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Am I the problem?
13/f
Ok, so I have only ever had 2 close friends, one of them moved to Switzerland, and the other I have recently separated from (see my other question). I have other more mutual friends that i try to be close with, but it always seems like i am trying harder than them. I will invite someone over to my house, but they never return an invitation. They invite me to parties and stuff but if i didn't ever invite people over i would only hang out with them outside of school maybe once a month, and it is usually the same person. That is a good friend of mine but she is almost always with two other girls that she is very close with, i know i could hang out with them but their interests are completely different from mine, also they never actually invite me themselves, it seems that pretty much the only time people invite me places is if there is a large group. Is this my fault? I have never done anything to make these girls not like me, so i don't know why they act like this. Also, whenever i make a new friend they start hanging out with my other friends and end up liking my other friends more than me, and vice versa, what should i do about this problem?
Thanks!
Molly
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ohhh i remember those days!remember friends come and go and as you get older youll realise that people change and so will you. well all mature and grow older and our prefrences in friends will become different.
you need to stop thinking so much about the situation,stop being jealous even if you think your not you are.just be yourself and mingle with everyone not just one group.be nice to everyone and you will grow on them.frienship takes time.just go out where ever they invite you.i mean if they invite you to parties it must mean they like you.dont worry about them not getting back to your invitation.dont hold a grudge because some people tend to forget or if they cant go out they dont tell you.its how they are and to get through this life theres somethings you need to just suck up.sorry if this is harsh but this is just soemthing your going to just have to get use to and just be nicer than them.be better than them and get to know everyone
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