about

Hii i'm Andy, short for ANDRELLA.I'm 20. Born in LONDON, lived a Sweden, then came to NEW YORK CITY when i was around 14. I love new york, its the best, but i do miss Europe every once in awhile. I speak English, French, and Arabic. I'm 1/4 Swedish, 1/4 Lebanese, and 1/2 Italian. I'm very social and outgoing, i love to go out and have fun. Ask me anything and i'd be glad to help you out.

Xo. Andy.

advice

guys always yell perverted things to me like "you wanna fuck tonight?" or "hey wanna give me head?!" whats some good comebacks that i can say to them?

Ugh thats always creepy. You should probabaly not say anything cuz that will feed them to say more, but i would just laugh or be like "sorry im not desperate".

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i'm thinking about getting bangs, like the straight across ones but i'm not sure if i'd look good with them. and it'a a pretty big change so like do most people look good with them? i have an oval face shape heres a picture http://i128.photobucket.com/albums/p198/hannahisgangsturr/SD532520.jpg
i know it's kinda weird ha but it's the best i have of looking straight at my face..

and heres a picture of the bangs i want
http://i100.photobucket.com/albums/m25/uniquest1/Ashlee%20Simpson/wallpaper1_800.jpg

thanks!

everyone else seems to think they wouldnt suit you but i think they definitely would, keep em light, not thick blunt bangs. Honestly i think they would look really good.But if you dont wanna risk it right away get the side bangs and u can push them over and see what it would look like the other way, then you can decide if you like it.

xo.

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randomgrl- i was talking to the guy that used to be my best friend then we loved eachother and it fell apert and got outa control. i talked for the first time to him in a very very long time atleast the whole summer and he wasnt talking much so i would start random convos then it would go good then bad then good ect. then i had to switch to my other s/n. i told him he said ok. like 5 min later i got on it then he went away then i said im back then he signed off....how can i fix it. there will be alot of parties after 4 of july like 1 every 3 days and in a way i bet he will ignor me or not even go...or might not be able to go their my best friends hosting them. his family is VERY INTO STEREOTYPING and for a long time he wasnt....how do i fix this?

ok so i have recently been in this situation. Basically this kid iwas involved with and i ended real bad and its been so akward, and we avoid eachother so much. So, i did what you did, tried my best to talk in person, or talk online slowly. If i were u just try to act like firends again but make it gradual. you cant force this to go too fast, but over time if u keep in contact then im sure you will build it back up. I doubt that you will continue to have akward contact, but if it takes a very very long time, and you become conserned then you should be honest, and tell him you dont want it to be this way

hope i helped.
xo.

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This may sound SOO televisioness but it's my life and its full of drama Im in florida right now with my family and my grandparents. I came to Florida to get away from all the drama where im from. Well on the way there I have Eric calling me saying he wants me to come back so i was like you have someone. You dont need me. He said he broke up with my best friend, D. Well i hung up on him and called her and she was crying saying its not far how i have 2 boys Josh and Eric that both like me and not one likes her. I said i had no idea he was dumping her and that i never liked Eric and never will. She accepted my apoligy and we came up with an idea to get him back. I apoligied for hanging up on him and he told me he was already in Florida! He told me his grandparents are friends with mine and that he's staying in there cabin thats across the street from mine gradparents. Well when I got there me and him are sharing a room, and im on a lap top right now. Our plan is that im saposed to pretend to like him and have him fall deeply in love with me and then when i get back from summer break kiss Josh (which he will definetly not mind :) and break hi heart like he broke D's. Well so far today rocked! it was the first day that me and eric have been away from my parents and grandparents and we got icecream and built a huge sand castle and i loved it... Eric still has no idea im using him right now but I wanna tell him without losing my friendship with my BFF its so confusing i know but I think i like him.. Ive been here a week with him and im already breaking my best friends heart if she found out that tonight, I wanna sneak out of his grandparents cabin ( that were in alone.) and go swimming with him at like 3 in the morning.. yeahh i already have it all planned :)
my question is how do i kep the guy and teh best friend because i dont want D mad and i couldnt live without Eric.
Help me!!

