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I am 21/f and I've really fucked up. About 2 years ago, I met this guy. We'll call him Fred. Fred is 26 and EXCEPTIONALLY handsome. Probably(definitely) the most handsome man I've ever met. So that was my initial attraction. We hung out a few times over the years but never hooked up or anything. Then at some point he stated that he was looking for a roommate so he and I moved in together about 7 months ago. Its been going great and I really like living with him. I've also gotten to know him a lot better. He's so sweet and kind and he's just unlike anyone I've ever met. We haven't had any issues except one thing; we began having sex about 2 months ago. We've spoken about it and we're both aware that we've broken a major rule about living with the opposite sex. We use protection but we're not exclusive or anything. Besides the little girl inside me wanting to share the sexy secret with all my friends, nobody knows.
And this wouldn't be an issue either but somethings happened that I completely saw coming; I think I'm in love with him. Its not just the sex or the fact that he's got looks like johnny depp on steroids, he shows that he cares about me in little ways and since we live alone together, its easy to notice the small things. I know he doesn't feel the way I do though, and why should he? He's ready to get all his shit in one pile and I feel sick thinking that I've trapped him in this position. It would be so easy to just stop sleeping with him but the sex is so good. Its fantastic and I've never had sex like this with anyone. We experiment and he's so open to new things and we talk and its just so new to me. I've only slept with one other man my entire life and I never enjoyed it. Not like this. I think about this whenever I'm awake. I dream about it when I'm asleep. I'm like obsessed and I don't want to be. I don't think its fair to Fred. We've talked a few times about it but I can just tell he doesn't care for me like I do him. I can deal with never becoming anything more for him, but I can't deal with the guilt that is accompanying me alongside with this INTENSE and CORRODING pleasure. And I can't deal with the thought that our entire friendship in general could get fucked up just because I'm a lovesick harlot. I hate myself for doing this but I'm already in so deep. I don't want to quit. I know I have to though. Its gonna be so difficult though :(( What should I do? Do I move out? Is there anything I can do to keep my emotions from getting in the way of his life? Is it possible for us to keep a sexual relationship going if we're still living together?
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If you don't ask for what you want, and don't pursue it, you're never going to get it. Things will continue on the way that they are going, unless you try to change them.
I would have a talk with him. Let him know that you're interested in him romantically and that you don't want it to be just about sex anymore. If he says that he isn't interested in a relationship, move on. Move out, if you have to. Find someone who will give you what you want.
I know it's easier said than done, and I'm sorry you're going through this.
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We used a condom correctly. The condom didn't break or anything. And i'm 19 days late. It was his first time in 5 years. What is your opinion? (link)
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Condoms should be 98% effective, if used correctly, so while it is unlikely that you are pregnant, 19 days is quite a long time for your period to be late.
If it helps, mine was once two weeks late for no particular reason.
Regardless, you might want to go get a pregnancy test. It's best to get a couple of them, as they can screw up sometimes.
I hope everything turns out well!
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So im 15/f and my friend is 15/m. However, im gonna be a junior and he's gonna be a sophomore in hs. And he gets bullied a lot! He's short and small and has some issues like if you met him you could understand why he gets bullied. These douchebags at school always pick on him, beat him up and no one does anything about it. Hes also very sensitive and I Just want to help him get tougher skin and to help him stop getting bullied
However, i dont know how to do this because i also get picked on all.the.time. I get racist jokes, jokes about my name, these guys always pick on me in class. Its never ending torture, i mean tbh i dont care and i dont really get upsrt cause theyre just idiots and i just laugh with them cause i think some r just joking and r just assholes in general but for the new year coming up, i want it to stop so i can actually pay attention in class and not feel nervous all the time cause of them. I dont want to use any teacher or parental help cause they dont help they just make things worse..trust me none of these kids care about getting in trouble but if they knew u got them in trouble..well theyd just be worse. So how do me and my friend get respect and make them stop? Should i stop laughing and ignore them? Should my friend get fit so he can take them? Or something? Idk please help and remember how kids can be and dont just give the "Professional" answer but something that can actually work. So yeah sorry this was long but thanks for helping! (link)
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Hi! First of all, I am so very sorry that people are so mean to your friend. I was bullied in middle school, so I think I can relate to you.
