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my friend i've known sense i was 9 and he was 16, bumped into each other like 4 months ago. his family spoils me rottin and they treat me as their owin (i mean i've known them sense i was 9). My mom knows he's way older than me but she feels as if he is her son. But wat neither of our parents know is, we have been talking to each other more and more each night, i walk 2 blocks away from my house so he can pick me up and take me to school. During my lunch time he brings me food, and after school he lets me drive his car (i'm praticeing for my linces)he basicly does whtever i ask him to do. its not about sex with him, because if it it was he wold've left me alone a month and a 1/2 ago.
But 2 days ago we were playing a game (21 questions) and out of no where he tells me he wants to be with me FOREVER. then tonight on the phone he tells me AGAIN, he said he would get me a place to stay, help me get a part time job, (he already has a full time job, that pays good)and anything i need he's got it covered. But its the whole FOREVER thing that makes my skin crawl... i'm not sure where my feelings are with him, but i know i like being around him. i know he's serious about "FOREVER" too, but i don't know what to do.
can you give me advice please... i'm confused. (link)
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its sweet hes said forever.but you know that things may not always go as planned.i mean dont let the word forever scare you because you maybe together and find out its just not working.you need to just think carefully about what you wnat because once your with him and maybe break up your friendship may never be the same again.if you dont fele the same way then let him know because if you dont he might think you do and try something and you maqy reject him and hell be even more hurt.just think carefully and i mean dont worry about the forever thing because who knows,you maybe together and you may end up wanting him forever in the end
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Hi , I was wondering what happens if you do not have sex or masturbate for a long a period ? is it unhealthy for the sexual organs ? like make them inert or inactive or something ? (link)
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depending if your a male or female.if your male it really isnt good for you.you can become sterile but also if your female as well as male i guess youd become sexually frustrated
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I go back 3 years ago me and Elvia were really good friends.then my 7th grade came and she met a girl name Marissa, they became best friends and things between them went from good to fighting every week she always came to me and told me what happen and what she should do i told her to just stop being friends like every week and she always did the opposite thing like now. A year pass it was new years and the hole time i spend talking to her.After that day weeks past and a month or two pass and didnt talk and it wasnt normal cause we would text every single day.Then one day she gave me a note in school that said she was really sorry for not being here for me and i forgived her.Then again a month went by and she texted me and i didnt reply because i was mad because i just felt like she just wanted to use me for when she needed help with her best friend,then the next day i texted her back and i told her i was mad at her and thats why i didnt text her back but i told her i was playig but i really wasnt then she said i dont believe you and i said ok i dont believe anything you say and she got mad.It has been 3 weeks and i always see her in school and we always look at eachother and just walk away,i really miss her cause even though she has a best friend that hates me i think as her as my best friend and i dont know if i should just move on or talk to her.Please help me. (link)
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friends always fight its how it is.it also doesnt help when she has a best friend thats manipulating her and probably telling her things that causes her to ignore you.
if you think shes your best friend and really miss her then you should be the bigger person and apologise.it doesnt matter who made who angry or who started it.you should just apologise and go back to being friends.just ignore her best friend and dont say anything bad about that girl just incase your friend goes back and tells her what you say about that girl.try and make friends with her best friend and just be nice to her too so that she can realise that shes wrong for thinking your a bad person :)
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I am an 18 year old senior in high school and am finding that it's hard to "let loose" and let my personality be out in the open (versus when being with very good friends); it's all very controlled. I am the shy type who is not that popular, but there is a girl (who is a bit up there on the social ladder) who has been showing interest in me, which she expresses in subtle ways. However, when I am shy or can't think of anything to say (so the consequence would be saying something dumb), any response to her seems to be a turn-off right away, while when I'm confident and feeling "in the zone" (when I sort of forget where I am and who I'm talking to), things really seem to be going really well. I really want to get over this however as I'm way more shy than outgoing, any help? This has been a problem for most of my life in social situations. Being purposely confident and outgoing have backfired (as it's forced and basically acted out), however I can't express my personality when I am shy as well... (link)
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awwww thats soo cute!shy guys are so cute!
