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i talked to my ?bff? earlier since forever and hes gone now
randomgrl- i was talking to the guy that used to be my best friend then we loved eachother and it fell apert and got outa control. i talked for the first time to him in a very very long time atleast the whole summer and he wasnt talking much so i would start random convos then it would go good then bad then good ect. then i had to switch to my other s/n. i told him he said ok. like 5 min later i got on it then he went away then i said im back then he signed off....how can i fix it. there will be alot of parties after 4 of july like 1 every 3 days and in a way i bet he will ignor me or not even go...or might not be able to go their my best friends hosting them. his family is VERY INTO STEREOTYPING and for a long time he wasnt....how do i fix this?
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ok so i have recently been in this situation. Basically this kid iwas involved with and i ended real bad and its been so akward, and we avoid eachother so much. So, i did what you did, tried my best to talk in person, or talk online slowly. If i were u just try to act like firends again but make it gradual. you cant force this to go too fast, but over time if u keep in contact then im sure you will build it back up. I doubt that you will continue to have akward contact, but if it takes a very very long time, and you become conserned then you should be honest, and tell him you dont want it to be this way
hope i helped.
xo.
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You've already made the first step in trying to talk to him. It's always hard trying to re connect a torn friendship but in this case, i think you should let go. Thats probably not what you wanted to hear but i think he's become uncomfortable talking to you because of what happened and you should just accept that and move on. You can try to talk to him more or at the parties but don't become persistant, he'll just end up being annoyed. It was a good friendship while it lasted but it's time to move on. If he doesn't want to try to be friends again, it's his loss, and later down the track he's gonna realise what a great friend you were. It's upsetting to lose a friend but you should move on. Im sorry about your friend though. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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