For me, the bullying kind of went away on it's own, when I got to high school. But since that is not your case, here's an article I think you should read. Some people are easy targets for bullies, and I'm one of them. This article helped me realize why I was a target and I think it's helped me protect myself. Here's the link, it's lengthy, but worth it;
https://bullies2buddies.com/Student-s-Manual/how-to-stop-being-teased-and-bullied-without-really-trying-intro.html
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I think she has some type of mental disorder but she will not go to the doctor and she doesn't think that she's crazy. She wants nobody to help her. She's scared to stay by herself because she thinks that her whole neighborhood is out to get her. Her house is falling apart, she has junk everywhere she's a hoarder. Her roof has holes in it and her walls are literally splitting apart at the corners. She refuses to get someone to look at her house cause she knows it will be condemned. She thinks that her neighbors are climbing on her roof and getting into her basement. She thinks that they are throwing heat and hydrochloric acid at her and her house.
She has No type of air conditioning and she refuses to leave her house. It REALLY so hot and she sweats a lot all she has is fans that blow hot air. She thinks her neighbors are trying to KILL her because she thinks they are throwing chemicals on her and her house and they are messing with the weather. She gets so scared that she wants somebody to stay with her. But her house is not safe or comfortable for someone to live in. She wants me to move in but I've stayed a couple of nights cause she was scared. Her electricity doesn't work in most rooms, she has plumbing problems and she doesn't want to leave her house. She thinks her neighbors stay up 24/7 with machines blowing over her house to tear it down and make it hot. She keeps a gun laying around and all she does it talk about how her neighbors are trying to destroy her house and kill her.
She has loads of trash and junk ALL over her house, she thinks they're antiques. She says her neighbors are sneaking in her house when she's not there. Her front and back doors to her house are raggedy and easy to get in. No one is going in her house! She thinks people are in her basement. She has so much junk in her house you can barely walk in some places.
She constantly sprays water inside and outside her house and its tearing her house aopart because she thinks it stops her crazy neighbors. She's always pointing broke remotes around the house. She thinks that people can see her through her TV. She thinks her neighbors put cameras in her house and they watch her. She also thinks they are watching her through the TV.
I don't know what to do about my grandma. She wants me to live with her and I can't. I have to go to school and stuff. She talks about her neighbors 24/7 and if you don't agree with her she will get angry and say she's not crazy. If she does see a doctor about this she will not take medicine. I don't want for her to have to live in a nursing home when she gets older & I know her house is going to get condemned. She throws trash on her walls and floors
I think she's going to get crazier when she gets older. My whole family thinks she's crazy. I just can't explain it all. What do we do about her? (link)
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I'm sorry about what's happening. I know how scary and sad it is to have something like this happen to someone you love.
It does sound like paranoia, or schizophrenia. It could be any number of things, but those are my best guesses. Luckily, there is medication for such things.
I would get into contact with her doctor (or have your parents do it) and see what her options are. They may be able to hospitalize her for a while, until the medication (which they'll force her to take in the hospital) begins to work. I know it seems kind of mean but it may be the best option.
Good luck!
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I just got a retainer today after a year and a half of braces. my retainer is the see through one without any metal. I have just spent a week after they took my braces off without anything on my teeth, no brace, no retainer (it took them a week to make the retainer). and when i put the retainer on it didnt really hurt. it felt a bit uncomfortable but only for the first 2 hours or so. so doesnt this mean that my teeth dont move as mush as other people's, because after having a week to move out of place, they remained pretty neat. if this is so, does it mean i can go easy on the 24/7 six month rule of wearing my retainer? if my teeth dont move that much, can i wear them only at night? taking them off and washing them every time i eat will be a huge pain, and ive learnt that my orthodontists exaggerate a little - i didnt listen to many of their rules on braces. (link)
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I only wear mine at night, but they're made of very thick, hard plastic - I can't talk in them, they're designed for sleeping. I also have permanent retainers (thin metal strips behind my upper and lower front teeth). I rarely wear my retainer to bed, but I have a permanent retainer in to keep my teeth straight, which I think is what has allowed me to skip using the retainer.
Maybe you don't have to go 24/7, but I think you should wear it for some time every day. Braces aren't fun, and it would suck if all of the work of the braces was ruined because you didn't feel like wearing your retainer. Some people can get away with not following any of the rules, and some people can't.