Your definitely in a difficult situation and hte way i see it there are a ton of situations. What if you just kinda hung out wtih eric for now on and go along with the plan as normal, and then eventually tell your friend that you feel a little guilty for doing it and think you should stop. Try putting it lightly to her at first so tis not a big deal, then see what happens. Take it day by day. In a way its gonna be soo hard to get both of what you want, so good luck, and i hope it works out:)

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sorry if this is really long! ok so im 14 and going to be a freshman in high school. i've liked this one kid for a while, and the past week i thought i finally had a chance. we were at a party and hung out and danced together the entire night. when i had to leave he got said and told me he didnt want me to leave and hugged me. but theres this other girl that he likes, and she likes him too. they were at a different party, and hooked up. but this girl is going to sleep away camp for 6 weeks tomorrow. all my friends are saying he will get over her and start to like me, but i cant bring myself to believe them. he even sends me text messages that talk about how much fun he had at the party with me and how mad he was when i had to leave. all the signs are there, but he likes another girl. i need advice from someone that isn't my friend because sometimes they can say things to just be nice. so like- what do i do!? wait and see what happens this summer, or just get over him!?

i think there is definitely a possibilty that hes into you. Now that you've hung out hes sparked some kind of interest, otherwise i doubt hed be texting you. So defintiely keep in touch and see where it goes, you never no, 6 weeks is a long time, and he might see something better in you. I hope it all works outt!

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I brush my teeth everyday and try to hard to keep them white. I've used trays and whitening toothpaste. I wanted to know of something you have personally used that had good results. I don't want to spend a lot of money on something.

Thanks so much in advance!!

get Crest White Strips. they work so well, and it takes like a week. I'd recomend it to anyone.

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(15/f)
Well the season of summer is almost here, and I have a slight problem. Due to the fact that I'm currently on medication that has weight gain as a side effect, I am now rather pudgy around the edges. I'm working to lose the weight, but in the meantime.. Does anyone have any suggestions for outfits that won't make me look like the Michelin man this summer? Any fabrics or whatever I should be looking for, swimsuit ideas, etc... Thanks ^_^

there are a lot of cute tops u could use, for example, tops that arent tight fitting, but still cute. Ones that are kinda empire wasted and flare outwords

like this:
http://www.anthropologie.com/jump.jsp?itemID=15158&itemType=PRODUCT&iSubCat=1795&iMainCat=8

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I can't figure out some of these log problems. I asked my teacher for help yesterday and she gave me some quick, vague information and i still don't how to do some of them. Oh, and don't tell me to go read my text book, because we don't have one. Does anyone know how to do these?

log9(x + 2)= 0 X=?
oh, and the 9 is actually base 9.

logbase6(x+9) + logbase6 x=2 x=?

anyone know??
thanks.

logbase9(x+2)= 0
9^0=x+2**any number raised to 0 is equal to 1
so, 1=x+2
X=-1

logbase6(x+9)+logbase6x =2

they both have the same base of logbase6, and there being added, so theres a rule that u multiply them

longbase6(x+9)(x)=2
X^2+9x=2
X^2+9x-2=0
factor that
logs suck.

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At first base in my fantasy league, should I have Carlos Delgado or Nomar Garciaparra?

Delgado
Avg HR RBI Runs SB
.265 38 114 89 0

Garciaparra
Avg HR RBI Runs SB
.303 20 93 82 3

delgado

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ok since my last few questions i finaly made up my mind about who i should ask out, but this girl shes realy quiet and the only times i could ak her is going to my home room or PE so my problem is how should i go up toher and ask her?

I say you make those two classes times to talk to her and stuff like that. i would suggest not asking her out in school, i would ask her to hang out with you, maybe like watch a movie in ur basement together or seomthing, then ask her.
Xo

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ok sorry if this is in the wrong categorie


well anyways i bought some red hair dye today, and my mom wont let me put it in.Wich(sp?) im sooooo pissed about.im sooo gunna put it in while shes out, but do you think its the right idea?

ask her again. tell her its something u really want to do. and if she refuses..why not? just do it.

Xo

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i love music that makes you want to dance. & for my myspace, i want a good song that has words and makes you wanna dance. i've already had songs from bands like.

rediscover.
hellogoodbye.
uffie.
alice in videoland.
etc.

so can some people name some good songs and who sings them that make you wanna dance?
thanks.

i love the song "Harder Better Faster Stronger" by daft punk.

