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my friends tell me i give good advice,i hope i can help somebody.
i've been more than you think for a 14 year old.
"never judge a book by its cover,inside on those pages could be the best love story in the world"- lea ellen
advice
for the girls
do u think boys that have long hair are hotter than boys than short hair
SHORT HAIR ONLY!!! i have hair past my knees, so i want my boyfriend to have SHORT hair.
Yes Pills. Me and My two closest friends pop in and outta school. Cough Drops are all we take though. And yes its wrong but we actually are sick and use them just a little more than the suggested dose. I probably take 20 a day for the past week. Is this harmful and should we stop?
heck yeah!! it is harmful and you should stop!!all that sugar could hurt your symtem and its possible to even get diabetes..so
!!STOP!!
My bff Ashlyn, like this guy Tanner. Secretley I like him too but I haven't told her that yet. Well Tanner is been flirting with me ALOT latley and invited me to the movies. I told him, that I like him, but I don't want to hurt Ashlyn's feelings, he said he respected my descion since I've known Ashlyn longer and that he'd wait for me, cause he really likes me. I don't know what to do. I don't know how Ashlyn will react if I tell her I like him and he likes me too. What should I do. I really like him, but I love her too, shes my best friend. xox i`ll rate.
tell her, cause if she finds out from a rumor.. it will not be good. you might lose her as a best friend, instead of her just being mad at you for a day or two.
trust me, if she's a real best friend, then she will be happy for you and "tanner". if she can't exept the fact that the two of you are together.. thats her problem not yours.
hope i helpd.
theres a boy whos 3½ years older than me and we both like eachother a lot and we want to go out and stuff. hes scared tho because we are against
the law and idk what to say to make him feel better. any suggestions?
tell him that its only against the law if you have sex. so.. either just dont have sex.. or dont let any adults (especially the ones that dont like him) know that you are having sex. cause they could press charges. but if ya'll arent going to have sex, its perfectly fine
to go out with each other.
this may seem weird. but i thik that i am semi depressed. i went on a website to learn more about depression and saw the symtoms and i had alot of them. lately i have been feeling really lonely and left out with friends also ive been experiancing guy issues so that may be it. but i dont nkow what to do
you can tell your parents, and go to the doctor. you can go to the school pyschologist or counselor, or you could keep a xanga or myspace or an online, or offline journal. it really helps me. if you need someone to talk to, you can im me any time i'm on (my sn is on my column)
hope i helpd
hey i am 13 and i waz just wunderin how do u exactly dry a bra i rate well real well so...plz help me
you can hang it up or put it in the dryer.
~hope it helpd!
Hi, I am going to try out for soft ball, any tips? What can I do to prepare? What should I wear? What should I take?
wear something you can move in, start working out so you arent terribly sore or tear something.. and take your equipment that you have.
is there a way you can make your shirts tighter as in shrinking them to fit?
put em in the dryer, (cotton shrinks the best!)
hope i helpd
Well heres my problem theres this one guy lets call him Joe. Well i've known Joe since like the 7th grade (im in 10th grade now) and i've always had a huge crush on him! it sux. well i think he knows and he's always like hinting at me that he likes me too. But, i dont want to get attached or become his girlfriend (he's asked me before) because he's got a rep of breaking girls hearts. But, i cant get him outta my head and i wanna get over him. but its so hard! what can i do to get over him? or should i go out with him and see what happens? but i dont want to get my heart broken i've been through it a lot. someone plz help
definitly go out with him. give him a chance. maybe he likes you enough not to break your heart. plus.. what if he is "the one" and you didnt think to give him a chance.. and he slips away.
Is it just me or is Ryan Quentn(home and away,summerland)absolutely gorgeous!!!!!
no hes definitly gorgeious...
Help! I have writers block! doesn anyone have ideas for new poems for me? * ill rate 5's! **
hmmm lets see... i usually write about love, and hope or school and how, in a way, we arent more than just faces in desks. i've learned simple stuff sounds the best.
