. If she is a good friend she will understand you. She will tell you that she is happy by seeng you happy. I think that your friend is a little bit jealous now. Be calm and honest with her and if she is a good friend she will understand.I am sure! Good luck!!!
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OK so im really good friends with this guy, Michael. I have been for 10 years. whenever i talk to him online, hes nice and sweet and hes really funny. But when i see him in person, like at church or w/e, its like he doesnt even know I'm there. My gramma died a month ago, and he asked his priest to pray for me, and his priest gave him a prayer card to give to me. Tonight at church Michael gave it to me and i was like "Awww thanks!" and he was like "It's not from me, its from my priest." idk .. he was being weird. what do yu think this means? why is he acting like this? (link)
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I do not know if you want to have this answer but i will be honest. The guy likes you! It is sure! When somebody is acting like that he likes you! He is a little bit shy etc. because he is afraid of rejecting him. He is like that because he thinks that you do not like him and he does not want you to understand it. This with the priest is a really good case to understand it! He wants you! And he must be shy! You know what? When some people are face to face with someone they behave a little bit weirdly! These people are shy people. This is how i explain his good behaviour when you too are not face to face... I hope you like him too. It would be grate for tow people like you who know each other for so long to be together! Kisses babe!
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My friend is really cool and stuff but sometimes she can be a huge pain in the butt. She has a lot of boy troubles. She is kind of mean to most boys and will like hit them and stuff. She still likes boys though. She says that no guys like her because she is fat, short, and ugly. Thats not true at all though she is really pretty. Then she says that everyone likes me(which isn't true) and she says that I'm miss prefect because I'm actually nice to guys. It makes me really mad. how do I tell her in a nice way that She is too mean to guys and that if she is nicer to them she might be able to get a boyfriend. I will rate answers! (link)
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Congratulations! You are a really good friend... If the situation is like that you should do something quickly! When you tow will be alone tell her that thing:"You know what i read somewhere? That all others behave to you in the way you behave to them!So, the moment i read it i remembered you. You know what? You are a really beautiful girl and to be honest i am a little bit jeallous but because you are my friend i will tell something to you. If you will start behaving them a little bit more politely they will all like you! And this one you like. I think that boys like polite and sweet girls that is why i try to be like that. They are so weird! To be honest, i like authentic people! But boys are not like us! Will you start being like that too?" I think that she will understand what you mean. Remember that you do that because you are her friend and you really care about her. If something will go wrong tell her that you love her and this is why you said it. For her own good. If she is a real friend she will understand you!
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I don't know what my problem is. I talk to other guys constantly, and hang out with other guys alot. I'm around hott guys every day. Everytime I start to either talk to a guy, like a guy, or kiss a guy..I think about my ex-boyfriend (we broke up a few weeks ago). And it's like I want to call him right that second. Just to see what he's doing, or where he is. Why is this? When will this change? And when will I stop thinking about him when I kiss other guys? Is this normal to think about people while in the process of getting over them? sorry for so many questions at once. But can you please try and answer them all. (link)
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Sweetie,
this thing that happens to you is normal and believe me happens to a lot of other girls too! As you say and i agree, you are in the process of getting over him, you haven't got over him! It is good to go out with other boys and have fun but, if you do not feel that you like them do not kiss them and do not start a relationship with them. In my opinion, what you need now is to forget him. Think that life goes on and remember that you will find a lot of boys in your life. Better than him believe me!!! This thing will change the time you will go out with someone that you really like and when you will do this because you reall want it, not to stop thinking the ex! This will happen soon, do not worry!And something else ! If you want to call him do it! This is not bad! But remember! As a friend not something more!
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There this guy in my gym class and he's a senior and I'm a freshman. Well I kinda like him and when I would see him in the halls I would tell my friends "oh that's the guy I like", but what I also meant was that I want to get to know him. Someone told him that I like him and well yeah he knows I like him and he knows who I am. I want to talk to him but I'm just so shy you know. So I was thinking that maybe I should just start talking to him. This is what I want to say
HEY YOUR ______(HIS NAME)RIGHT?