to be honest theres this boy that i kinda like but hes soo shy tooo and when we talk hes quiet and isnt so out there so it makes me shy and i start saying dumb things lol
dont worry its normal and actually hard to get over because you dont mean to do it.i really think you should try and talk to her more.firstly let her know that your shy but you think shes a cool her and would like to get to know her more.Another good way to show that your a cool guy is by txting her.ask for her number and get to know her through txts that way she can see how you really are.have short conversations with her so that theres less awkward quiet moments.talk on the phone and try to think of anything to talk about.favoyurite colour,beaches,family,just anything that will help you make conversation.then once your alittle more use to her ask her to hang out just you two.that way you know her and she knows you so she wont feel like you dont want to talk to her.when you hang out ofcourse at the start itll be awkward and weird but try and just ask questions.lots of questions and just listen to what she talks about that way shes doing mast the talking and your listening (to kill time so that you can get use to her and be less shy)
just be yourself and if it takes you a few shy moments for you to loosen up then i think she should stick it up because im sure your a lovely guy :)
hope this helped
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hey,
I sometimes get odourless yellow vaginal discharge.. Not always. Its kinda random and occurs for maybe a few days at a time and them returns to the usual odourless white discharge.
And when I eat mayonaise, my discharge gets a little thicker and smells like mayonaise.. Is that normal? That and the random yellow discharge.
Im 18 and not a virgin. I dont have any itching or pain at my vagina, or any bumps.. If that helps.
Thank you. (link)
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discharge can be normal its another way your body is getting rid of any unnessesaties in your body.id probably go to the dotor because if could be a beginning of an STD ut i cnt be sure.the doctor needs to have a proper look at it.but discharge is normal but if its yellow then i dont think it is
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Whenever me and my boyfriend make out i just lay on top of him and he just touchs my vagina but doesnt finger me.
What are somem stuff to do? like moving around? or what can i do to him? (link)
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touch him back...if hes touching your vagina then repay the favour by touching him.dont just lie there like roll over on top of him and sit on top of him while he lies there.maybe even push him against the wall
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What do you do when a guy is kisisng your neck/ giving you a hickey. (link)
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rub his chest or face dont just sit there touch him back to show u like it
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well i feel like i shouldnt need any advice on what i should do for my baby of 2 years who i love deeply!!!! (link)
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what about a ring ingraved?with like the date you both started going out??
ummmm probably buy him something that will last him forever.like something that wont get wrecked through time.
or a watch with an ingraving??
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well i always line my top and bottom lashlines, and try to do my bottom rims with pencil. the pencil barely shows up on my rims and ive heard that its supposed to be the best choice for lining rims. also, in the morning before school and stuff, my eyes usually look pretty good, but my mid-day like half of my eye liner is gone. i dont rub my eyes or anything, unless my liner has smeared into my eye. do you have any tips for me on how i can make this any better? (link)
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buy a good eyeliner that wont smudge. clinique is good. the eye liner on your rims goes because your blinking and it gets rubbed off when you blink.carry your eye liner with you and just keep reapplying it when you can.its very common so just when your at the toilets reapply it.carry it around in your pocket :)
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I dyed my hair and it turned out really dark. I don't have the money to go and get it fixed anytime soon, so are there any specific hair products at the store that you've used and work really good? I just need to lighten it up some. (link)
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im not sure that there are any hair products like that but the more you wash it the more it will lighten it.id say give it 3 washes and it should lighten up.use a lot of shampoo and that will help too
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okay, heres the story. i was going out with this guy for well over a year, he didnt put any effort into seeing me though and he hardly talked. he would be rude to me and treat me like shit. when we were together we'd have the best time though. a few days ago i told him i just wanted to stay friends with him. we both cried a little but he didnt say anything. nothing at all. when i asked what he thought he'd just say 'nothing really' or 'just wondering why you're crying'. the other day i spoke to his friend, he said 'i heard you and sam broke up' when i asked how sam was doing his friend replied with 'yeah he seems good, he says its better you are friends'. i want to know why sam cant tell me that though. he just says he doesnt really know. if he likes it better just as friends why wont he tell me! its driving me insane not knowing what he wants or thinks :( i talked to him again today, he was a bit rude to me. its like he suddenly doesnt give a fuck about me, i know i dumped him but if he's got a problem with just being friends why cant he say? i just need some ideas of what people think is going on. (link)
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oh man!!!he sounds like an ass no ofence.I mean if he cant treat you right then he doesnt deserve you to begin with.the fact that he didnt fight to have you back or try telling you hell change etc is scarey.i mean he just took the dump and had nothing to say about it.I think you should give him space and try and win back the power.at the moment hes got the power because hes not comunicating with you and doesnt feel bad about anything etc while your being hurt by him and really frustraqted.you need to give him space to give him time to miss you.if he doesnt want to talk to you about his feelings then just try to let it go.hes not going to try no and who knows why hes blocked you out but since your not together anymore its not your problem.try to keep busy to make the time pass by.dont txt him just let him go and wait.if he doesnt come back then thats the answer you need.