"how are you so perfect? so wonderful to me? how do you know exactly what to say to make me melt into the palm of your hand. how are you exactly what i want, and perfectly what i need? you are my shoulder to lean on, and the sleeve to wipe my tears away on. you are my pillow at night and are constantly on my mind. i want you with me every second of every day. i want to be able to comfort you the way that you need me to, but i am barely too far out of your reach to do so."
theres an example of one of mine... it isnt one of my best... but i hope its a decent example..
right about what you want to happen, like a boy sweeping you off your feet to tell you he loves you with all his heart and he couldnt spend another day without telling you that he wants to be with you forever.. well... i hope it helpd... actually that kind of inspired me to write another one.
I'm 13/f and i have strech markd on my thieghs and weigh 113 lbs so am i fat and if so what are some tips to get trim.
no you are perfectly normal. you are not in any way fat. and just for your knowledge... wether or not your fat totally depends on your body type. but you sound perfectly fine
there is this girl that i've liked since 2nd grade and i like her even more.i am now in 9th grade and i think she is the one but i am afraid to ask her out because i am afraid she will say no. so what should i do?i am a male.
are you friends with her? if she is the one for you then dont let her slip away, i personally think its waay romantic when a boy asks me how i feel about him. but like some girls, find it a real turn off when a boy sends one of his friends over to ask me, so make sure you dont do that! you may get the girl embarrassed or some rumor might get started about you two and that wounldnt be good
I have been going out with a guy i've liked forever as of yesterday. He is already saying I love you and I said it back. Are we both just saying it or what?
do you really love him? you may just love the idea of him. loving someone is a big step so you might want to take it a little slower than that. it kinda sounds like yall are just saying it to say it..
well i want a thong really badly but the last time i asked my mom when i could get one she said when i was 15! i think it's really unfair, i could have got one with my friend in fl but i know if my mom found out that i did she would have freaked! my friend got five behind her mom's back but i couldn't should i buy some or should i ask her again?
signed
helpless
my friend and i went shopping together one day and we both got some without our mothers knowing... its been almost a year and my mom hasnt found out yet
Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him?
aww he sounds soo wonderful.
give him a shot!! let him see the real you, if he doesnt like it, too bad for him.
much love
lea♥
k, so i alread asked this question but the link didnt work.
so im gonna try this again
(dont scream)
http://tinypic.com/ei1d93.jpg
thats a picture of me..and if that picture doesnt work, my hair is almost shoulder length, black, and parted to side, so my bangs go over one eye, and they are a bit shorter than the rest of my hair.
saturday i have a hair appointment to get a trim, thin, and styled for homecoming, and my question is, how should i get it styled? i have no idea what would look nice. my dress is black with some pink, and its long with speghetti straps.
ill rate you 5 unless your mean.
thanks in advance.
its totally cute the way it is!!
much love
lea♥
im mad b/c these two gurl at my school call me a slut and a whore and stuff like that and i dont know why b/c im really not and on top of that i dont even talk to them so i dont know how they would know anything about me i hate them like really hate them i dont know if i wanna get even with them or just get rid of them any ideas on either way would be helpful please thnx
get the master key from one of the offices.. ( you could tell them you need to change lockers and you need the master) and take out some of their books or toilet paper the inside of it then close the locker and relock it like nothing happend.
I love my boyfriend so much but he is always grounded And the only time I get to see him is at school and we live in the same naiborhood too. so its so gay He gets grounded for stupid resoms to (because his step dad is a dick) We the thing is, i want to break up with him because I never get to see him we dont have any classes together or anything. but the problem is I dont know how and I would like to be friends with him after words. how can I break up with him and stay friends
14 female
ask him before you break up if you did ever break up if you'd still be close. thats what i did with my boyfriend,cause i still love him,cause he's soo awesome but i dont want to be with him. my new boyfriend totally understands too.then tell your boyfriend why you want to break up and that maybe when you were older you could hang out more.
*i hope everything works out*
I've been researching cell phone plans for my brother and I.
I don't want to base my decision only on price but also on service.
So my question is what cell phone company has the best service?
NEVER EVER EEVER EVER get NEXTEL. THEY SUCK SOOOO MUCH. I DONT HAVE SERVICE LIKE OVER 50% OF THE TIME!!! DO NOT GET NEXTEL NO MATTER WHAT.