WELL I'M ______(MY NAME)
I THINK YOU HEARD THAT I SO-CALLED LIKE YOU, AND WHEN I SAID LIKE I MEANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU. ITS NOT THAT I LIKE YOU CUZ TO LIKE SOMEONE YOU NEED TO KNOW THEM AND I DONT KNOW YOU SO I GUESS ITS JUST A CRUSH?
okay hows that sound? any ideas? how should i start cuz i mean what if hes playin basketball or something i cant just walk up to him and just start talking. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!???
PLEASE HELP ME!THANK YOU!!
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Look, you should meet him when he will be alone. Try it but if you always see him with others go there with self confidence and tell him that you want to tell him sth. He comes. Then tell something smart and something that will surprise him. I mean not the usual things! For example smile and tell him"I suppose you know me right?" Or sth like that. You know why? Cause you want a dialogue and you want him to feel comfortably! So, afterwards, tell him that he is one hondsome boy but to like someione means much more. Explain him that you think he is a cute boy etc. but you do not know his personality so when you was saying that you like him you didn't mean it that seriously! Let him answer and if he will say that he understood it tell"Oh, i knew you are not only cute but smart too!" And tell your name. If he will say that he thought sth else tell him that you would like to hang out once and get known better. That would be a great chance for you!
P.S.I it is really important to talk to him and sth else! From now on, do not trust people that easily... Kisses and good luck!
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So I (female and 14)absolutely luv this kid (male and 14). He flirts with me all the time. We go skating every Friday together. He kind of plays hard to get (he goes off and skates with other girls every now and then) but when he isn't he's all over me. We don't kiss or whatever, he just tries to grind w/me and he hugs me a lot. I steal his hat and he lets me wear it every now and then. Everyone says he likes me, but I dont know.
So here's the question:
I'm inviting him to my xmas party. Guys and girls in my friends basement. I want to get him something. Not something big or something that's too forward. I just want to know....what should I get him to hint that I want him to be exclusive with me?????
as much advice as possible. rate 5s!!!! (link)
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You can show him that you like him at your party. There will be music right? He will be there and you will surprise him! Think about a romantic song! A song that tells that you want him only for you and that you really like him. When you hear it go there and whisper"This one is from me to you babe!" Let him listen and then ask him"Do you want to say sth?" I am sure everything will be fine from then on! If you like him you will do it! You need self confidence! Good luck babe!
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recently moved far from where i have lived most of my life. i liked this guy, and he liked me. (i was 15 he was 17.) we told eachother about 3 weeks before i left. we didn't talk too much, i never went out with him or anything and we never did anything. still, i cannot get him out of my head! i'm seriously always thinking about him, and nothing else, just him. and how i want to be with him so bad. we never really talk anymore, except sometimes he'll leave me a comment on my myspace, but that's all. so i guess what im asking is, is this normal? and how can i stop thinking about him constantly, or is this good because i'm in love? i think he might still like me, but i have no idea! please help me. i'm so confused.
XO Jill (link)
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Honey, this thing that happens to you is absolutely normal. This has happened to me too...You like him, he likes you but you cannot live together. It is absolutely normal to think about him because you are in love and when you are in love crazy things happen to you. So, do not worry. I am sure that in a few weeks you will stop thinking about him. Now, if i were you, i would try to find someone i would like more than the previous one. And someone that i will see more often. Go out with friends and have fun. Remember: life goes on! Be self confident, smile and everything will be fine! Good luck!
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Alright, so this is what is going down. I am going to ask this guy out, but the thing is, whenever I go to do it, he does something or calls one of his friends over. I am asking him out because he is incredibly shy and won't do it himself. But here is the other thing, his best friend asked him what he would do if someone, like me, asked him out. He said he would just wing it, but then a couple seconds later he said that he would say yes. I don't get it. I am really confused and a little pissed off, considering I tried to do this three times and each time it fell through. Is he just avioding the question, is he nervous about answering the question or does he just not like me at all? (link)
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Look, you should think about it. How is his behaviour when you are with him? You say that he is shy, but maybe he is the type of guy who believes that the boy asks the girl out...Continue being a friend of him and do not try to ask him out again. Wait a couple of weeks and if he will not ask you out try to find someone new. Imean, you cannot wait him for your whole life! There are so many boys out there!If he will say something to you that means that he likes you. But if not, sorry but he is an idiot and does not understand what a special sweet person you are!
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