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can't get him out of my head!
recently moved far from where i have lived most of my life. i liked this guy, and he liked me. (i was 15 he was 17.) we told eachother about 3 weeks before i left. we didn't talk too much, i never went out with him or anything and we never did anything. still, i cannot get him out of my head! i'm seriously always thinking about him, and nothing else, just him. and how i want to be with him so bad. we never really talk anymore, except sometimes he'll leave me a comment on my myspace, but that's all. so i guess what im asking is, is this normal? and how can i stop thinking about him constantly, or is this good because i'm in love? i think he might still like me, but i have no idea! please help me. i'm so confused.
XO Jill
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Honey, this thing that happens to you is absolutely normal. This has happened to me too...You like him, he likes you but you cannot live together. It is absolutely normal to think about him because you are in love and when you are in love crazy things happen to you. So, do not worry. I am sure that in a few weeks you will stop thinking about him. Now, if i were you, i would try to find someone i would like more than the previous one. And someone that i will see more often. Go out with friends and have fun. Remember: life goes on! Be self confident, smile and everything will be fine! Good luck!
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Love's rough.
It could be love, or maybe just puppy love. There's a huge difference between the two. Trust me, I thought I was in love with my ex-boyfriend.I was just whipped, and I admit that. I thought about him constantly, and I always said too myself "I love him." and it'd make me cry for hours to think that. I think he must have some feelings for you still or he wouldn't have been commenting you. You should try keeping in touch with him by phone, email, letters, anything. Maybe eventually you can start to visit eachother and stuff. Keep him around you, and don't try getting over him unless he doesn't like you back. Chances are, if he's stuck in your heard..he's there for a reason.
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no, silly, you're not in love, and yea it's normal. it's just a crush. sometimes crushes get worse when you don't see someone for a long time, sometimes they go away right away, but eventially they'll be gone either way. seeing him again might help - you might realize that you were mistaken about your feelings and it'll be easier to get over him. if that's not possibe or you don't think that'll help... jusy try going out with other guys, that's all i can advise. maybe you'll get a new crush and forget about the other guy.
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