im sorry you must be going through hell!
im here if you need someone to listen.keep me updated and stay strong
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Ive had my ears pierced for a few years. And recently ive been wearing these new stud earrings. Well apparently the back of my earring was closed to tight, so my ear got infected. I took the back off, but i cant pull the earring out of my ear. The end is stuck inside my ear, what am i supposed to do? (link)
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ouchh you poor thing!that happened to me when i was little.the way i got it out was having somone with long nail just grab the earring with their nails.it might hurt alittle and it will bleed so be prepared for that.if you dont like that idea,go to the emergency room
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I got my period near the end of 2008-so I've had it for almost 2 years now
15/f
It never bothered before, but lately I've been noticing some slightly concerning things about my period...
-My period is NEVER regular. I've gone months apart without having a period. I don't think I've had my period in quite awhile. It just skips around randomly... Some times I'll go two months apart and then have another period a week after that one is finished.
-I wear a pantyliner everyday...Not just for odor though. For some reason, (and this is going to sound gross...) I always get sticky, clear, odd-smelling discharge in my underwear. I also sweat a lot down there...unfortunately.
-Also, when I AM on my period, it seems rather normal. It lasts anywhere from 3-8 days (never gone longer or shorter, I don't think) and it's a pretty normal flow.
-Sometimes, I'll get very light, very quick periods, very soon after i have a more normal one. I'm not sure why that is...
Anyways...should I be very concerned?
Is there any way I can treat this, if I need to at all, without assistance from a doctor? Of course, if it is highly advised to see a doctor, I certainly will.
On the topic of a doctor-what should I tell them questions should I ask if I need to do so?
Thank you so much, any help is appreciated. (link)
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you shouldnt be worried at all.when your younger your period takes years to really regulate.if your 19 and your period is still irregular then you should go see a doctor but at the moment its still getting into routine.
the discharge is normal and the odour is probably because of the hair down there.if you wax or shave or remove it then the odor will go away.there are also unscented soaps and deoderants for down there too.check in the idle where you but your pads from.
to me everything sounds normal.unles theres itching,lumps,redness etc then i wouldnt be worried
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It started almost three years ago. I went to the doctors for an itchy problem that was not going away. As it turned out, I had trich. The doctor stated someone has been messing around. I asked him that my husbands ex had it in 1993, was it possible it had stayed dormant before it infected me? He didn"t answer. Then last Oct, I had a pap smear, it came normal, with the HPV virus too. I was terrified! Since vfinding this oput, I've lost interest in sex. I"m too afraid of catching anything. Since Oct, we have had sex 5 times. Am I wrong to feel this way? (link)
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oh no!i really do think you need to talk to your husband.i would also be asking questions if it was me and become alittle suspecious.
I really do think that a healthy relationship needs sex.im scared that if you dont have sex with your husband he will try find it somewhere else.dont be afraid of having sex because really theres a risk in doing anything and everything.if you dont have sex then you may loose your husband.if you do then hell be happy but you may not be.just think about what risk you want to take and who you want to please.
i think your husband should go get an STD test done before anything.if he loves you then hell be willing to do it.
i hope everything turns out for the best
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Ok, so I have only ever had 2 close friends, one of them moved to Switzerland, and the other I have recently separated from (see my other question). I have other more mutual friends that i try to be close with, but it always seems like i am trying harder than them. I will invite someone over to my house, but they never return an invitation. They invite me to parties and stuff but if i didn't ever invite people over i would only hang out with them outside of school maybe once a month, and it is usually the same person. That is a good friend of mine but she is almost always with two other girls that she is very close with, i know i could hang out with them but their interests are completely different from mine, also they never actually invite me themselves, it seems that pretty much the only time people invite me places is if there is a large group. Is this my fault? I have never done anything to make these girls not like me, so i don't know why they act like this. Also, whenever i make a new friend they start hanging out with my other friends and end up liking my other friends more than me, and vice versa, what should i do about this problem?
Thanks!
