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my friendship is all wrong now tell me what you think about this...
I go back 3 years ago me and Elvia were really good friends.then my 7th grade came and she met a girl name Marissa, they became best friends and things between them went from good to fighting every week she always came to me and told me what happen and what she should do i told her to just stop being friends like every week and she always did the opposite thing like now. A year pass it was new years and the hole time i spend talking to her.After that day weeks past and a month or two pass and didnt talk and it wasnt normal cause we would text every single day.Then one day she gave me a note in school that said she was really sorry for not being here for me and i forgived her.Then again a month went by and she texted me and i didnt reply because i was mad because i just felt like she just wanted to use me for when she needed help with her best friend,then the next day i texted her back and i told her i was mad at her and thats why i didnt text her back but i told her i was playig but i really wasnt then she said i dont believe you and i said ok i dont believe anything you say and she got mad.It has been 3 weeks and i always see her in school and we always look at eachother and just walk away,i really miss her cause even though she has a best friend that hates me i think as her as my best friend and i dont know if i should just move on or talk to her.Please help me.
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everyone goes through the problems with there best friend. My best friend didn't used to think of me as her best friend and it hurt really bad. I found myself not wanting to hang around with them because i was jealous. Since you feel she is your best friend hang in there because i can tell she means a lot to you. If you want to test and make sure you can buy a necklace of a braclet the kind that has best friends on it and give her one and see how she reacts. Tell her that you don't want the whole texting thing to ruin your friendship. Tell her that you know that her and marissa are best friends but you want to be her friend to. Tell her that your friendship means a lot to you and that you want to leave the past in the past. Try hanging ot with her and Marissa even though you don't like marissa it will show her that you are willing to sacrifice and comit. I would also strongly suggest to find a few other friends to hang with so you wont be all alone. good luck.
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friends always fight its how it is.it also doesnt help when she has a best friend thats manipulating her and probably telling her things that causes her to ignore you.
if you think shes your best friend and really miss her then you should be the bigger person and apologise.it doesnt matter who made who angry or who started it.you should just apologise and go back to being friends.just ignore her best friend and dont say anything bad about that girl just incase your friend goes back and tells her what you say about that girl.try and make friends with her best friend and just be nice to her too so that she can realise that shes wrong for thinking your a bad person :)
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