I wouldn't risk it :/
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. . . So I'm into this guy in my foreign language class, and now that the school year's ending, I want to ask him out---or at least suggest it (without actually SUGGESTING it) so that he asks me. We're both juniors in high school, btw!
Here's a little background information:
. . . In our class participation is highly encouraged to practice speaking Spanish, and the two students who participate the most in class are him and I. We used to sit at opposite ends of the class---our teacher purposely did that because we talk too much---and whenever there'd be something funny or fascinating happening during class, I noticed he would always look at me/we would make eye contact, as if we were laughing with each other. I didn't think too much of it then.
. . . Last week we were given the option to choose our seats for the rest of the school year since there's only a few weeks left. The guy chose the seat right next to mine, and now we can talk to each other more easily. For the last week and a half we've been watching a lot of episodes from a spanish soap opera in class, and every time something funny happens he would laugh and make eye contact with me, holding it for a few seconds.
. . . Now, I don't know if I'm reading too much into it, but I think he may be interested in me. I feel like the way he acts in class sort of gives it away that he likes me, but I also don't want to be wrong, you know? Outside of class he's never really made an effort to speak to me, unless we were both already somewhere (like if we see each other on campus or are at a school event). But even at those times, it's just small talk.
. . . We're both into the same things. We both like a lot of the same bands, and we have the same favorite shows/movies. We have the same kind of personality too. We get each other's sense of humor, which a lot of other people don't. He's in a band and I'm a musician, so we both appreciate good music. We also dress pretty similar (like guy/girl versions of each other). But we're not too much the same that it would start to get boring.... So now all I'm thinking is, like, "match-made-in-heaven", you know? LOL jk. I think we'd just be really good together.
. . . Anyways, he has an outgoing personality (so do I), but when it comes to girls I know he's more on the shy side (as am I when it comes to boys). Also, I have been told by multiple people that he may be intimidated by me and afraid of asking me out because---and I don't mean to be conceited---I am out of his league. They say that I'm much more attractive than him, so he probably assumes I'm just not interested.
. . . I really don't know what to do because I would really like to hangout with him sometime alone so that we could have an actual conversation, but I don't know how to propose the idea. I just don't know how to go about it... What would be the right time, the right place? What would I suggest we do on this "date" or "hang" or whatever..
. . . Does he even like me?
. . . Your advice and personal experience would be much appreciated! Thanks so much. (link)
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Have you tried talking to him outside of class? The easiest thing to do is to message him on Facebook (if you both have Facebook accounts) and ask him a question about class. It could be anything homework or material related, doesn't really matter. Then, mention something that you both enjoy, like some kind of inside joke that you may have. Link him to a show he might like, or a song he might be into, etc. It's an easy transition from small-talk to personal conversation.
If he's not on Facebook or you don't want to do that, you could always just ask him what he's doing over the summer, and mention that you guys should hang out. Even if he doesn't want to, he wouldn't flat-out say no. As summer approaches, give him your number and ask him to text you, or ask for his so you guys can make plans :)
Good luck!
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My sister is 11 years old. Believe me, she isn't a child anymore. She knows more than I do tbh.
And she's been so closed up lately and quiet. I know her as a happy kid always smiling. But today I found out she wants to be like those way to skinny models. My mother once had to take laxative. And she used that too today...my mum hid it though. I found it in her room. I don't know what to do I'm actually really worried and panicked. She always says she isn't hungry and skips meals
She needs help :(
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You should express your concerns to your parents. A lot of girls begin to develop eating disorders around the start of puberty, and it sounds like that may be happening to your sister.
Of course, only a doctor can diagnose her. I would talk to your parents about your concerns and hopefully they will get her to a doctor or a therapist.
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(This might have only showed in North America, but I'm not sure)
Ok so I want to find this commercial for fun memories, but I can't seem to find it. It might've showed in some time of 2004-2006 but I don't know for sure. Here's how the commercial went:
All I remember is that it was in black and white, and there was this lady (Might've had short hair) and she was playing her phone messages and during that time, she kept walking up and down the stairs. It might've been something for depression (Or something similar). Can you please help me find this commercial or give me the name? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Was it about debt or something? Because I do remember one where a woman is walking around, she's on the phone with a creditor, and he says something like, "We noticed you've only been making the minimum payment..." and she's like "Is that okay?" and the person on the phone is like, "Well yes, but it's coming later and later" something like that?