Molly (link)
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ohhh i remember those days!remember friends come and go and as you get older youll realise that people change and so will you. well all mature and grow older and our prefrences in friends will become different.
you need to stop thinking so much about the situation,stop being jealous even if you think your not you are.just be yourself and mingle with everyone not just one group.be nice to everyone and you will grow on them.frienship takes time.just go out where ever they invite you.i mean if they invite you to parties it must mean they like you.dont worry about them not getting back to your invitation.dont hold a grudge because some people tend to forget or if they cant go out they dont tell you.its how they are and to get through this life theres somethings you need to just suck up.sorry if this is harsh but this is just soemthing your going to just have to get use to and just be nicer than them.be better than them and get to know everyone
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are penises and balls naturally hairy? I've had sex with a few guys and i've never seen any hair on them and i think it would be painful to shave... but someone told me that they did have hair haha. (link)
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not the penis but yes the balls and around the penis area
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I want to know what stores i can but breast binders from, not the small ones they sell at drug stores though. (link)
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http://images.google.co.nz/imgres?imgurl=http://www.t-kingdom.com/images/490_220.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.t-kingdom.com/shopping/english/page490_english.shtml&usg=__-ngamWbYIlUhXaZzPySsDgyURFM=&h=331&w=220&sz=25&hl=en&start=6&um=1&itbs=1&tbnid=36urgarrZdm6GM:&tbnh=119&tbnw=79&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dbreast%2Bbinder%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN%26rlz%3D1R2RNTN_enNZ370%26tbs%3Disch:1
or cotton on body
or any sports store
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As the years have gone on I've noticed that my left foot is larger than my right foot. When I was younger it didn't seem to be that much of a problem but now I can feel that shoe being too small while the right shoe fits just right. I don't know if I should be seeing a doctor about this because I'm afraid it's some sort of freakish deformity (and I just don't know about going through surgery). I haven't said anything to my mom about it either.
How should I go about buying shoes now that I've noticed this problem? Two shoes of the same size is simply not going to cut it because I get blisters and raw spots on my left foot now. I'm afraid if I wear a size too large on my rgith foot that the same problem will happen with it and leave ugly marks. Please, help me figure this out! (link)
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its completely normal!my left foot is larger than my right foot too. im sorry but your going to just have to live like thia.you can get someone to stretch you shoes like get your dad to squeeze his feet in them thats what i do and it helps but only sometimes. sooner or later the shoe should stretch out,just wear socks for the first couple of wears or even just stokings so that your feet dont get blisters or scaring.
go to Athletes Foot theyr the best place to buy sports shoes and theyl measure your feet and everything.
another thing you can try is getting the insoles put in one of your shoes to make your right shoe smaller if you decide to buy a bigger size...
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18-female. i've always had feelings for my good friend but never implemented i wanted to go further because i knew it would just make our friendship more complicated. i just don't even know if he's the "good friend" i thought he was, but then when i think about it i have doubts..
we go to different schools. he's best friends with my guy cousin - they go to the same school. recently my grandma passed away (also my cousins grandma) and i know my cousin told the guy that she did and he told my friend she was in a better place blah blah .. but the thing is he never once called or even texted me to see how i was doing or to even say sorry to me about my grandma. to me, that doesn't seem like a good friend. although he talked to my cousin, he couldn't bother also talking to me about it? if his grandma were to pass away the least i would do would text him saying hey sorry to hear about your grandma, always here for you or something like that.
what do you guys think? am i overreacting about this or do you really think he's not being a good friend.. (link)
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it depends really...has he always been there for you?i think you need to weight out the good and bad points instead of just thinking of one thing.it may have no occured to him that you could be hurting too. he may have forgot to let you know hes there for you.like my guy friend he has a thing about death and just doeant like talking about it.he tries to avoid it as much as possible so that could be a factor. I understand where your coming from.if this means so much to you for him to be there for you then it could be an indication for you to not go there.i dont know him well enough to judge but has he been there for you every other time youv needed him?have you been there for him?
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There's this girl at school(we'll just call her K) and I love her, no not I have a crush on her, but love. Recently, I told her I loved her by following her advice, but messed up horribly(if you would like to know how, you can e-mail me at bcelaya12@gmail.com) and so now I thought maybe I could try again, but this time do it right. So this is how I'm going to tell her.....:
First I will say, "Hey K, can we talk really quick?" then she will reply how ever she pleases. Next, I will look into her eyes and say, " K H(representing her first and last names), I love you." Then it will either be, we become boyfriend and girlfriend, or I will break off our relationship for good. Is there anything I need to do differently or anything I need to add?
Thanks in advance!
-musicissoul301
And if you have any questions about anything I just said, my e-mail is somewhere in there, just find it and e-mail me. (link)
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yeah i agree...dont say can we talk really quick. im really iffy about the idea of you telling her you love her.it may scare her away.i think you should start small and work your way up.so first ask her out on a date and get to know her.tell her that you like her alot instead of saying the L word.give her time to love you back.
next time yyou see her i think you should say hey K,i was wondering what you were upto on saturday.. do you wnat to go to the movies with me...something along those lines...remember start small and work your way up
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