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a great guy i love or my bff
This may sound SOO televisioness but it's my life and its full of drama Im in florida right now with my family and my grandparents. I came to Florida to get away from all the drama where im from. Well on the way there I have Eric calling me saying he wants me to come back so i was like you have someone. You dont need me. He said he broke up with my best friend, D. Well i hung up on him and called her and she was crying saying its not far how i have 2 boys Josh and Eric that both like me and not one likes her. I said i had no idea he was dumping her and that i never liked Eric and never will. She accepted my apoligy and we came up with an idea to get him back. I apoligied for hanging up on him and he told me he was already in Florida! He told me his grandparents are friends with mine and that he's staying in there cabin thats across the street from mine gradparents. Well when I got there me and him are sharing a room, and im on a lap top right now. Our plan is that im saposed to pretend to like him and have him fall deeply in love with me and then when i get back from summer break kiss Josh (which he will definetly not mind :) and break hi heart like he broke D's. Well so far today rocked! it was the first day that me and eric have been away from my parents and grandparents and we got icecream and built a huge sand castle and i loved it... Eric still has no idea im using him right now but I wanna tell him without losing my friendship with my BFF its so confusing i know but I think i like him.. Ive been here a week with him and im already breaking my best friends heart if she found out that tonight, I wanna sneak out of his grandparents cabin ( that were in alone.) and go swimming with him at like 3 in the morning.. yeahh i already have it all planned :)
my question is how do i kep the guy and teh best friend because i dont want D mad and i couldnt live without Eric.
Help me!!
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Your definitely in a difficult situation and hte way i see it there are a ton of situations. What if you just kinda hung out wtih eric for now on and go along with the plan as normal, and then eventually tell your friend that you feel a little guilty for doing it and think you should stop. Try putting it lightly to her at first so tis not a big deal, then see what happens. Take it day by day. In a way its gonna be soo hard to get both of what you want, so good luck, and i hope it works out:)
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Well your gonna have to live without him.
What is more important to you, your friendship or a boy?
Boys come and go but friends are forever.
What if he end up ;eaving you like he left her? Then your going to fell like an ass for sacrificing your friendship for this boy.
Its an unwritten rule it goes like this:
Friends/family dont date friends/family exes.
Its just stupid and wrong.
AND by the way your plan, yea its backfiring. And before you even said you liked him I knew it was going to come down to that.
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First of all your friendship witht this girl is way more important that a guy. "Guys come and go, but friends are forever." Its hard when you start to have feelings and i understand that, but is he really more important than how your friend feels? Using him is definatley not the right way to go. I mean I would do anything for my friends, but using him just makes you sink to a lower level. If your feelings still develop then you should go to your friend, and explain it all.
Best of luck =]
Brooke
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Hey, well you need to tell your friend straight out that you dont want to do that to eric because its not right. Yeah, its unfortunate that he did that to her, but it doesnt make it right for you to do to him, especially since he didnt do anything to you. Its also a bitchy thing to like him as soon as he breaks up wiht your BEST FRIEND. You need to give it time, but tell her that you will probably be close friends with eric because your spending so much time together up there. It might hurt her at first, but she has the right to know. Leave out the part that yuo like him tho, wait until you return from there, than explain your troubles with how you like eric. If shes a true friend, she`ll understand and not want you to miss out on an oppurtinty on a relationship, even if its with her ex.
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