I feel like it was in black & white and I don't believe she was on the stairs, but near them.
I'm probably off, but there's an idea.
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I am a 17 year old boy. I have been with my girlfriend for about 5 months now. When we first started dating, she was really into me but I was still a bit iffy, which probably was a mistake. Since then, she has really fallen in love with me and tells me often, but I don't quite feel the same way. I do love her and care about her a lot, but just don't feel as good about the relationship as I used to. The only thing is, dating me took her out of a deep struggle of depression which included lots of self-harm. She is very happy to be with me, but I am scared that I am her only sense of happiness and breaking up with her will send her back into depression and she may hurt herself, or worse. The one time we discussed breaking up, she cut herself, but then regretted it and told me she would never do it again. But still. What do I do? I feel pressured to stay in the relationship, and I am still not 100% sure if I want it to end. (link)
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I'm a girl, but I've been in a similar position. My (now ex) boyfriend used to talk about suicide whenever we would get into arguments. I wasn't entirely sure that I wanted to break up with him, and I was worried that he would attempt suicide, so I was also afraid of breaking up with him. Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore, and I broke up with him. He didn't take it well, but he didn't harm himself, either.
First of all, you have to be 100% sure you want to break up. Otherwise, you may quickly get back together and have one of those annoying on-again, off-again relationships. I would talk to a friend about your reasons for wanting to call it quits, and then asking them what you should do. If you hesitate at their answer (like if they say you should stay together, and you start thinking of reasons why you SHOULDN'T be together, then you probably truly don't want to be with her, and vice-versa).
I would also speak to her about it. If you're familiar with any of her friends, perhaps they can help you with this; talk to her about how you want her to be happy, but you really feel like you need time to be single. Tell her that you'd like to get her into therapy (if she isn't already) and that you would help her talk to her parents, etc. Offer yourself up as a non-romantic support system. You need to help her find other ways of being happy that don't involve you. Her friends/family can help with that.
Good luck!
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We're really sure that we didn't do other sexual activity aside from dry humping. I'm just confused because the hpt we took got a faint positive and appeared beyond the recommended time indicated in it's package. Do you think it is a false positive? (link)
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Sperm can technically travel through underwear, but I don't think it can travel through clothing. That being said, anything is possible. Is it likely that you're pregnant? Nope.
False positives are not uncommon. I think you should take 2 more tests and see what happens. I highly doubt that you are pregnant, but it's important to check anyways.
Good luck! I hope everything turns out well :)
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My boyfriend talks for hours with a girl..she is in of his age and they are 2 years older than me..what should i do? (link)
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He obviously has some sort of emotional attachment to her. As your boyfriend, you should be the girl he is most strongly attached to emotionally (aside from his mother or something).
You also have to consider the length of your relationship. Is she his best friend? Have the known each other for much longer than you've been dating? If your relationship is new, it may make sense that he's a little more attached to her right now - as he would be with any friend.
However, if you feel like something is wrong - and it sounds to me like you do - then something probably IS wrong. Do you feel like, although you have a sexual and romantic connection with him, he values his conversations and time with her more? That's an issue.
I would talk to him about it. Don't make accusations or start a fight, as that will make you sound a little crazy. But you could say something like, "Hey, I know you talk to *her name* a lot, and I get it that you guys are just friends, but it makes me feel sort of bad. I feel like you and I don't talk as much with each other. I just want you to know that you can tell me anything, and I'll never judge you or get angry. So, you shouldn't feel uncomfortable discussing anything with me."
This way, you're not blatantly saying that you feel insecure. You're making it sound like you hope that HE is comfortable. In any sensitive conversations, avoid making "YOU" statements, i.e. "You make me feel like X" even if it's true. Use "I" statements, such as "When X happens, I feel like Y." That way he won't feel attacked, and fewer arguments will ensue.
Good luck!
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How do i get rid of dandruff. I have a bunch and im getting tried of it. When i wash my hair it comes out parctially. Whats the best way to get rid of themm (link)
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Dandruff shampoo helps a ton. Head & Shoulders is a great brand, so is Selsun Blue. You can get them at any drugstore for the same price as regular shampoo.
