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Didn't turn out as I expected.
I wrote a question a few weeks back about my neighbor at school that I have grown to think was quite cute. He acts like he's into me and everything so that's good. The only thing is, we can not speak to each other. It's terrible. Every time we pass each other in the hall, we are too bashful to barely even look at each other. We all just returned from a seven week Christmas break and before I left, my roommate wrote a note telling him my number and signing it "Santa's Little Helper" and stuck it on his door before we all left for break. Well, seven weeks later, we all returned from break. He didn't text me once and he still can't look at me. I don't know what went wrong. The side of my residence hall has wing meetings a few times and the last wing meeting before break, he sat right next to my door and my CA said he was the first one out and he chose to sit next to my door. My roommate, of course, went to sit across the hall so the only place left was next to him. I sat down, listened in on the meeting and after it was over, my roommate said he was looking at me the entire time. So, I think he's into me, he may not be.. I was never good at this kinda thing. But if he is into me, why didn't he text or call me? It makes me think he thinks I'm so big weirdo that, like, stalks him. Any intake is appreciated. 18/f. Thanks!
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Well, if he didn't like you, he wouldn't have anything to be shy about, right?
I think he likes you but is VERY, VERY shy and perhaps a bit inexperienced. Leaving little notes and giving him hints is not going to help. You need to be direct. I know you said you also have a hard time even just looking at him, but one of you has to suck it up, and you can only force yourself to do that.
Next time you see him, strike up a conversation. It can be about anything - the way the hall smells, the weather, etc. At the end of it, you can ask, "Hey, can i text you sometime?" and get his number.
Worst thing that could happen is he says no, and everyone moves on :)
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