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ok 18/m
shes 17
going out 4 months
then she tells me she loves her x
we break up
2 days later she comes back cryin sayin she made a mistake blah blah blah
wants me back blah blah blah
doesnt want him or ne1 else blah blah blah
i ask her if she has even kissed any1 else. she says no
i say ok
we get back together
Then i find out through trusty lil myspace that in those 2 days she fucked a 20 year old and lied about it.
Confronted her. She admited it. Shes crying over it. Shes givin me all the "im so disgusted in myself, i hate myself for it blah blah blah"
i cant take this pain anymore, every time i look at her i break down cuz i picture her and him.
But i also cant walk away from her. I love her.
And i also cant go on a break with her, becuase im to afraid of what she will do if shes not with me cuz i cant trust her whatsoever anymore. HELP

i have been cheated on, and i was so upset, i didnt think i could get over it.But I did and i learned from it. I know you love her and its definitely gonna be hard, but id honestly take a break and see what happens. You cant be afriad that shes with other guys because relationships are bulit on trust. But its your call, and i hope everything works out hun.
Xo

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do girls like average looking, nice guys???

sometimes there the best kind of guy. A good guy is what every girl needs.
Xo

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this girl i realy like ive never raly talked to her before only trough myspace i dont heve her for any classes so i cant realy talked to her then, the only time i see her is after school when sometimes, i talked to one of her freinds who knows i like her shoul i ask her to tell her i like her or what should i do someone please help me

I have definietly been in this situation. I say defintiely let someone no, and see how the girls feels. If you get good feed back it will only motivate u to talk to her more. Girls like it when you approach them in the hallways, or start conversations with them. Also hang out wiht her one on one outside of school, when a guy takes control of the situation and shows interest, girls like it.

Xo

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There's really not a category for my questiion so I appologize in advance. Anyway, I've had freckles on my face for as long as I can remember. As a kid, everybody thought it was cute, including girls, but I didn't want anything to do with them obviously in 2nd grade or whatever. Now that I'm in college, I don't think that people, including myself, really think freckles are cute anymore. I dont have problems with acne, and I'm in pretty good shape. Do any girls out there think that freckles are a cute thing?

ive dated guys with freckles. I think there adorable.
xo

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I wasn't sure which category to put this in so..Ok..Anyways. My friend (a girl) has a boyfriend and I'm single (I'm a guy). So one day we were talking on yahoo and she said she was gonna call me again (We had talked on the phone the past four days in a row.) And before she left she said "Haha, I talk to you more than I talk to my boyfriend." and I wasn't sure on how to respond to that..I don't know if that's a bad thing...Or a good thing..PLEASE HELP!! Thanks in advance.

Dont worry about, that dosnt necessairly mean shes into you. I have defintiely talked to other guys more then my past boyfriends before, its not because id rather talk to other other guys it just means that she considers you a good friend.
Xo

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i am going to an interview because i want to become an actress but i am scared because i dont no who is going to be there and i am frightend that i will throw up or do something humiliating. does any one have experience or advice so i can calm down?

hey i act in new york and stuff and i go on interveiws a lot. YOu just have to be excited for whats coming next, and just make sure you are being yourself. I would suggest smiling and being happy in the room, and show the interveiwer that you are happy to be there. Its hard to calm youself down but i promise half way through the interveiw you will be calm and u will enjoy yourself.

if you need anymore help/advice just drop any questions off in my inbox!!

SK8rgurl**

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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


=)

aw well, the fact tht you want to be sweet is sweet. Anyways, just do things for her, show her that you care. I like to talk to my boyfriend's online, and texting her sometimes will also show her your thinking about her and thats really sweet. hanging out might be a good idea, but dont do it like everyday. When you guys get together make it special!! being sweet comes naturally, so good luck!!

***sk8rgurl

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i'm in a band, and i'm not bragging or anything but we are quite good. we've been together for like 2 years and have played loadsa gigs (and won a battle of the bands competition recently :p) we've got a demo cd and evrything so how the hell do we go about "getting signed" because i'm hearing of other local bands that get signed ie to sony for £400,000 to go record an album. so does anybody know how we'd go about doing this? i will rate high if your helpful :p PLEASE help me.

alex x

i would look for talent agents online. Look for one near u and call them and see if they will hear u play. it is the most direct way to get signed!!

Hope i helped!!

sk8rgurl!!!

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