Dandruff may be caused by dry skin, but, weirdly enough, it can also be caused by oily, irritated skin. Another cause is fungus.
If drugstore shampoos don't work, you might want to take a trip to the dermatologist, or even your regular doctor. I don't know what the regular doc can do, but a dermatologist can prescribe special dandruff shampoo.
I have/had bad dandruff, and I use prescription dandruff shampoo once or twice a month. It's cleared pretty much everything up. The rest of the time I use regular shampoo or drugstore dandruff shampoo.
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I'm a 13 year old girl. I am straight. I have some acne (not tht bad), I have long brown hair with blonde highlights, I weigh 103 and I am 5'7. People refer me as independent, cute, awkward, funny, shy, sweet, nice, beautiful, smart, optimistic, cool and fun to be around. I have been on the honor roll since 6th grade(in 8th grade right now). I like dance, track, playing guitar, video games, photography and singing. I am not popular but I am certainly not on the bottom of the list. Why won't boys ask me to be their girlfriend, is there something wrong with me? (link)
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Guys will typically look for girls who are similar to themselves. Think about the guys who are asking girls out at your age. Would it be safe to say that they're mostly very popular, athletic boys?
Yes, there may be an odd couple here and there, but for the most part, wouldn't you agree that the types of guys I described above are the ones that ask girls out?
That being said, you seem like a very academic, mature, scholastically involved and motivated girl. Unfortunately, the academic, mature, scholastically involved and motivated boys are often thinking more about all of the above than about girls - for now.
In high school, their focus will turn more to dating, and that's when you'll start getting asked out. There's nothing wrong with you. Enjoy not dating. Once you've started to date, there's no going back to not-dating, you know? Even if you stop actually going out on dates, your experiences and feelings towards guys totally change.
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so I have this gym teacher in high school who is young, (younger than 30 I think) really pretty and good looking and red headed (I love red heads) and she teaches gym and Health and so we are doing the swimming unit and while in the pool she was walking around and she then said to me and some of my friends later that she likes the swimming unit the most because she likes to look at all the boys without their shirts on in the water and it gives her lots to look at. I honestly have zero problem with what she said, but if some kid who was around me heard it decides to go and cry to someone about it, will she get in trouble?
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I doubt that anyone overhearing the conversation would report it. If it doesn't make the people she was talking to feel uncomfortable, why would anyone overhearing it get involved?
I can see how overhearing it may make someone feel slightly uncomfortable (I wouldn't want to hear that the teacher was checking out people in my class). BUT even if she was reported, which I highly doubt, likely nothing will happen because;
1. The kids she was actually talking to didn't complain, and
2. anyone overhearing it could've easily heard it out of context, so their testimony isn't very valid.
If she was reported, I think that at worst she may get a stern lecture on behaving appropriately in the classroom. She's young so she doesn't have too much experience teaching yet.
However, I am not a teacher and know nothing of the inner-workings of school systems, so I may be totally wrong about everything.
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My friend is 5 feet (Like me) and she's 12. I'm her height, but we're different ages so... She worrys about her weight and I'm just curious on how much a 12 year old 5 foot tall female should weigh. Thanks! (link)
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I checked a BMI chart (it tells you how much you should weigh for your height) and you could be up to around 130 pounds without being considered overweight.
However, you shouldn't really worry too much about the "correct" weight for your height, because a lot of things contribute to weight, not just fat. Muscle, for instance, weighs more than fat, but takes up less space (it's denser). So one of my athletic friends with the same height as me may weigh more than me but still be thinner.
So even though you can technically look up the "correct" weight for your height online, you really should see a doctor. You may be considered overweight for your age, but your doctor may say that your weight is OK for you.
I don't recommend trying to diet on your own, especially at your friend's age (I'm guessing it's close to yours). If she's really concerned, she should speak to an adult that can help her go to the doctor or put her on a reasonable diet.
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well i have a quaetion i need someone to give me edvice i had sex with my boyfriend the weekend just past and he nutted i ran stright to the bathroom and all of it came out i wiped it out and everthing. but a while after my stomachh starting hurtin a lil it was a day after i suppose to came on my period and i didnt i came on 29 i usually comes on the 25 am i pregnant? (link)
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I don't think you're pregnant. Aside from being late, does your period look normal? If so, you're probably fine, and the delay probably came from being stressed out.
