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Ok well my boyfriend just broke up with me yesturday and we went out for like a week and 2 days or so and like idk hes cheated on almost all of his girlfriends and he told me that we should just be friends for right now because we will barely get to see or talk to eachother because of his work and summer school and stuff but maybe we can pick it back up when hes done with all of that and then he said how like believe i like you alot and alot of people know i do and stuff but like idk before he asked me out he was going out with this other girl and i was talking to him online today about how my crazy ex won't stop calling me and he said he would like beat him up and stuff and then i asked him if his ex still called him alot and he said nope but shes right here...and i dont' know he always talked about how much he hated her and stuff but now shes over at his house and then i was like oh are you guys going back out or just hanging out and then he didn't answer and like 2 minutes later he got off line....do you think hes going back out with her? it makes me soo mad though! pleasee help me!
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It's impossible to say whether he's going back out with her or not, but if he's at all worth your time, then he isn't. It would be a pretty jerk-like move to start going out with her right after he broke up with you.
He was probably just annoyed that you were asking him about it, especially right in front of her. Not that he has any reason to be, it's just that if a guys a player like that theye don't typically like feeling like someone is keeping tabs on their love life. I've dated many, and I know where your coming from. It's the most frustrating thing in the world sometimes.
As for saying that he hated her... I had the exact same situation with an ex-boyfriend. Guys like that just tell you what you want to hear, and when they say that they hate an ex-girlfriend, it's kinda like their going on the deffensive. That's always a red flag to me that says "I don't hate her, I was upset when we brooke up, and while I like you more than I like her, I would still hook up with her if we weren't going out"
It sounds like this guy just wants some time to be single and mess around with other girls. He probably misses his old ways. But sooner or later, he'll realize that he actually wants a relationship (they always do) and he'll come crawling back. Until then, don't call him or talk to him unless he calls you. Do what he's doing... play the field. It will make him jealous and make him miss you that much more.
Good Luck girl ;-)
Sarah
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