Please, please use protection next time. Pregnancy is serious, as well as the risk of STDs.
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Theres a guy that was my boyfriend for a year. We ended up breaking up but he is still madly in love with me. I don't really know if i love him but i care about him alot. We are taking a break from talking for a week and it is super hard for him. I feel kind of relieved to have this time to myself. I already show that i don't have loving feelings with him anymore. Whenever i show him that i don't feel right anymore in this situation, he gets super sad and i can't take it; i'm always feeling awful. I don't know how to push myself to stop showing signs of affection. By me staying and pretending to still have feelings for him is confusing him. I feel like i'm playing with his emotions. I need to stop but i don't know how. I really don't want to hurt him, it kills me. Someone please help i'm going insane. (link)
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Something similar happened to me.
Eventually, I cut off all communication with the guy. He blocked my number, we didn't talk on Facebook, we didn't talk when we saw each other in person, etc. This went on for over six months, until he really felt ready and comfortable to talk to me without getting depressed.
It's really hard - it may be harder on you than him. But it is probably best for him not to talk to you. It's easier to get over someone when you do not constantly have to think of them.
That is the ultimate way to stop showing affection, but it needs to be his choice, too. Tell him that you care about him as a friend and you cherish the time you spent together; but you believe that it is in his best interest to take an break from speaking to and seeing you. Ask him if he thinks you're right.
He will probably resist at first, but once you demonstrate that you are really over him and that he has no choice but to move on, he may choose to stop speaking to you for some time.
Good luck!
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i have a friend.. we have been friends for a while now and we seem to be getting closer.. i went over to his house and we were messing around, there was a little bit of eye contacts,hugging n tickling and he got a boner after this.. whats does this mean?does he like me or what??
P.S i REALLY REALLY like him(more than a friend) (link)
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I think he could like you, but him getting a boner isn't an indication. The fact that there was hugging and tickling is what makes me think he may like you.
Guys get boners when they are aroused. They can get boners at the doctor's office, but it doesn't mean that they like their doctors.
I think if you guys mess around, he probably likes you.
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So some one put a phone in my moms name and is sending people messages talking crap. Pretending to be her how could we find out who it is and or what can we do about it please answer asap
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Whoever is doing this is using an app (like on an iPhone or an Android) that allows them to text or call someone, and make it look like it's coming from any other phone number. I don't remember the name of the app, but something like this happened to me, and the police ended up getting involved.
I would call the police and let them know that something is up. Even if the person sending the messages isn't doing anything illegal, in case they decide to do something illegal, making sure the police are aware of your situation protects you.
Also, they can figure out who is making the calls via a cell phone provider - you don't have the power to do that. I think calling the police is your safest and best bet.
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I wrote a question a few weeks back about my neighbor at school that I have grown to think was quite cute. He acts like he's into me and everything so that's good. The only thing is, we can not speak to each other. It's terrible. Every time we pass each other in the hall, we are too bashful to barely even look at each other. We all just returned from a seven week Christmas break and before I left, my roommate wrote a note telling him my number and signing it "Santa's Little Helper" and stuck it on his door before we all left for break. Well, seven weeks later, we all returned from break. He didn't text me once and he still can't look at me. I don't know what went wrong. The side of my residence hall has wing meetings a few times and the last wing meeting before break, he sat right next to my door and my CA said he was the first one out and he chose to sit next to my door. My roommate, of course, went to sit across the hall so the only place left was next to him. I sat down, listened in on the meeting and after it was over, my roommate said he was looking at me the entire time. So, I think he's into me, he may not be.. I was never good at this kinda thing. But if he is into me, why didn't he text or call me? It makes me think he thinks I'm so big weirdo that, like, stalks him. Any intake is appreciated. 18/f. Thanks! (link)
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Well, if he didn't like you, he wouldn't have anything to be shy about, right?
I think he likes you but is VERY, VERY shy and perhaps a bit inexperienced. Leaving little notes and giving him hints is not going to help. You need to be direct. I know you said you also have a hard time even just looking at him, but one of you has to suck it up, and you can only force yourself to do that.
Next time you see him, strike up a conversation. It can be about anything - the way the hall smells, the weather, etc. At the end of it, you can ask, "Hey, can i text you sometime?" and get his number.
Worst thing that could happen is he says no, and everyone moves on :)
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